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Topic: Attraction Repulsion
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oceaneyes9
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posted September 23, 2011 10:04 AM
  
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BelligerentPygmy
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posted September 23, 2011 12:05 PM
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Originally posted by oceaneyes9:
What aspects show an extreme push pull?The situation is one that completely puzzles me. I met a man whom i work with and felt one of the most intense attractions i have ever experienced.
In the beginning the attraction seemed mutual, in what i could feel out of the situation. But nothing was spoken.
One day i went to find help with something i was doing and he volunteered and as he was talking to me he was looking at me like he was looking into me.Ive never felt that level of soul connection if i can call it that, it felt so comfortable talking to this stranger i could have sat down and gone on all night.
Anyway, after this something shifted.
The next time i needed help i went to ask him or the person beside him, he was busy so i let it be. He then came over a few minutes after and asked me if i had gotten the help i needed and i hadnt. So he looked through and thoroughly explained to me what to try, then i asked "and if that doesnt work, what do i do" and it was like a steel trap came down and he just coldly went "well then ask someone else im going on break". And from then on, it has been this intense cold wind, like a flip 180 whereby he goes out of his way expressly to avoid me. we never spoke in between time , i never spoke of him or to him or about anything other than work that would make him uncomfortable.
i get the feeling he could feel my attraction, but i clearly felt his too at first. honest 180. what the hell could make this happen? the feeling of it is an intense attraction/repulsion fought with silence and avoidance.
aspects ? thoughts?
I can't remember which member said it, but I think when they mentioned that he got offended, they nailed it. He probably took your "If that doesn't work then what should I do?" as you doubting him and thinking he doesn't know what the hell he's talking about, and that was a blow to his ego so then he went cold on you. At this point I don't even think it's an attraction repulsion thing so much at all, just a misunderstanding. As far as actual attraction and repulsion, I think Pluto has something to do with it, probably in combination with something else. Exactly what though I don't know, it's a good question. But I've definitely noticed that people who trigger my Pluto (or vice versa), there seems to be a weird dynamic there where there's a dislike or hostility but at the same time a 'pull'. IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9
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posted November 06, 2012 01:49 PM
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waxlobster
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posted November 06, 2012 03:00 PM
Surely you can find the date of birth.... I once wrote a list of all the office staff's birthdays so we could make sure we bought them all cards. AND so that I had their astro-data, they were fine with that, they got some free readings from me!!Or you can create a night out and as soon as he does something which appears like a sign attribute mention it, he'll tell you if you're right and if not you can easily ask what he is. You don't have to be covert about it :-) IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 06, 2012 03:17 PM
I agree. Get a list of everyone's birthdays under the pretence you want to buy them little presents or cards etc... IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 06, 2012 03:20 PM
I already answered this thread back in 2011 - as Betty Boop.. but I don't think I mentioned anything astrological.In synastry I would say this push-pull kind of feeling can point to Venus/Venus squares and oppositions. Mars/Mars squares and oppositions. Venus/Mars squares and oppositions. IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9
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posted November 06, 2012 03:58 PM
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Sorcha
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posted November 06, 2012 05:36 PM
Also, Saturn/Mars. There can be a lot of push/pull with those planets in hard aspect.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 06, 2012 06:24 PM
push pull... pluto or uranus aspecting moon, venus, or mars.I don't see an attraction if I'm being honest. If he was going on break and he liked you - he's a guy and would've stayed to help. However, I keep thinking fire sign for some reason. Being that impatient about helping someone and being anxious to leave for their break reminds me of a fire sign. My first guess is Sag, second Aries, and third Leo. IP: Logged |
greatquincunx
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posted November 06, 2012 07:18 PM
You can't even get a bday. I'd just drop it. The interaction was so brief.IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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posted November 06, 2012 11:50 PM
this has sun square pluto all over it!IP: Logged |
Long - standing
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posted November 07, 2012 01:43 AM
1983year Saturn/Pluto conjunction and may be this conj is opposite to Moon or Venus, push pull with every woman..IP: Logged |
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