posted August 31, 2011 11:26 PM            

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Or maybe it's cos you work together and he's smart enough to use his brain lol. They don't end well...

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posted September 02, 2011 04:37 AM            

Is it possible?

I think Capricorn-influenced people get irritated if they have to help over and over... They like women who are self-sufficient.

I'm not saying you are not self-sufficient ^ but maybe you gave him this impression because you asked for his help too many times.

His reaction of - "Then ask someone else.. I'm going to lunch." - tells me that he felt imposed upon and a bit annoyed. Kind of like - "Why can't you do it yourself?"
Not all men like the damsel in distress.

posted September 02, 2011 04:38 AM            

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I have no way of finding out the birthdate/time as much as i wish i could.

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posted September 05, 2011 07:09 PM            

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Originally posted by oceaneyes9:
Betty Boop

I appreciate your insight, and i thought of that as well. The thing is that the first time, i didnt even ask. I went to where the managers were and kinda stood there scanning to see if anyone was available and from a totally different row he called me over to help me.

The second time i went to where he was and asked "are any of you not busy", there were 3 people there. They all were so i went back to my seat and 5 minutes later he came across the room and asked me if i had gotten the help i needed.

I never bothered him really, i dont know if it was possibly perceived differently.

The earth deduction would have definetly worked, except for i am predominantly earth, then water.

Its still possible he felt insulted when when i asked him to go further... i have no access to him anymore anyway though, very unfortunately.

And no, he doesnt have FB . He's very remote, i tried to find out basic things about him and he is so private that his colleagues of years dont even know much.

Do you think possibly it was a defense mechanism?

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posted September 06, 2011 12:51 PM            

personally, i'm both sides of the equation, if i know i'm right it's irritating to have people doubt me, but i also am stubborn and have to try things out myself.

he's a total scorpio. i've had that same fight with my scorpio dad a million times in my life. also, everything you described sounds like my experiences with all except two of the scorpios i know.

posted September 06, 2011 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by oceaneyes9:
Lunatic

He does seem to be quite a secretive person, very self protective is the vibe that i got from him. The lack of self confidence is also something i thought of, he comes off as very secure with himself but it may be a front and i know that when you lack self confidence, interest expressed by someone may be thought of by you as like being mocked or just shying away from it because you don't understand why anyone would be attracted to you.

The way he feels to me, is someone very defensive, very closed off from people but at the same time who yearns for contact but would rather keep their distance. Maybe from shyness, maybe just a natural reserve but it feels like a bit of a complex.

I would have liked to have been able to show him that it was real. Where i worked there was a strange buzz around me, most of the men would flirt with me and few asked me out. He may have sensed it and been annoyed or put off by this, some people are. In some people's head it is a reason to to peg that person as a flighty flirt or conceited, which i am neither. I am actually horribly shy though i try to hide it , so in that regards, it sucks. Two quiet people...

Thank you, though, as little as i had to go off of, it still makes me sad that i will most likely never know what could have come of that incredible feeling.

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you have no idea how much i understand your situation. i'm kind of having the same dilemma.....