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Libreo
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posted October 01, 2011 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Judging from rising signs alone, who do you think would suffer the most pain and take the longest to get over a break up....Pisces or Cancer?

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posted October 01, 2011 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As a Pisces asc, I've only been in 1 serious relationship my whole life. And in that relationship i felt tied down and pressured to do things that i didn't want to do. Funny thing is it wasn't because HE forced me too, but I put this idea in my mind that if i don't this relationship would be over. Though when it did end, I felt free to be myself again, and i wasn't mad about the break-up at all. I guess what i'm trying to say isthat I'm a loner by choice :]

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posted October 01, 2011 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer or Scorpio.

Then again you really have to take the entire chart into consideration. Someone with less fixed emphasis or water activity will probably be quicker to shrug it off and trot on to the next person.

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Libreo
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posted October 01, 2011 01:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, him:
Ascendant - Cancer
Sun - Libra
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Libra
Jupiter - Capricorn
Saturn - Gemini
Uranus - Libra
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra

Her:
Ascendant - Pisces
Sun - Libra
Moon - Leo
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Sag
Moon - Taurus
Jupiter - Aquarius
Saturn - Cancer
Uranus - Libra
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Libra

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posted October 01, 2011 01:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im a SCORP asc. and I am devastated after a break up and it takes forever (a year or more) for me to get over it...but only if I was the one dumped.

If I am the one breaking up with the other, I've BEEN over it so it's no skin off my back.


Anyway, I think that water ASC are like this because they feel betrayal so deeply. Scorp aSc are prob more affected by this because they are the fixed water sign/

All that aside..I think Pisces would take longer and have a harder time with the breakup. Pisces likes to merge with another and when it ends, they feel like they have lost part of themself. And in those two charts you posted...the Pisces one has other placements I think would contribute to her being heartbroken. Leo Moon doesn't like to feel rejected or detached.

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posted October 01, 2011 01:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Im a SCORP asc. and I am devastated after a break up and it takes forever (a year or more) for me to get over it...but [b]only if I was the one dumped.

If I am the one breaking up with the other, I've BEEN over it so it's no skin off my back.[/B]


I think those are true for MOST people lmaoooo.

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posted October 01, 2011 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not necessarily, I know many people who have a hard time even when they are the ones breaking up w/ the other. But the point that is important is the intensity of hurt when a Scorp asc feels rejected and betrayed in a break up. And I don't think it takes "most people" a "year or more" to get over someone.

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posted October 01, 2011 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you see anything else of interest about these two in a relationship turned breakup? Any stubborn pride, remorse etc. It was a sudden, mutual and sad breakup.

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posted October 01, 2011 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
....and a very happy, fun and loving relationship :-(

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posted October 01, 2011 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
taurus rising here.


...what "break up"?

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Libreo
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posted October 01, 2011 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I know a Taurus sun, moon, venus, mercury AND mars who is in denial of everything negative that ever happens to him.

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posted October 01, 2011 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am still learning, but am I correct in thinking the Venus sign is the most significant factor when looking at relationships? In this case, wouldn't she be the one better off with the happy go lucky attitude, while he would be the one over analysing things? Teach me! Lol.

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posted October 01, 2011 02:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pis Asc/ Leo Moon/Can Ven

When I break up with someone,I usually spend about a month in solitude, thinking everything through.. (probably my H6 Stellium at work)

I usually clean and disconnect my self from most people... I go over all the details, the good and the bad.. I try to understand what went wrong, and where... After about a week or so, I realize I wasnt really happy (at least so far) and I see why its best to walk away.. I spend the rest of the time on me, and working on self improvement..

Then Im ready to go again! lol

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posted October 01, 2011 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when i break up,
i BREAK UP......!

i don't know how i can make that text any bigger..

hopefully it got my point across.

i don't look back.

there is no 'getting back together'.

and when i move on, i mean i MOVE ON!!!!!!!

sometimes i feel that i hold on to certain relationships
but that i do it for their sake.

because i know that they may not be in their right mind
or they're being very stupid and will only regret it later
and if they do,

i can't stand being the bad guy because i won't give in.

i have pluto in my sixth about 3 degrees from my descendant.

trust me,
for the other parties involved,
...what 'break up'?

it didn't happen.

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Libreo
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posted October 01, 2011 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, obviously, I'm the girl in this picture, and I'm very much the same as you Lioness. But the curiosity over how he's doing is killing me!

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Libreo
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posted October 01, 2011 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I misunderstood you Tuxedomask....and I envy you too. :-)

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posted October 01, 2011 02:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh,

this is my chart:

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Libreo
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posted October 01, 2011 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would love to upload mine but I can't see how to do it. It's all there ready on my desktop but I can't see how to upload it onto here. I did read the instructions but that 'photobucket' site won't appear for me. I just get 'the webpage is not available'. Is there another way?

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posted October 01, 2011 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I would love to upload mine but I can't see how to do it. It's all there ready on my desktop but I can't see how to upload it onto here. I did read the instructions but that 'photobucket' site won't appear for me. I just get 'the webpage is not available'. Is there another way?

try imageshack

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posted October 01, 2011 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well in my personal experience men in general, go out and "party" (not all but a higher %) it hits them about a month later, when the female is just about getting over it...
That when I think, they start to re-think it..


Since we both have the Pis Asc/Leo moon I have had problems with blending to much to the guy, and I never really got my own personal needs met... I just blended so well it seemed right, but once I really sat down and thought it through, I realize it wasnt..

The Pis Asc is the hardest thing for me, the blending.. Feeling the other person, that you dont even know what you really want... (talking about me)

My ex has a Aries Moon... HE took it the break up hard, blamed me for everything (but he's a virgo) He never took responsibility for his own actions.

The reason for the breakup is also to be considered, If I felt wronged... Im done and wont look back... ( I gots lots of leo...lol)
But I will still think it all through..

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posted October 01, 2011 02:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well as you can see my ex has an Aries moon too, and for some strange reason I think of him as a Virgo. Don't know why. Maybe too much focus on his Venus? I just wish he would say "I am sorry for my part in the break up and I take responsibility for it" that's all I want really. He drives a truck and doesn't go out as he is a full time single Dad, he always used to say that when he worked, because he was alone that was his thinking time. I KNOW that he regrets certain actions, I have apologised for mine and offered the olive branch, which he has accepted, but he won't do the same. We did eachother wrong, it wasn't all me. He let me,my 12 year old daughter, and my 4 year old daughter down. He upped and left after ONE fight. No phonecall, text message, email, just silence. Not even a goodbye. It was hell. Now it's me who's done and dusted. I just would love to know if he's sorry deep down.

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posted October 01, 2011 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And the Pisces thing for me.... I do become a chameleon and adopt all the other person's likes and dislikes too, and I don't realise Iv'e done it till after.

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posted October 01, 2011 02:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Not necessarily, I know many people who have a hard time even when they are the ones breaking up w/ the other. But the point that is important is the intensity of hurt when a Scorp asc feels rejected and betrayed in a break up. And I don't think it takes "most people" a "year or more" to get over someone.

Okay yeah, I've heard of that kind of thing before but have never actually witnessed a genuine example of it.

I have a few exes who, when they decided to go, tried to put on that act like they were in such agony over the idea that they were hurting me, yeah. But I knew better because they spent most of the actual relationships, constantly hurting me and didn't seem too upset about it at the time; in fact they seemed to get pleasure out of it or were flippant and just didn't care one way or another what effect their actions had on me.

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posted October 01, 2011 02:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Well as you can see my ex has an Aries moon too, and for some strange reason I think of him as a Virgo. Don't know why. Maybe too much focus on his Venus? I just wish he would say "I am sorry for my part in the break up and I take responsibility for it" that's all I want really. He drives a truck and doesn't go out as he is a full time single Dad, he always used to say that when he worked, because he was alone that was his thinking time. I KNOW that he regrets certain actions, I have apologised for mine and offered the olive branch, which he has accepted, but he won't do the same. We did eachother wrong, it wasn't all me. He let me,my 12 year old daughter, and my 4 year old daughter down. He upped and left after ONE fight. No phonecall, text message, email, just silence. Not even a goodbye. It was hell. Now it's me who's done and dusted. I just would love to know if he's sorry deep down.

Im sorry, but he's the only one that can answer that....
We all have our regrets and know our mistakes, admitting is the hard part...

My ex husband never once said Sorry to me, we where married for 12 years... Best I got was "thats not what I meant, you took it wrong"

Again keeping the blame on me...
Leo wants to be adored and admired, blaming does no good, and doesn't work for me..

If you two have been together for a while, I suggest to let him be, give him his space, and give him the time to rethink everything (thats what his virgo will do)
when he's ready to talk about it, he will call....
Try not to pressure him for an answer, he will never give it if you do...

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posted October 01, 2011 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Libreo:
And the Pisces thing for me.... I do become a chameleon and adopt all the other person's likes and dislikes too, and I don't realise Iv'e done it till after.

Yeah... I hate that... It becomes very confusing..

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