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Stawr
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posted August 31, 2011 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
wow .. lol Stawr, you're not one for serious relationships are you?

But then again you have a Gem venus hahaha.


Actually Venus is in Pisces, but my rising sign is Gemini.

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Lotis White
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posted August 31, 2011 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very interesting. I’m noticing a lot of people are identifying more with their Juno then Venus, and it’s not what I expected… So to pose another question… which do you feel is more dominating in influence… your Juno or Venus placement? Or both in different ways?

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posted August 31, 2011 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn Venus, Sagittarius Juno, definitely attracted more to Saturn energy than Jupiter.

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posted August 31, 2011 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
fire opal said “If you have a Venus in one sign and a Juno in another, but the man has two completely different signs is that a dealbreaker in and of itself?”

When talking about Venus and Juno, I’m referring more to the style of the person then to the signs themselves specifically. The actual signs prominent in the partners chart seem to resonate more strongly with the relationship houses… you know, the 7th, 8th and 5th house cusps, their rulers, and planets in those houses…

if Venus were ruling any of these houses then, yes, in terms of actual signs likely to turn up in the partners chart, Venus would be significant. If Venus is not connected to one of the relationship houses, it usually seems to refer to simply the type of ‘glamour’ that attracts you, and the types of experiences you appreciate in the relationship.

Juno placements, as Juno doesn’t rule any houses, seem to simply refer to qualities that we insist upon having in a partner if the relationship is to be serious… Juno is the committed spouse. They may not be born of the Juno sign itself, but they will have those qualities one way or another… actually, I have noticed that the Juno sign does often show up in the partners chart, but sometimes not in an obvious way…. Like not as the Sun, Moon or Asc sign (although I have noticed this too)… but Juno in Scorp might marry a person with a stellium in the 8th house, or a Juno in Cap may select a mate that has strong Saturn aspects in the chart, or Juno in Taurus may commit to someone with only Venus in Taurus…. Sometimes it’s even something like Juno conjunct an angle… even the partners Dsc…


This is amazing. i have venus-mars-sun in cancer. my juno in Libra. I have such an adoration for Libras.. I knew it!!!! there was something with them..

the funny thing... the man I still adore. my last partner. he is libra...but wait...his juno is in cancer in 5th house.. my juno in libra in 6th.. his venus in virgo

I am impressed...

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posted August 31, 2011 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Very interesting. I’m noticing a lot of people are identifying more with their Juno then Venus, and it’s not what I expected… So to pose another question… which do you feel is more dominating in influence… your Juno or Venus placement? Or both in different ways?

I think both in different ways...like i feel good about being protected with my mars-venus cancer..but i see libra as a man.

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posted August 31, 2011 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus over juno for me but it's my dominant.

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posted August 31, 2011 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel like Venus is how we act when we like/love someone.

Like sometimes I get all dreamy and stuff. Maybe shy and smiley, or do really nice favors, or just be witty-tastic. lol

And I feel like Juno is like our standards.

(Feel free to correct me if you disagree cause I am no astrologer honey. haha)

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posted September 01, 2011 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ This Venus/Juno comparison/deal breaker thread is subjective anyway, there's no right answer.

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posted September 01, 2011 05:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My JUno is in Sagittarius.
I definitely feel I identify more with Sagittarius in romantic liasons, than with Capricorn (Venus).

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Lotis White
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posted September 01, 2011 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stawr said “And I feel like Juno is like our standards.”

I think you have a point. Juno is a deal breaker in the sense that she represents our standards, and our objective evaluations of what is important for commitment… I also think that Juno has something of a magnetic quality, that attracts and pulls you in… but it may depend on other chart factors as to how strongly you feel her…

However weather or not you like your Juno sign in a romantic light, I’m wondering how aspects to Juno feel, do they inspire a sweet attraction and dedication/respect as I’d imagine they do…

And another thing, the Magi astrology people claim that Juno/Venus in the natal is supposed to be all sexual and possibly a promiscuous ‘femme fatale’ type. Well I have this Juno/Venus conjunction in the 1st house with in about 2 degrees and I am most certainly not this way at all. If anything I am the quintessential ‘good girl‘, and would only give myself to a man once committed for the long term. So in terms of meaning, I’m inclined towards the traditional notion of Juno as loving commitment, rather than Juno as the sex bomb!! Sorry Magi people but my chart doesn’t fit your mold!

To be fair my Venus is also opposite Jupiter, trine Saturn, semi-square Uranus, and quincunx the Moon… all within about a 1 degree orb…

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posted September 02, 2011 05:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sabian for my juno in 8th house. err k i don't think i'd like to be married now LOL!

PHASE 88 (GEMINI 28°): THROUGH BANKRUPTCY, SOCIETY GIVES TO AN OVERBURDENED INDIVIDUAL THE OPPORTUNITY TO BEGIN AGAIN.

KEYNOTE: A release from unbearable pressures, freeing one for new tasks.

This symbol can easily be misinterpreted, for while it obviously has a connotation of failure, it nevertheless depicts a particular state of the complex relationship of an individual to his community. The bankruptcy proceedings mentioned here should not be construed as referring to a fraudulent type of bankruptcy. At least in the United States bankruptcy does not imply a moral condemnation; rather, it means that individual failure cannot be separated from the health of the community. The special nature of the whole is implied in the failure of the part to perform adequately under particularly harsh economic conditions. A society which enthrones the principle of ruthless competition must also develop mechanisms to exteriorize the principle of compassion. The latter was at first emphasized by Northern Buddhism, and soon after by Christianity. The concept of atonement is directly related to that of release from unbearable economic pressures in bankruptcy.

This is the third stage in the eighteenth sequence of cyclic phases. In the first two stages we have seen the emergence of a new consciousness based on leaving behind the externals of bio-psychic living in its at least relatively wild and exuberant aspect. Here we have another kind of "leaving behind," a LIBERATION FROM THE PAST.

this one is fo my venus in taurus 7th house.

PHASE 37 (TAURUS 7°): THE WOMAN OF SAMARIA AT THE ANCESTRAL WELL.

KEYNOTE: The meeting of the traditional past and of the creative spirit pointing to the future.

The symbol refers to a most important, but usually narrowly interpreted (or interpreted away!) episode of the Christ mythos. Early in his ministry, Jesus meets a Samaritan woman at an ancestral well. This woman belongs to a tribe despised by the Jews; moreover, she is unmarried and therefore on the fringe of even her own society. It is to just that kind of woman that Jesus reveals that he is the Messiah: "I am He," a revelation that he apparently will not bestow even upon his disciples, at least not in words. (Words in occultism are the creative factor.)

What does this mean? Jesus, as the Avatar incorporating the Christ-Impulse, came to replace the old tribal order with a new order based on universal Love. It is not to representatives of, or even to men still attached to, the old order that Jesus could reveal his spiritual, evolutionary and society-transforming status; they had instead to reach a point where they could discover his avatar-ship - as did Peter just before the Transfiguration scene. But to the woman of Samaria - who, in her openness to love's urgings, had already repudiated any narrow subservience to the old order - Jesus could reveal his function. The highest meets the lowest when this lowest is free from traditional bonds and open to love. The creative future descends first to that which has become chaos. An old order is never open to a new Revelation until it has accepted disorder in the name of that Power which subsumes all forms of order, i.e. Love.

In this second stage of the five-fold sequence, a contrasting element enters upon the scene. It is no longer a collective-cultural effort based on past knowledge — as in the preceding symbol — but a "meeting" that introduces into the collective situation a totally new factor which transcends it. A NEW QUALITY OF BEING is revealed which renders the old patterns obsolete.

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posted October 19, 2015 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:

Juno placements, as Juno doesn’t rule any houses, seem to simply refer to qualities that we insist upon having in a partner if the relationship is to be serious… Juno is the committed spouse. They may not be born of the Juno sign itself, but they will have those qualities one way or another… actually, I have noticed that the Juno sign does often show up in the partners chart, but sometimes not in an obvious way…. Like not as the Sun, Moon or Asc sign (although I have noticed this too)… but Juno in Scorp might marry a person with a stellium in the 8th house, or a Juno in Cap may select a mate that has strong Saturn aspects in the chart, or Juno in Taurus may commit to someone with only Venus in Taurus…. Sometimes it’s even something like Juno conjunct an angle… even the partners Dsc…


So true!

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Lunar Pisces
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posted October 19, 2015 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunar Pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting. I have Juno in Cancer and when I was younger I was often attracted to men with strong Cancer....until I matured a bit and got wise. Now I prefer men who have little to no Cancer but who activate my 4th house or how 4th house placements. Yeah baby.

I definitely do need a man who can appreciate and respect my sensitive, nuturing side. What I DON'T need is a man looking for a second mother.

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posted October 20, 2015 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmmmmmm, I have a theory or two about this too.

I have Venus in Pisces, Juno in Libra in my 8H. I've attracted Libras who seemed to want to marry ME very quickly (I say 'marry' facetiously. More like they just were wayyyy ahead of where I was). This made me squirm in a not-good-way and I bailed.

Venus in Pisces is for sure, but I also have strong Neptune and a Mars in Pisces as well. I'm way more attracted to guys with strong water in their charts - BUT I will say, the libra Juno maybe points to my needing (in a future husband) someone who can lay off the intensity. I like water signs but need a breath of fresh air too. So, maybe I just need a solid combo of the two.

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posted October 20, 2015 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sulkyarcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Too critical is a deal breaker for me.

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posted October 20, 2015 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for erickaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
:-).

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