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Topic: Over-the-top sexually; sex always on the mind; sex as an important life focus...
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moonram Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted October 30, 2011 10:27 PM
Aspects/placements?I'm wondering if it boils down to being fire/water dominant. Discuss. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5368 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 30, 2011 10:30 PM
Mars/Pluto??? Or just a Leo Mars IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4046 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 30, 2011 10:34 PM
Hey... I think about it at least 10 to 20 times a day. And I want it twice a day or more, everyday. And I'm married. It was worse when I was single. Imagine when I was a young teen and desperate, and all I had were clandestine magazines and there was no internet!IP: Logged |
moonram Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted October 30, 2011 10:37 PM
I fit the descrip & all I can think of is Venus square Mars. And, Venus in the Eighth House.IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 30, 2011 10:50 PM
I have eros Leo in the 8th, Mars in Leo and I would say mars in any fire sign would give you a high sex drive in my opinion, I also have Mars Trine Neptune 1°43 Mars Sextile Pluto 3°26and to me sex is beautiful (mars trine neptune) and raw (Mars in Leo, mars sextile pluto), and a vehicle to transcend to higher dimension (eros Leo in 8th and neptune trine mars). Its important to me bc it bonds you with partner but most importantly gets you closer to a higher dimension (venus and mars in the 9th house also influences my approach, making it about self exploration of self and other). IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 5368 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 30, 2011 10:51 PM
OOo Or Eros conjunct Asc... WITH a Leo Mars... LOL IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4046 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 30, 2011 10:54 PM
My wife has her Mars in Leo. That is why she puts up with me.My Venus and Saturn falls ino her 8th. Her 8th is my Mars and my Sun. Mine: Mars Trine Uranus Mars Sextile Neptune Mars Trine Pluto Mars Sextile Ascendant The charts at CafeAstrology say my Eros at my birth time was in Venus and Psyche was in Midheaven Marriage has Mars Trine Pluto. Intensely passionate and possessive union. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 30, 2011 10:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonram: I fit the descrip & all I can think of is Venus square Mars. And, Venus in the Eighth House.
Post your chart! so we can all dissect it LOL. How do you view and approach sex? any aspects to mars in your chart or pluto? IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted October 30, 2011 11:31 PM
I am the type that when in a relationship would love it 3 times a day everyday. I've had experiences where I was having sex 6+ times a day, for like 3 weeks. Mmmm. BUT I'm fine with staying celibate too.Pluto in 8th scorpy. Sun sextile pluto (1') Sun conjunct mars Eros in 8th house conjunct pluto (1') Lust asteriod conjunct my IC by 1'
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 30, 2011 11:44 PM
Oh yes eros trine jupiter and uranus and square saturn and pluto.Oh and Lust trine sun, square venus and mars, inconjunct neptune and pluto. Oh and ruler of H8 is moon which conjuncts my IC. IP: Logged |
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 1292 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 12:16 AM
Sun in Taurus ASC Scorpio Mercury/Venus Aries 5H Mars Capricorn 2H square Venus and opposed Moon in Cancer 8HThis was my old roommate and the only time he wasn't talking about sex was when he was stuffing his face with food HAHa. We would be watching TV and he would just randomly start jerking off or worse, staring at me a jerking off. Everything out of his mouth was a sexual innuendo, even if you were sick and unwashed he was still digging for an opportunity. In fact his Sun was in the 6th house, so he would often consider sexual advances a way of offering you service (God he was gross). His energy was just seething, and you could tell when he looked at you he was begging for you to stop talking about whatever the hell you are talking about and just say, "lets f**k". I have Venus in Scorpio 8H, Mars in Leo 5H (directly trine my Sun in Sag 8H), Aries ASC, and this guy's sexual energy turned ME off. IP: Logged |
BlackSeraph Knowflake Posts: 251 From: PA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 12:21 AM
I can get some very vivid visuals when I'm not getting any action in the waking world. I also have a stellium of Venus conjunct Pluto conjunct Mars in 10th house in Libra, with Pluto and Mars straddling fixed star Algorab. The Black Moon Lilith/Jupiter conjunction in Cancer in 8th house also may have something to do with it on my end, and upon examination I believe Jupiter/Lilith is Quintile Venus/Pluto/Mars in my chart.Those rare occasions I have had action though, were also quite intense. Hmm... Do you have any aspect between Lilith and Pluto or Venus (or maybe Mars?) IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 12:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Xiiro: Sun in Taurus ASC Scorpio Mercury/Venus Aries 5H Mars Capricorn 2H square Venus and opposed Moon in Cancer 8HThis was my old roommate and the only time he wasn't talking about sex was when he was stuffing his face with food HAHa. We would be watching TV and he would just randomly start jerking off or worse, staring at me a jerking off. Everything out of his mouth was a sexual innuendo, even if you were sick and unwashed he was still digging for an opportunity. In fact his Sun was in the 6th house, so he would often consider sexual advances a way of offering you service (God he was gross). His energy was just seething, and you could tell when he looked at you he was begging for you to stop talking about whatever the hell you are talking about and just say, "lets f**k". I have Venus in Scorpio 8H, Mars in Leo 5H (directly trine my Sun in Sag 8H), Aries ASC, and this guy's sexual energy turned ME off.
LMAO...he does sound gross, he would have turned me off too. I was with a guy once scorpio with mars and venus in capricorn and moon in cancer. He was cool and I felt reallly good emotionally with him he could do it all day if he could though...I like it every day but not 6 times everyday, he wanted to do it like 6 times in a row or more!. I am thinking that mars in cap makes you really sexual perhaps bc I am noticing other people too mentioning similar stuff about people with mars in cap. IP: Logged |
Hera Moderator Posts: 4488 From: the OR Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 31, 2011 12:42 AM
Yeah, Mars in Cap. Soon-to-be ex-bf has it in his 3rd, square Pluto. Scorpio Asc. He also has Sun conj Lust and Eros. He would do it all the time if there weren't jobs, bills, phone calls etc... So he would talk about it non stop. Me, totally different story, though similar chart. Aries Mars also in the 3rd, exact opposition to Pluto, both square Asc. Sun conj Lust. Cap Asc (conj his Mars). I went 5 years without it. Nov 2006 until April 2011. Been abstinent since April now as well (bf long distance, we're breaking up before doing any action). IP: Logged |
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 1292 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 12:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: I am thinking that mars in cap makes you really sexual perhaps bc I am noticing other people too mentioning similar stuff about people with mars in cap.
Yeah, Capricorn is all about business, but get them behind a closed door (or a bush in a park if that is where they feel comfortable) and you have a serious freak on your hands. It can be a bit unsettling if you are not expecting it. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 01:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Xiiro: Yeah, Capricorn is all about business, but get them behind a closed door (or a bush in a park if that is where they feel comfortable) and you have a serious freak on your hands. It can be a bit unsettling if you are not expecting it.
Xiro you make me laugh...I like your energy LOL. Its interesting, light and positive.
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 01:43 AM
The guy that could do it like 6 times in a row, these are some of his aspects, he is definitely a good example for this thread, he also thinks a lot about sex:Major aspects Sun Trine Moon 5°20 Sun Sextile Mars 6°48 Sun Conjunction Saturn 2°42 Sun Sextile Ascendant 3°48 Moon Quincunx Venus 2°57 Moon Opposition Mars 1°28 Moon Quincunx Neptune 2°18 Moon Square Pluto 5°24 Mercury Conjunction Uranus 1°19 Venus Conjunction Neptune 0°38 Venus Sextile Pluto 2°28 Mars Square Pluto 3°56 Saturn Sextile Ascendant 1°07 Uranus Square Ascendant 5°49 Neptune Sextile Pluto 3°06 With Mars-Pluto the heat builds up inside like a pressure cooker. Mars-Pluto people need a way to release pressure on a regular basis or they will explode. The cause can be buried rage or unaddressed anger (popular choices) but really, anything can trigger this aspect. Mars, planet of physical action, has to do something with energy and it doesn’t care what that something is. Pluto wants that something to be consuming. The best solution would be something like a controlled burn.
***Perhaps he channels this with sex since his Mars is in the 5th house.
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Virgo/Leo Cusp Knowflake Posts: 53 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 31, 2011 01:51 AM
I have Mars Conjunct Pluto in Libra, Venus square Pluto and Moon trine Pluto Sun in the 8th house, Aqua Moon, Sag RisingI have always thought about Sex since I was a young girl/woman. But not in a gross way, more like an erotic, sensual way. It's just naturally there, like in the back of my mind. I tend to fantasize alot, and when I'm not in a relationship.. for me, that is fine. I can also be celibate for long periods of time(years) so I just do alot self-pleasing and get it out of my system that way. Plus I can satisfy myself multiple times( which I like to do) ... I like sex intense, very physical and sensual.
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4347 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 31, 2011 01:53 AM
H5 Mars comes to mind,as over the the top interest in sex. Sexuality,maybe H8 ruler on angle. Aries,Scorpio,Cappy with personal planets. Hard Mars aspects.IP: Logged |
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 1292 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 02:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: H5 Mars comes to mind,as over the the top interest in sex. Sexuality,maybe H8 ruler on angle. Aries,Scorpio,Cappy with personal planets. Hard Mars aspects.
I have 5H Mars in Leo 11 trine 8H Sun Sag 11 Mars square Uranus in Scorpio 7H 8H ruler Pluto conj DSC Mercury in Capricorn Venus in Scorpio 8H Aries ASC What exactly are you trying to say? Hehe
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 31, 2011 02:49 AM
quote: Over-the-top sexually; sex always on the mind; sex as an important life focus
I met a person like this ...who makes me very uncomfortable.. but unfortunately I can't get his chart. I am trying to stay as far away from him as possible, so asking him for his birthday is not something I'm prepared to do. I get the feeling he has some ugly squares happening to his Venus or Mars... His sexuality is very trashy... and disruptive.. I find him creepy - Other girls have commented about him being very creepy and sleazy. The creepiest thing is that he switches from being normal/friendly to being a jerk and extra sexual (inappropriately so... to an extent that is off-putting).. and you never know which side you will get. So I just avoid him like the plague now. I wish I could get his chart because I'm curious. If I ever do - I'll let you know. ---- Btw... I do have Capricorn Mars and my only real life-focus is my career. It's not that earthy Mars people don't love sex as much as the next person.. it's just that we love our career (or job) a little bit more. To say that it is a "life focus".... does not suit Cap Mars at all imo... Actually, Capricorn-influenced people criticise and complain about those who do not have life-goals.. other than sexual ones. They find this to be kind of like “wasting time”, not doing anything productive. It is hedonistic to live this way.. but Cap Mars is a consumed masochist who often denies self-pleasure. Xiiro -
quote: Capricorn is all about business, but get them behind a closed door (or a bush in a park if that is where they feel comfortable) and you have a serious freak on your hands.
That's only after you convince them that it's ok to shun responsibility for a few minutes and enjoy themselves It's not as easy as it sounds ^ LOL Or at least for me .. it isn't. (But I have Cap Moon as well.. mind you) IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 02:56 AM
Hi Betty,the guy with mars in cap was extremely discipline and responsible I think his preoccupation with sex has to do with mars/pluto square and sun in scorpio and he was a cool guy. I don't have complaints about him just his sex drive was higher than mine. He has all this energy and engages in some super challenging hikes for fun to channel this need for constant sex since he doesn't get as much as he would like bc he doesn't want to be promiscuous and is single. Amelia IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 31, 2011 03:03 AM
Amelia - Yes! It definitely depends on the whole chart and other aspects. I've also known men with Mars/Pluto in harsh aspect who I thought were a touch "too much" for me sexually lol IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 31, 2011 03:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Xiiro: (God he was gross)
Yea no kidding. I feel bad for you.
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MertSerimer Knowflake Posts: 956 From: where the fun is Registered: Mar 2011
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posted October 31, 2011 03:38 AM
I have tons of sexual appetite and also endless fantasies. Let me write my placements -9th cusp SCORPIO and its ruler in 8th (philosophy of sex) -8th house ruler(venus) on mc and sun -Venus opposite Mars -Pluto in 8th house in scorpio -Sun opposite Mars(there conjunct venus) - A lot of sagittarus placement.IP: Logged |