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starfox
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posted October 28, 2011 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfox     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn... Me.

Whatever job I do; I have to do it spot on and full effort.
Even things I hate to do, I can't but do them well.

I have worked in some awful situations, dirty kitchens, greasy factories, nasty warehouses &c.

But all the time I always give 100%...Gah! this gets to be too much.

What trouble does your sunsign lead you into?

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posted October 28, 2011 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini
I am very high strung. My emotions get easily frazzled. Gemini rules the nervous system.
Other than that, I like Gemini. I have a Gem Mercury and Venus, too.
I don't mind the other things that people don't usually like about Gemini such as they are superficial. I know I am not so it doesn't bother me

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posted October 28, 2011 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NativelyJoan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fun fun! Well I'm a Libra Sun with Venus and Saturn as co-rulers and I'm incredibly indecisive. I also hate making the wrong choices. I went shoe shopping recently and I couldn't decide between two colors of the exact same shoe, it was excruciating and I ended up getting both because they were on sale. After wasting a good HOUR. It can take me forever to decide on how I should handle a situation, because I don't want to make a mistake. I always have to get a second opinion and ponder and then ponder some more, and continue weighing. But I'm learning how to trust myself better and let things go,and not allowing the outcomes of situations I can't control depress me.

I can also be psychotically self disciplined, it's suffocating. I purposely avoided proofreading papers I wrote in college because if I did graduation would have passed while I was still scribbling errors I made all over my essays. I've learned to chill about making mistakes, and let them go, through clenched teeth but I accept failure, it's apart of life.

I can also be such a prude when it comes to dating, it's the delicate refined debutante in me who wants things to be elegant and appropriate not crude. It drives me nuts and I admit the Libra in me makes me act shallow sometimes.

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posted October 28, 2011 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo---
Just Love me!

The feeling that everyone should love me.. Its very hard to keep up with that persona.

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posted October 28, 2011 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoPianist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I over-analyze the simplest things. I also worry too much!

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posted October 28, 2011 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VirgoPianist:
I over-analyze the simplest things. I also worry too much!

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posted October 28, 2011 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sagittarius -

1. I dislike having to pay attention to my self constantly or else suffer the consequences of spilling food all over my shirt and stepping on people's toes. I find being alone helps me relax from having to manhandle my own personality every second of the day.

2. Regardless of my internal state, it comes out as optimism. I can be depressed, but have severe difficulty expressing it. If someone asks how I am doing, whatever is conveyed is nowhere close to how it feels inside.

3. Always knowing the answer to problems. It is annoying to be whining to your self about a problem and suddenly another voice pop in with, "well ya know, all you have to do is confront her about it and then everyone can move past it". It often leads to oversimplification of issues or fixing problems before I am emotionally ready for them to be resolved. My mind is often a big ball of "easier said than done".

4. Oh, I am not a fan of how enamored I get when I am attracted to people either.

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posted October 28, 2011 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can get confused easily with orienting myself in a space, bad sense of direction w.maps, etc. have to study one forever to figure it out, forgetting where I placed something, forgetting why I'm in a certain room, people look at me like I'm lost. And I know my eyes say the same cos I'll look confused, I'm just focused on other things, not where I put that pen lol. Sometimes people try to take advantage or they look down on me cos I'm not 100% focused 'antennae alert' all the time. I guess those types are easy to weed out, but there are almost always others who'll gladly help me out so it's even steven. Pisces

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posted October 28, 2011 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for heartstrings     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VirgoPianist:
I over-analyze the simplest things. I also worry too much!

ahha agreed! i'm a virgo sun myself

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posted October 28, 2011 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't overanalyse AS much as before lol (I think my aries rising has toned it down abit) but I'm still too much of a perfectionist, hard on myself and do easily worry lol!

But personally, I think having a virgo sun has more pros than cons so all good <3

I have a stellium in Libra. GOD am I indecisive LOL. I can't seem to make up decisions cos it's always this back and forth thing where I weigh out both sides and worry if I make the wrong choice. Gah.

I'm really selective with guys. I don't know, they have to have a 'certain sth' to get my attention. It's frustrating bc most people don't have that certain sth lol. I have a libra venus, moon + mercury.

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posted October 28, 2011 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Leo stellium is in H6 and I over-analyze..
Only I see it as a good thing...

Prob annoys others.. but ohh well... lol

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posted October 29, 2011 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a virgo. I am very analytical but I dont over analyze, only sometimes. I like that I am analytical. I am not nervous probably bc of neptune and jupiter influence that knows is all going to be ok.

What I dont like about virgos is that since we feel responsible for others we are inclined to feeling guilty and more guilty than appropriate and we can also be really hard on ourselves. We see what is wrong easily and what needs to be improved so we place higher standards on ourselves than others although we can be hard on others too is just that all the neptune in me softens that a lot but not as much when it comes to myself.

....what I dont like about neptune is the propensity to feel drained due to poor boundaries so the more helpful I am the more drained so I am working on strong boundaries so I can be of more assistance through a helping profession otherwise I help but feel unhappy.

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posted October 29, 2011 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amelia28     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starfox:
Capricorn... Me.

Whatever job I do; I have to do it spot on and full effort.
Even things I hate to do, I can't but do them well.

I have worked in some awful situations, dirty kitchens, greasy factories, nasty warehouses &c.

But all the time I always give 100%...Gah! this gets to be too much.

What trouble does your sunsign lead you into?


Sounds like my mom workcaholic but I admire her for it and never bothered me. I look up to her. Other caps I know are similar usually perfectionistic and can't go home bc of it, have to stay till later working LOL. But a lot of caps can go home at 5PM but I can still see that they struggle a bit and love that they have great work ethic but also you can see that they wish that they were a little bit more laid back. Caps struggle to find a balance in this area but I think is cute and kind and appreciate how hard they work!!!!!

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posted October 29, 2011 03:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We Leos can be all about destination and none about journey;shallow,no substance. Also,inconsiderate and brash in true fire fashion. And lazy and taking others' credit.

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posted October 29, 2011 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The fact that we're as misunderstood as we are, although that really has more to do with other people than any fault lying with the sign itself.

Secondly is the pride thing. A lot of times I don't always say what I feel, want and need because of my pride.

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posted October 29, 2011 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonpie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pisces- being so vulnerable, not strong willed enough and too emotional. Cant put feet firmly on the ground. This applies to me.

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posted October 29, 2011 04:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
We Leos can be all about destination and none about journey;shallow,no substance. Also,inconsiderate and brash in true fire fashion. And lazy and taking others' credit.

Like any other sign, Leos have our share of flaws, that's true.

But if you have all the stuff you just listed going for you, sorry - but it's not the leo in your chart, that's doing it LMAO.

Leos already think we're badass so we'd never stoop to taking credit for someone else's work when we're already full of our own brilliant ideas. We also have no problem with working hard when the work at hand is work it . Leo is also a philosophical sign with a lot of depth; we just don't see the point of walking around sulking all day to 'prove' our depth.

So whatever's wrong with you, don't blame it on Leo.

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posted October 29, 2011 05:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Sag sun here and I can relate to this:

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Regardless of my internal state, it comes out as optimism. I can be depressed, but have severe difficulty expressing it. If someone asks how I am doing, whatever is conveyed is nowhere close to how it feels inside.

My Venus is intense in Scorpio so when I finally explode (or implode) it shows... But until then, my sunny disposition is taken for granted. No, my life is not all roses and pink glasses, ok? I just like a joke and having fun but it's therapy for me. It doesn't mean that nothing touches me. Geez!

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posted October 29, 2011 05:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anongrl10:

Sag sun here and I can relate to this:

My Venus is intense in Scorpio so when I finally explode (or implode) it shows... But until then, my sunny disposition is taken for granted. No, my life is not all roses and pink glasses, ok? I just like a joke and having fun but it's therapy for me. It doesn't mean that nothing touches me. Geez!


LOL, my Venus is in Scorpio too. I definitely identify with your comment about optimism being therapeutic. I just wish it were as easy to express emotions the way my Scorpio and Cancer planets perceive them. It's odd when everything seems great on the outside and then I vanish for a month in order to deal with the emotions flowing underneath. When I was 18 - 25 (and even now on occasion) I used to take road trips or jump on a plane to Hawaii. After feeling emotionally stagnant in one place, I would grab someone I enjoyed traveling with or take off across the country; live out of the car for a couple months. I'd find psychic fairs and little shops to give readings at along the way, or grab any random job that seemed fun until we got bored. Then we would head back to CA. That feeling of optimism and freedom are totally cathartic for me.

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posted October 29, 2011 05:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted October 29, 2011 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
Like any other sign, Leos have our share of flaws, that's true.

But if you have all the stuff you just listed going for you, sorry - but it's not the leo in your chart, that's doing it LMAO.

Leos already think we're badass so we'd never stoop to taking credit for someone else's work when we're already full of our own brilliant ideas. We also have no problem with working hard when the work at hand is work it . Leo is also a philosophical sign with a lot of depth; we just don't see the point of walking around sulking all day to 'prove' our depth.

So whatever's wrong with you, don't blame it on Leo.


LMAO

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posted October 29, 2011 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Where's your Moon?
My Taurus Moon is also the silent type (ala: "slow waters run deep") which means again difficulty to fully express what's in one's heart.
I love road trips for clearing my head. And holidays are all about freedom to me too. What you describe sounds ideal to me.
I wouldn't be a good company though because I really want to follow my own impulse when I'm on holidays for this reason (to heal myself) and having to drag someone around -no matter how easygoing this person is- is bogging me down.
Plus my Jup in Libra tends to want to please my companions so my focus will shift to them instead of me. My best holidays are solitary.


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Originally posted by Xiiro:
LOL, my Venus is in Scorpio too. I definitely identify with your comment about optimism being therapeutic. I just wish it were as easy to express emotions the way my Scorpio and Cancer planets perceive them. It's odd when everything seems great on the outside and then I vanish for a month in order to deal with the emotions flowing underneath. When I was 18 - 25 (and even now on occasion) I used to take road trips or jump on a plane to Hawaii. After feeling emotionally stagnant in one place, I would grab someone I enjoyed traveling with or take off across the country; live out of the car for a couple months. I'd find psychic fairs and little shops to give readings at along the way, or grab any random job that seemed fun until we got bored. Then we would head back to CA. That feeling of optimism and freedom are totally cathartic for me.

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posted October 29, 2011 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Regarding the above mentioned "shoe dilemma": when in doubt, take it as a hint NOT to make a decision. If you wanted either of them badly enough, you wouldn't have the dilemma.
I use this "rule" when I find myself indecisive. If there are two pairs of shoes I can't decide about, I don't buy any of them. I leave and let the idea of them sit in my back-burner for a day or two. I usually end up "craving" one of the two more or I might end up with a completely new idea.
Bottom line: when you can't decide between X or Y, take this as a hint that perhaps neither X nor Y is right for you. Most of the times, when I follow this rule of the thumb I'm guided to a much better decision.

Anon (recently shoe-challenged)

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posted October 29, 2011 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NativelyJoan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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RegardesPlatero: The Venus in Scorpio in me is simmering with hate under the surface toward people who make inappropriate and unwanted advances toward me, especially the more indecent and vulgar ones. People just shouldn't behave like that or approach me in that way; it bothers me that people see me as the sort of person who would go along with that even though I don't act or dress in a way that encourages those types of advances. I never act on it other than to ignore those creeps, but I definitely feel that negative energy and my inner thoughts toward those perverts are pretty nasty. However, there's really nothing else that I can do about it, though I would definitely defend myself if any of them even tried to touch me, or at least I'd try to defend myself.

Whenever people have admitted to liking me (and I haven't liked these people back), I was freaked out BIG-TIME and my initial reaction was to run and avoid that situation; it made me really uncomfortable. I don't want to be seen as "sexually accessible". I don't like the idea of someone lusting after me and feel pretty disgusted thinking about that. If someone has to like me like that and can't help it, I'd rather they just do that from afar so that I don't have to deal with it or get tangled up in that big mess.


RegardesPlatero, great response. It made me laugh. I'm actually exactly the same in those situations. I have issues with the debutante in me because of this. I wish sometimes I could just be more straight forward and I have an Aries moon. It frustrates me that I go delicate and feel like running away. I've actually dealt with stalkers and my behavior doesn't help because in a sense it encourages them and I've learned to just be direct, it's hard though.

In college people used to approach me all the time, drunks on the street, it was too much. I would wish I was invisible because I had a crazy flag on my forehead and I wanted to be left alone. I always had to be polite even if they were crazy because the thought of handling a situation disgracefully disturbed me. I'm much better with those situations today. I don't really care about unwanted attention now because I know exactly what I'm searching for. Attempts no longer bother me I just smile politely and walk away. Oh the irony of being a Libra. We shoot ourselves in the foot with our own need to always stay composed.

Good Advice Anongrl10. I will most definitely keep that in mind. But how do you feel about responding with inaction? I mean in the shoe situation you have 4 choices. Buy one, buy the other, buy both, buy none. The Libra in me never wants to make the wrong decision, and choosing none is a making a choice. I guess for me the deal breaker is a second opinion. Preferably my twin sister because we completely know each others fashion styles. We usually email each other choices about shoes and other things...before we buy them because we live far apart from each other.

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posted October 29, 2011 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Good Advice Anongrl10. I will most definitely keep that in mind. But how do you feel about responding with inaction? I mean in the shoe situation you have 4 choices. Buy one, buy the other, buy both, buy none. The Libra in me never wants to make the wrong decision, and choosing none is a making a choice. I guess for me the deal breaker is a second opinion. Preferably my twin sister because we completely know each others fashion styles. We usually email each other choices about shoes and other things...before we buy them because we live far apart from each other.

Not buying either is not inaction, it's a decision! A decision to reject both due to something else that "speaks" to you louder!
My thinking goes like this: if I can't decide between these two, perhaps I should look for something completely different.
Here's a recent example: I recently went to a show store for a pair of boots. And I had a specific preference from their window. However when I tried it on it didn't feel 100% so the girl offers me another option. The second option was the same money but different style. I couldn't decide between the two and I had specific money to spend so I was stamped. I left the store thinking I will come back another day but I decided to drop them both and take that as a sign that I didn't like neither well enough to decide.
Two days after that incident, I was passing through a shoe store and all the shoes in the window looked super expensive. I went in out of curiosity and lo and behold I found a pair I love at a price I could afford. No indecision there!!
To me, spiritually speaking, indecision means lack of preference. So, by rejecting what you can't decide about, you let yourself free for the next cool thing. Only decide affirmatively about something you DO like 100%. The slightest doubt or hesitation is your inner voice saying "not yet" so hint it. Go to the next best! Attaching ourselves to things is what breeds indecisiveness. Let go and new clearer opportunities will come up!

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