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posted September 18, 2011 01:41 AM            

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"if a scorpio is not admitting it, then he/she might be seriously in love.. that is, if the other person is also only flirting and not admitting it...."

i found this from this thread: Scorpio men- play hard to get? ( http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/000759.html )

so tell me scorpio influenced pipz, is it true for you?
or if you had any experiences with a scorpio, was it anything like this?
i guess this is more likely to happen if you have a scorpio moon or venus...am i right?
cos I have venus in scorpio and i surely act like this when totally in love wid someone, like right now.. i feel like i act more like a scorpio (jealous, obsessive, watching you at a distance lol) than my actual sun or moon sign

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posted September 18, 2011 09:01 AM            

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Haha. In my experience, if a Scorpio man likes you, there will be no doubt in your mind. He will pursue you ardently. However, if you show signs that you are disinterested or if you are rude to them, then they will stop pursuing you; to continue to pursue a woman who is clearly not interested only makes them look foolish and pathetic, which Scorpios abhor.

The exception to this rule is if you came across a Scorpio (or men of any sign) who is extremely desperate to have a woman in their life--any woman-- to the point where he will stop at nothing until he wins you over. If you come across this type, then you, my dear, have got yourself a stalker.

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posted September 18, 2011 10:20 AM            

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The exception to this rule is if you came across a Scorpio (or men of any sign) who is extremely desperate to have a woman in their life--any woman-- to the point where he will stop at nothing until he wins you over. If you come across this type, then you, my dear, have got yourself a stalker.

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ahahha, yep that sounds like a stalker to me lol. maybe that guy you were talking about had some fiery signs in him as you said he was kinda straightforward. but what do you think about those people with scorpio moon or scorpio venus? (aren't these two planets have a greater influence regarding how you handle relationships? i might be wrong as i am no expert in astrology but this is what i basically get when reading astrology )

i have a scorpio venus and my moon is in a fire sign (saggie). but i swear, i sure act like a scorpio right now as i am soooo in love over someone at the moment. Shouldn't my fiery moon do something so that i can admit to this guy that i seriously like him?? or maybe because 3 of my planets are in scorppy?

and btw, this guy that i am talking about has like 5 planets in scorpio(moon and venus including there)....i wonder why he isn't as straightforward as other scorpio guys that everyone is talking about.. very different i swear...i mean he shows that he likes me (some people even think he likes me) but overall, most of the things i get from him are just mixed signals...any ideas why?

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posted September 18, 2011 10:43 AM            

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Put up his chart.

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posted September 18, 2011 10:56 AM            

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Put up his chart.

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dunno his exact time of birth, is that okay? and how can i upload it in here? tnx

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posted September 18, 2011 04:30 PM            

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yeah ahah for sure, i agree with Astra, If a scorpio guy likes you, you will know. Almost more than ANY other sign i have experienced this with scorpio men. When they like you, they will be in your face, making it clear with their extremly sweet compliments and indirect interigation way of asking you everything they might want to know about you. Not to mention watching you like a hawk during the process.

They are men that initiate, so if they dont make the first move, their not interested. And from *my* experience and the ones I;ve known, they like to do the chasing so their not very fond of women who chase them. Their *always* very friendly though so dont mistake that for them being interested.

The difference lies in if they ask you constant personal questions. When ever a scorpio man has liked me he was always *very* persistant in asking me how i was feeling today, if somethign was wrong, and if so he would love to hear about it. They will try to get a personal response out of everything you say to them. Where as in with other females they will be very friendly but not on a very general level.

lol i am a Gemini sun but pluto is prominant in my chart so i understand their ways

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posted September 18, 2011 04:52 PM            

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yeah ahah for sure, i agree with Astra, If a scorpio guy likes you, you will know. Almost more than ANY other sign i have experienced this with scorpio men. When they like you, they will be in your face, making it clear with their extremly sweet compliments and indirect interigation way of asking you everything they might want to know about you. Not to mention watching you like a hawk during the process.

They are men that initiate, so if they dont make the first move, their not interested. And from *my* experience and the ones I;ve known, they like to do the chasing so their not very fond of women who chase them. Their *always* very friendly though so dont mistake that for them being interested.

The difference lies in if they ask you constant personal questions. When ever a scorpio man has liked me he was always *very* persistant in asking me how i was feeling today, if somethign was wrong, and if so he would love to hear about it. They will try to get a personal response out of everything you say to them. Where as in with other females they will be very friendly but not on a very general level.

lol i am a Gemini sun but pluto is prominant in my chart so i understand their ways

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As someone that almost exclusively dates Scorpionic men, I completely agree with all of this.

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posted September 18, 2011 05:36 PM            

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No they're not hard to get. They're sweethearts.

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posted September 18, 2011 06:22 PM            

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My cousin is a Scorpio, and he had his first gf at 23. He's been asked out a few times before but was never interested.. until he got his gf. I'm a Scorpio too and still single as an adult. Idk, i'm just a loner by choice

Scorpios see relationships as All or Nothing, there's no grey/inbetween. Either we do whatever it takes to get that person as others mentioned or we don't want anything to do w/ them.

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posted September 19, 2011 10:13 AM            

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so, scorpios never get confused then? they know what they want and they know what they don't want? they know when someone's interested with them or not? when they fancy someone, they know where they sit in that person's life, they don't have to ask themselves what they really mean to that person because they already know it through their instincts? they don't approach someone they don't have any interests in..oh yes! i forgot, they are a huge flirt..so that means they approach everyone! silly meee..how could i forget that??

i know i've been blabbing about a whole bunch of crap..i even think it's irritating some of you guys as i keep on asking about scorppys..but i am so INTRIGUED by them!!!! and right now, i am cofused as hell!..if you see some of my posts, i'll be talking about this scorppy guy that i like so mucccch. WHY THE HELL IS THIS GUY NOT DOING ANYTHING WHEN CLEARLY, HE SECRETLY LIKES ME??? i can't really put up his chart cos i dunno his time of birth, but anyway almost everyone here keep saying that he'll let you know if he likes you, yeah, he probably doesn't like me cos he's not doing anything but i swear, there's "something" special going on between us. it's like a mutual understanding between us two. he even notices when i am sad when no one else seem to care/notice...i don't wanna make it sound that he likes me just because that's what i wanna hear, i am telling all this based on what i can see him doing...arggghhh, this is killing me!!! or maybe because he's just an un-evolved scorpio??? what does that even mean? we're still in our mid-teens..maybe that's one thing? puhhhh-leeaassee! someone help me out in this tangled scorpionic web!!! anyone? D;

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posted September 19, 2011 10:29 AM            

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so, scorpios never get confused then? they know what they want and they know what they don't want? they know when someone's interested with them or not? when they fancy someone, they know where they sit in that person's life, they don't have to ask themselves what they really mean to that person because they already know it through their instincts? they don't approach someone they don't have any interests in..oh yes! i forgot, they are a huge flirt..so that means they approach everyone! silly meee..how could i forget that??

i know i've been blabbing about a whole bunch of crap..i even think it's irritating some of you guys as i keep on asking about scorppys..but i am so INTRIGUED by them!!!! and right now, i am cofused as hell!..if you see some of my posts, i'll be talking about this scorppy guy that i like so mucccch. WHY THE HELL IS THIS GUY NOT DOING ANYTHING WHEN CLEARLY, HE SECRETLY LIKES ME??? i can't really put up his chart cos i dunno his time of birth, but anyway almost everyone here keep saying that he'll let you know if he likes you, yeah, he probably doesn't like me cos he's not doing anything but i swear, there's "something" special going on between us. it's like a mutual understanding between us two. he even notices when i am sad when no one else seem to care/notice...i don't wanna make it sound that he likes me just because that's what i wanna hear, i am telling all this based on what i can see him doing...arggghhh, this is killing me!!! or maybe because he's just an un-evolved scorpio??? what does that even mean? we're still in our mid-teens..maybe that's one thing? puhhhh-leeaassee! someone help me out in this tangled scorpionic web!!! anyone? D;

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Wow, this guy got you hooked. I'm not a flirt & if any scorpio were to prove that it would be me (Sun, Mars, Pluto Scorpio in the 8H conjunction). It depends on the indivduals chart overall. My advice is look at your Synastry with him and see how the two of you would react to eachother in a relationship. The Moon-Mars-Venus connections are usually the best as some astrologers claim.

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posted September 19, 2011 11:23 AM            

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"if a scorpio is not admitting it, then he/she might be seriously in love.. that is, if the other person is also only flirting and not admitting it...."

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And don't forget.. especially for a scorp-moon this subtle phase is DELICIOUS! And likely also some sort of proof to see how 'fixed' you are (I have Moon/IC/Jupiter in Scorp). Because of their fixedness they will try to keep and enjoy this lovely hot phase as long as possible.. and as they get more trust they will soup it up with their subtle intensity until there's no way they can't control or resist themselves/it/you any longer.. so, do you already notice some subtle progression?

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And don't forget.. especially for a scorp-moon this subtle phase is DELICIOUS! And likely also some sort of proof to see how 'fixed' you are (I have Moon/IC/Jupiter in Scorp). Because of their fixedness they will try to keep and enjoy this lovely hot phase as long as possible.. and as they get more trust they will soup it up with their subtle intensity until there's no way they can't control or resist themselves/it/you any longer.. so, do you already notice some subtle progression?

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subtle progressions? hmmmm...let me see... cos i get jealous very easily so seeing him talking to other girls instead of me makes me soo jealous inside even though i know he doesn't like them (well, that's what he's been telling me, but they're all pretty so im still kind of suspicious haha)... he's telling me which girls he doesn't like at our school, he tell me how he hates their attitude, the way they behave, too girly, snobby all those sort of stuff but he never really told me what he thinks of me.. :/ anyway back to the actual topic! lol. there was this one situation where me and his "old" crush (yes, his previous crush which i believe he now hates so bad because of the way she treated him when she found out that he likes her) asked him about what he got in one of the exams that we just did, he said to me quietly, "i will only tell it to you and not to -------" where his old crush couldn't here it, and i was thinking to myself "wow! that's weird? it feels weird.. it's like he's actually wanna keep something that's just me and him that knows about..keeewwl.." well, that's what i was just thinking, hehehhe..he seem to also don't mind asking questions about my family, like asks me how strict my mum was (when he heard that she was so strict while i was talking to some of my girl friends, he wasn't even there during our conversation), was she really that strict to me, then offers me some advice, which i thought was really thoughtful of him..he has done so many other things but i prefer to tell this one cos i find it sweet some how? hehehe..(that situation almost looked like he picked me over his previous crush! ) *sigh* i just wish he'll just come up and tell me straight up if he likes me or not..it would've been alo t easier hey? btw, mr. scorpio has moon and jupiter in scorio just like you but he also have 3 other planets in that sign including venus

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posted September 19, 2011 12:25 PM            

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i also always try to stand up for him when people make jokes about him that sounded that they've just crossed the line of being funny and insulting..yeah, very protective and we're not even going out...

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posted September 19, 2011 03:46 PM            

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A Scorpio man is interested if he wants to have sex with you (quite early). Thats my experience.

Staring, being around you, being sweet or even asking/sharing a lots of personal things might not mean more than a friendhsip to them, no matter how special the connection feels to you. Or, maybe he IS interested, but for whatever reasons, he fears making a real move.
My experience too, and it was a HARD lesson.

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A Scorpio man is interested if he wants to have sex with you (quite early). Thats my experience.

Staring, being around you, being sweet or even asking/sharing a lots of personal things might not mean more than a friendhsip to them, no matter how special the connection feels to you. Or, maybe he IS interested, but for whatever reasons, he fears making a real move.
My experience too, and it was a HARD lesson.

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but we're still both in high school (we still have 2 weeks left at school then we go to college) ..and he's a very smart guy, he wants to go to uni and get a degree..i'd say he has a lil kinda dirty mind as he jokes about dirty stuff sometimes, but isn't that normal for teen guys?? ahh well.. fair enough i think we'll just become friends forever..i just hope he stops acting as if he likes me sometimes..it's just driving me nutssss </3 and just wanna share this song "'Been Waiting" by Jessica Mauboy, look it up and listen to it.. it explains exactly how i feel right now...please listen to it!

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posted September 20, 2011 10:12 AM            

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Sorry, i didnt know your age, it might be different with a teenage Scorpio, I dont really know about that, becaue my experiences with them came later.

Maybe you could try to detach/distance yourself a bit from him, and see how he reacts.

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posted September 20, 2011 10:36 AM            

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Oopz.. I think he's afraid as hell now for having a crush on someone after what this 'old' crush did when she found out he liked her. Does this old crush have similar traits (too girly snobby etc.) as the girls he's 'hating' so much? Obviously you are not part of 'them' and that's a good sign.
Less rivalry at the least
I feel you both have a genuine care/concern for each other.. well I really can't think of anything better to start with, but.. *patience* is a keyword here!

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Sorry, i didnt know your age, it might be different with a teenage Scorpio, I dont really know about that, becaue my experiences with them came later.

Maybe you could try to detach/distance yourself a bit from him, and see how he reacts.

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ohokayyss..

i've been there, done that.. last year, i tried to distant myself from him as i wanted to focus more on my studies but i just end up hurting my self because he seemed to "sense" that i was trying to distant myself away from him and so he did the same. i did it because the feeling i felt for him was just overwhelming. i couldn't even concentrate on my studies properly.. well, right now, i'm getting exact same feelings like what i had before but i don't wanna push him away anymore, we're back to being friends again and i'd say we became closer than ever.. i still want to be friends with him even if that's all we can be...but the thing is, he's just giving me mixed signals all the time and not really saying anything..what if those shy smiles that he gives to me means more than that? what if it meant something that he couldn't say to me..? i don't want to sound desperate or anything (eventhough i know that i am sounding like one right now), but his actions is definitely speaking louder than his voice... all i'm hoping is for him to do something about it, i know he can feel it too, i can see it.. the way he talks to me, the way he approaches me, the way he secretly steal glances of me when he thinks i won't see him..all these, he just keeps on doing all the time and i am dying inside not knowing where i really stand in his life </3

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Oopz.. I think he's afraid as hell now for having a crush on someone after what this 'old' crush did when she found out he liked her. Does this old crush have similar traits (too girly snobby etc.) as the girls he's 'hating' so much? Obviously you are not part of 'them' and that's a good sign.
Less rivalry at the least
I feel you both have a genuine care/concern for each other.. well I really can't think of anything better to start with, but.. *patience* is a keyword here!

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thanks for the advice mir. yes, most of the girls in my school are kinda girly, wear make up and stuff. to me, i like to be natural, i dont wear make up but i always do my hair..but nothing to girly really..as he is a scorpio, i think he becomes attracted easily to superficial girls but once he get to know them, they're all the same, nothing but b*tches (pardon me for my language ) we're about to leave school in less than 2 weeks, how can i possibly stay calm and and patient and wateverr when we only have that amount of time left? i'm soo heartbrokennnn </3 i don't think i'll ever forget him (cos i think forgetting about him is the only choice for me left, unless i get the courage to tell him straight up that i'm madly inlove with him, which i don't think i can at aaaaalll!!!!! </3)

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posted September 20, 2011 01:43 PM            

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Does he know how you feel about him?

Maybe you could give him an obvious sign that you like him more than a friend. (If you haven't done it yet). It should NOT be dramatic or too emotional though, but in my experiences, Scorpios want their crush to open up first, because they want to be 100% sure that the girl of their dreams wont reject them! So, im thinking about something like asking him out after school, or simply telling him that you like him. Just be simple and honest. So in other words: be YOURSELF!
After that, just give him some time and space, and he will let you know for sure whether he wants more from you or not. But! Let him do it in his way, dont pressure him, rather let it go, and watch!

If you're afraid of rejection or afraid of losing him as a friend, then you can start with some very subtle signs about your interest in him (a special smile, a special look etc.), and see how he reacts. You know, like one small step at a time.

Just listen to your intuition, girl!

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posted September 20, 2011 03:50 PM            

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No, they're not hard to get, at all. I think the Scorpio Moon is hard to get.

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posted September 20, 2011 04:17 PM            

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i wish people would take advice from the people who actually are the signs more than the people who had "some" experience with them. :/

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