posted October 31, 2011 06:46 AM            

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my Sag Sun doesn't understand what all this fuss is about

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Well I mean.. you can love sex... but I thought this was about "over-the-top" sexuality...

And don't say "there's no such thing" ^^ lol..... because as I'm sure you know - being a Sag... there are many things one can think about, learn about and philosophise about in this world.. without confining themselves to sex-only.

You can be passionate about life, studies, work, travel, family, friends, pets, humanitarian goals... any number of things.

If someone is soooooooooo into sex that they neglect everything else - that would be a problem for them and those around them.

Perhaps I misunderstood the first post (clarification: the first post -- IN THE THREAD!! MOONRAM'S POST/TITLE), but I thought it was about 'sex-addiction'... rather than just a healthy love of sex.

posted October 31, 2011 08:31 AM            

my partner has Eros cj. AC. his Mars is in Scoprio. he also had a very high drive, but due to other things in life that needs much more pressing attention, he became completely asexual too. we are like old people now.

posted October 31, 2011 09:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Well I mean.. you can love sex... but I thought this was about "over-the-top" sexuality...

And don't say "there's no such thing" ^^ lol..... because as I'm sure you know - being a Sag... there are many things one can think about, learn about and philosophise about in this world.. without confining themselves to sex-only.

You can be passionate about life, studies, work, travel, family, friends, pets, humanitarian goals... any number of things.

If someone is soooooooooo into sex that they neglect everything else - that would be a problem for them and those around them.

Perhaps I misunderstood the first post, but I thought it was about 'sex-addiction'... rather than just a healthy love of sex.

Actually someone should post David Dukovny's chart, come to think of it now!

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posted October 31, 2011 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:

Actually, I was referring to stronger than average sex drive - not sex addiction (a whole different animal).

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posted October 31, 2011 07:20 PM            

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Originally posted by moonram:
Aspects/placements?

I'm wondering if it boils down to being fire/water dominant.

Discuss.

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posted October 31, 2011 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:

Honestly this is kind of a silly question to me because it operates from the premise that there is a such thing as one 'correct' level of libido and that there's something wrong with having a stronger sex drive than that. Just because *you* might not be as sexual as they are, doesn't mean they're over-the-top or oversexed.

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I feel your point...I usually agree with you at least partially with all your comments. I like how you think. I approach libido to determine if I am compatible with someone sexually or not. I Have noticed that people with mars in fire have a similar libido to mine...that guy that I mentioned with mars/pluto aspect I thought he was cool but felt he deserves to be with someone with a similar libido as his so I didn't judge him for having a super high libido more like I think he should be with someone packed with energy like him that way nobody in the relationship feels frustrated sexually. I know how is like to be with someone with a libido lower than yours and it brings problems to the relationship as you have to repress your sexuality for the other person with a lower sex drive and you cant fully express yourself sexually as a result.

posted October 31, 2011 07:36 PM            

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doesn't mean they're over-the-top or oversexed

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But you can go overboard with anything... food, sex - anything...

posted October 31, 2011 09:39 PM            

Sexually I'm aggressive. These placements make me quite sexual, but besides discussing it on this forum I don't discuss my sexuality with anyone. When I was younger I had such difficulty managing my sexual energy, it was too overwhelming for me. And I think because of my 8th house energy it's easy to sense my sexual energy. I used to attract a lot of attention because of my sexual energy, unwanted attention, older men, teachers, people my age, etc. Today I'm centered enough to shut people down quickly who are sexually perverse or explicit towards me without my consent.

posted October 31, 2011 10:16 PM            

mars squares neptune and chiron and opposes mercury with a sextile to jupiter; inconjunct pluto.

i can enjoy it; i'd just prefer it to be clean.. i find that a lot of the things i'd do during it, might not all the time suit my image so i think that i hide a lot of it because of it.

then again, i don't know if i've really been with that person that just does 'it' for me and as i type this, venus will be moving into my eighth tomorrow... where saturn and uranus reside so if dungeons and things with dragons were the theme of the day...; i'd prefer the dungeon have a secure passcode

posted October 31, 2011 11:14 PM            

My ex and I were this way.
I kept thinking that it would die down,
as these sort of intense attractions do
after some time has passed,
and it only got worse.
Four years, and we could not brush arms without having to go somewhere and have
sex. To me, that intrudes on my life and is a huge distraction.
It's a love/hate thing, which is sort of a big huge theme in my life anyway.

Hmm, I do have Sun and Venus conj in the 8th (in Sag) and I do have an Aries asc..
I am trying to think what some others had
mentioned...

Well, here's a chart if you want to disect someone!

posted November 01, 2011 12:23 AM            

I've even started to feel guilty sometimes about being remotely sexually expressive because i start to feel as if im just 'asking for it', its very confusing!

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Well I have Mars in Aries in the first Quintile Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th.

Sexually I'm aggressive. These placements make me quite sexual, but besides discussing it on this forum I don't discuss my sexuality with anyone. When I was younger I had such difficulty managing my sexual energy, it was too overwhelming for me. And I think because of my 8th house energy it's easy to sense my sexual energy. I used to attract a lot of attention because of my sexual energy, unwanted attention, older men, teachers, people my age, etc. Today I'm centered enough to shut people down quickly who are sexually perverse or explicit towards me without my consent.

I can overwhelm people with my intensity, I overwhelm myself. It's like I'm possessed when it comes to my sexuality. My intensity embarrasses me, even though it tends to have an opposite effect on my relationship partners. I continually attempt to find ways to purify my sexual energy (Pluto in the 8th).

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posted November 01, 2011 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
I read this and nodded my head as i went along because i totally have the same experience... Then i saw the screen name and there's yet another reason why i respect your comment in that other thread.... I have sun conjunct black moon lilith and eight house ruler in my first, which is jupiter, conjunct my mars/venus midpoint... Mars in twelfth of aries with pluto opposing my ascendant... Uranus and saturn in my eighth.. Ive had very similar experiences as u and have even dropped college courses because of it and im very scared to go back not to mention not comfortable as i think id be now seen as a 'liability' since the higher up's had to he involved... I've experienced resentment from some people for turning em down... Its as if they feel im supposed to sleep with them and i dont get it! Just the same, some people i've been with have reacted in a similar fashion, really leaving me at a loss because i seem to unknowingly attract LOTS of attention! It happens with both sexes and i think i sometimes try to be as averagily dressed as possible unless its otherwise necesarry to sidestep a lot of hassles.

I've even started to feel guilty sometimes about being remotely sexually expressive because i start to feel as if im just 'asking for it', its very confusing!

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Thanks . And, trust me, being a very sexual person embarrasses me also but as I mentioned in my post I try to find ways to purify my sexual energy and really connect with my spirituality. I always want my sexual encounters to be pure and honest. I've got issues when it comes to feeling shameful after being leered at or attracting unwanted attention, or even being too intense. For a time I didn't so much think I was asking for it, but I did feel that unfortunately for me I was giving an aura of sexual allure that I would never do intentionally. I'm a Libra and I like to keep things appropriate.

posted November 01, 2011 02:22 PM            

I'm going to place primary blame on a very tight trine between Capricorn moon (6th) and Taurus mars (10th). I have pluto trining my moon also, but it's wide. 8th house sun, sun is my chart ruler.
I was not blessed with any pluto/mars aspects and boy, do I wish I was. Taurus mars can be really, really lazy in other departments.

I can also add to the growing consensus on Cap mars. I think they may be so good at keeping themselves straight that as soon as the cap (pun intended) comes off, they go completely primitive. Earth mars' are pretty basic in my mind. Strange that I haven't encountered one horizontally- lots of friends have it though.

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posted November 02, 2011 12:51 AM            

I can turn it off though thank god. But when I'm in a relationship, boy do I need it daily.

posted November 02, 2011 01:09 AM            

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Thanks . And, trust me, being a very sexual person embarrasses me also but as I mentioned in my post I try to find ways to purify my sexual energy and really connect with my spirituality. I always want my sexual encounters to be pure and honest. I've got issues when it comes to feeling shameful after being leered at or attracting unwanted attention, or even being too intense. For a time I didn't so much think I was asking for it, but I did feel that unfortunately for me I was giving an aura of sexual allure that I would never do intentionally. I'm a Libra and I like to keep things appropriate.

The truth is we can't change who we are, we might as well learn how to accept ourselves and discover the beauty in our natural power. My advice would be to continue to connect to your sexuality and speak your truth, begin to see yourself as you are and basque in the beauty.

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posted November 02, 2011 02:40 AM            

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I'm a Libra and I like to keep things appropriate.

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hahahaha I'm an Aries.. I like to keep things IN-appropriate!!