posted September 14, 2011 04:48 PM            

ASC - Chiron
Sun- Venus
Moon - Angles

posted September 14, 2011 05:53 PM            

uranus opposed mars for the person i'm speaking of, too, by 8 degrees.

i would suggest looking more into it and trying
to figure out his chart as there'd probably be good information
for you to find out and work through there, yourself!

it more than likely has nothing to do with you
the guy has intimacy issues.

your pluto is also calling the shots
it probably freaks him out that he has no control
and that he can't just sleep with u and dump u as he might want to
it's fun so enjoy the upper hand.

DO maintain your distance though because that pluto and venus
pluto can REALLY just flip his world upside down
and it might not end so good for the venus!
especially if the venus is acting in the way that they do.

but there's something there.
so look into whatever ways you may have acted like him
what kind of history do u have of being freaked out just the same..

you have mars conjunct venus.

that aspect makes you quite attractive but it does at the same time,
indicate someone who may or may not be inclined to one nights
or clandestine affairs

how have u flirted to get your own boost of self esteem
before you got rid of em?

it's probably what he was trying to do with you but then
was thrown for a loop because he couldn't have u
and then you for some reason have a hold on him

...guy also has saturn in his fifth...

tom cruise has saturn in his fifth.

posted September 14, 2011 06:04 PM            

I can understand the need to get to know one another first but you seemed to listen to the gossip and look at his reputation before looking at him as a person. I can't see how close your saturn is to his moon, that is normally a fated meeting but can also make you a bit frosty towards his emotional responses.

Saturn is having its return in the composite which could explain the recent difficulties.

posted September 14, 2011 06:53 PM            

your insights are really helpful, thank you.

posted September 14, 2011 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
Maybe he thought you were playing games with him? If you kissed him but then said no further maybe he thought you were just teasing? He's got a lot of water, so he will be sensitive.

I can understand the need to get to know one another first but you seemed to listen to the gossip and look at his reputation before looking at him as a person. I can't see how close your saturn is to his moon, that is normally a fated meeting but can also make you a bit frosty towards his emotional responses.

Saturn is having its return in the composite which could explain the recent difficulties.

Because you have your moons in opposite signs it's possible you missed one anothers "cues".

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our saturn -moon conjunction is 6 degrees apart, so not that tight...

posted September 14, 2011 07:23 PM            

The moon saturn is more than close enough to be having an effect. He has a scorpio moon and will be very sensitive to emotional undercurrents.

Having your moons in opposition will give you opposite emotional needs, this can work but only when both parties can get where the other is coming from. The moon opposition will have very different emotional responses. It can create intensity but it can lead to difficulties because both parties will find that same intensity difficult to handle.

posted September 15, 2011 10:00 PM            

pluto is not a weak planet.
pluto rules obsessions!
the thing is, that the pluto does not notice it.
for some reason the intensity is too common to them
and to the venus it isn't
so to the venus,
it's sticking out like a sore thumb!

his lashing out is mars in hard aspect to uranus.
i can't see his mercury as i'm typing this..

but the pluto conjunct ur mercury does tend to happen
when both of the individual are going through a life
changing time in their lives.

i don't know if the relationships ever last
but it does help to get deeeeep into things!

conversation can be deep
and so can be manipulation from the pluto
on your mercury.

the lesson is to learn your power
your mental power
learn how to operate it
how to research
how to delve into things
and when to stand your ground
.. all of it deals with how strong your beliefs actually are.

how rooted they are in something sturdy.
any flimsiness or weak spots will be hunted down
and be brought out in to the open.

if the individual is not the best of characters
they can use that to get an upper hand.

saturn in the fifth is anything BUT fifth house!
i have my sun there, natally.

the fifth house saturn person in the forums,
absolutely hated everything i had to post
especially with my sun being so comfortable there
they weren't
they lashed out
truth is though,
even though none of my posts were related to them
they were miserable.
i later found out that they got someone pregnant
and the baby was miscarried.

saturn there REALLY puts a cold hard hand on all of their fifth house dealings!

that goes for tom cruise..
remember when he and katie got together?
he jumped on that couch..

posted September 15, 2011 10:02 PM            

with your pluto in the mix,
it could result in him being fired!
(economically, i don't think anyone wants that; especially these days!)

posted September 16, 2011 04:14 AM            

haha.

What do you want from him? His Aids?

You show some people the mirror and yet they still want to break the glass and slice through their neck.

posted September 16, 2011 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by allouette:
TuxedoMask,

you reminded me of Tom Cruise hmmm don't you think it was a touch of Uranus there?
i found a funny spoof of youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YR0_m9g78I&feature=related

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well, he does have uranus squaring mars as well
maybe you're right