posted October 05, 2011 01:19 AM            

Sometimes part of life is learning to let people go that don't work for you, nobody wants to be surrounded by people that put them down or make them feel anxious. There's no need to be so hard on yourself for your journey, the important part is that you're open to change and fully aware of the kind of person you want to be.
Plus there's nothing wrong with being unique (says me and all the aquarians in the room lol). You're phenomenal, just as you are.

posted October 05, 2011 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Sun square Moon
Moon square Mercury
Sun square Saturn
are definite signs.

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Oh yea, Saturn is definately not your friend here...Saturn moon contacts are almost always rather shy and insecure, they can make you self concious and very akward indeed .... And squaring your sun and mercury conjunction. You have a heavy saturn influence on the moon, sun, asc, and mercury.

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Hey Bitterfly, if its social awkwardness I would imagine it focuses on any relationship between the 11th and 3rd houses as well as the Ascendant as others have mentioned. Pluto in the 11th could very well produce this "mirror" effect you mentioned. Since almost everyone generationally has Pluto in Scorpio, I'm not sure of your age range of day to day socialising, but most people your age will share Pluto in Scorpio with you and 11th being the house of friendships, acquaintances and how you relate to others, others see you in such a way, definitely suggests to me that they see all the hidden Pluto things in themselves and project them on to you.

I personally have; Sun square Moon, Moon square Mercury, Sun square Saturn. My Moon is in my 11th house. I have almost all of the aspects people have described as indicators of social awkwardness. I would say I'm not really that socially awkward. The only time I feel the way you described and act that way is if i'm attracted to someone. Thats when I start to feel the way you described.

You're definitely not a no hoper. Just be yourself, love yourself and you said you were married, so someone definitely thinks you're special enough.

posted October 05, 2011 07:07 AM            

1. Sometimes women are catty. I doubt it is a coincidence that the “friends” you mentioned in your earlier post are all female.
It probably doesn’t only happen to you. Those same girls have probably behaved this way in the past.

2. Are you going after challenges – rather than people it is easy to be around?

Aries Venus is attracted to social challenges. Maybe you try too hard with people, even though it is clearly not working --- when there are actually other people out there who it would be easier to befriend.

3. Do you care too much what others think of you?

Maybe you are too focused on others.. and over-thinking things. Your Scorpio Moon conjunct SN makes you an AWESOME psychologist… Actually, you couldn't catch a bus back to awesomeness in this regard.

However - in this life.. you are meant to focus more on yourself … rather than whatever psychological issues others may have. This will not be an easy shift. Read up on Taurus NN – I think it could help!

4. Do you have enough practice talking to others on a daily basis?

posted October 05, 2011 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Hey Bitterfly, if its social awkwardness I would imagine it focuses on any relationship between the 11th and 3rd houses as well as the Ascendant as others have mentioned. Pluto in the 11th could very well produce this "mirror" effect you mentioned. Since almost everyone generationally has Pluto in Scorpio, I'm not sure of your age range of day to day socialising, but most people your age will share Pluto in Scorpio with you and 11th being the house of friendships, acquaintances and how you relate to others, others see you in such a way, definitely suggests to me that they see all the hidden Pluto things in themselves and project them on to you.

I personally have; Sun square Moon, Moon square Mercury, Sun square Saturn. My Moon is in my 11th house. I have almost all of the aspects people have described as indicators of social awkwardness. I would say I'm not really that socially awkward. The only time I feel the way you described and act that way is if i'm attracted to someone. Thats when I start to feel the way you described.

You're definitely not a no hoper. Just be yourself, love yourself and you said you were married, so someone definitely thinks you're special enough.

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posted October 05, 2011 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Not saying those aspects will make anybody socially awkward.

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Apologies Moonfish, I should clarify, I find it more difficult to speak to people who are typically not talkative. I find and enjoy a lot of conversation comfortable and satisfying, which may have something to do with my Moon in 11th and Gemini. You are right in that her aspects, signs and houses are different. From what it seems like she seems to have problems with those people who talk to her. I have problems with people who don't talk to me and by talk I mean those who are talkative Vs. those who are not so talkative.

posted October 05, 2011 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Apologies Moonfish, I should clarify, I find it more difficult to speak to people who are typically not talkative. I find and enjoy a lot of conversation comfortable and satisfying, which may have something to do with my Moon in 11th and Gemini. You are right in that her aspects, signs and houses are different. From what it seems like she seems to have problems with those people who talk to her. I have problems with people who don't talk to me and by talk I mean those who are talkative Vs. those who are not so talkative.

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