posted November 01, 2011 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
THIS IS TRUE....
I don't buy the "hard to commit" as soon as they sense that you're a good investment of some sort they will hound you like no tomorrow. they become insatiably driven until you accept them, and once that happens,! they will plan marriage or talk about it..

that's what my bf did, moment he seen me he chased after me. I ran away from him for a year and throughout that time he would STiLL contact me after I told him "nope" 2 times and than he kept trying, and now he's mentioning marriage and stuff.. it's really something but I agree with you! if these guys sense that you're a good fit they WANT you and no one else can have you they may not get you now but they will make a vow internally to get you somehow. Trust me. He has mars in cap house 1 (which intensifies this) and cap ascendant

All the cap guys I know have been like this.. the word "no" means "next week, next month, next year" seriously!

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posted November 01, 2011 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by hannarama:
Well you know how him and his gf met? The club, for one. Two, her friend approached him and said "That girl over there would like your number." and he said to bring the now GF over and I guess it was on from there? I found that interesting he didn't approach her. Knowing her, I don't think he would've been attracted right away.... anyway, I thought that was Scorpio-ish of him (maybe Cappy too) being passive like that. I like it when men approach me better, I don't feel as vulnerable (teehee.)

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I would defiantly say his behavior is more cancerian
the wanting the women to do the work/approach.
I honestly think he accepted her offer because she was easy bait, and no one else at the time was offering the goods if you know what I mean..

posted November 01, 2011 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:

I would defiantly say his behavior is more cancerian
the wanting the women to do the work/approach.
I honestly think he accepted her offer because she was easy bait, and no one else at the time was offering the goods if you know what I mean..

capricorn men like doing the chasing though from what I know again think of their whole business attitude they like being ontop etc I wonder what his other placements are. you said he had a mars in Pisces? I do think this guy is attracted to you though but he has a girl. what's she like??

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She definitely is. I'm not saying just 'cause you're an unattractive 6'2" big girl that you deserve to get your boyfriend stolen at all. I'm a big girl too. I'm just not a ***** to friendly people like she is, or in general. Before he was even in the picture (we've known her brother a long time) she was always unpleasant. I think they went in on apartment together because it was cheaper, not necessarily 'cause they're in love. That's only a theory on my part. I mean really he doesn't seem that crazy about her (but I keep thinking you know... he's got those Scorpio placements so who knows what's really going on)

He has Mars in Pisces, you think that's why he let her come to him aside from the other factors?

I don't know his rising sign but here's his placements thus far:

Capricorn
Scorp moon
Sag Merc (which I LOVE because I have a Mercury Aries)
Venus in Scorp
Mars in Pisces

posted November 01, 2011 01:07 AM            

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Originally posted by hannarama:
She definitely is. I'm not saying just 'cause you're an unattractive 6'2" big girl that you deserve to get your boyfriend stolen at all. I'm a big girl too. I'm just not a ***** to friendly people like she is, or in general. Before he was even in the picture (we've known her brother a long time) she was always unpleasant. I think they went in on apartment together because it was cheaper, not necessarily 'cause they're in love. That's only a theory on my part. I mean really he doesn't seem that crazy about her (but I keep thinking you know... he's got those Scorpio placements so who knows what's really going on)

He has Mars in Pisces, you think that's why he let her come to him aside from the other factors?

I don't know his rising sign but here's his placements thus far:

Capricorn
Scorp moon
Sag Merc (which I LOVE because I have a Mercury Aries)
Venus in Scorp
Mars in Pisces

So lots of water for that Cap to handle and put a lid on. I imagine there's some kinda crazy lurking underneath there.

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He sure has a lot of water placements..
I do honestly believe water mars are passive... but can be aggressive and get ugly but it's just not first nature to, they need to be pushed and pushed and pushed... but I think mars in scorpio is more aggressive in a sense where they become passionate , relentless and will not stop until they feel you've been served.

mars in cancer can be passive aggressive I would know I have that placement but I've kept it in check and all my Aquarius placement suppres that.

mars in pisces very elusive they accept people and everything including bad situations... maybe he's putting up with her cause of that Pisces mars. I do know Pisces people take anything from people and can come off as doormats and they can overly idealize things and people he's probably very sensitive and I imagine with scorpio Venus and that other Scorpio placement (moon I believe) he hides his feelings a lot, I read that once Scorpios have a lover of some kind they will not let go, cancer has the same ideal, they literally snip into the person and don't want to let go. I may be going too far with this but maybe he is settling feels trapped and at the same time doesn't want to be alone like they security. and he COULD be suppressing his desires for you if he has them because he's with his girl.

posted November 01, 2011 02:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Capricorns need to lighten up and look at the bigger picture. They need to see themselves and their life from out in space, they're just a little speck and they will die one day. When I'm on my deathbed I will be grateful for the fun times, the smiles, the laughter, not the investments.

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This is true, but Capricorns tend to age in reverse. They lighten up later in life vs. when they're younger. And if you think about it that doesn't sound so bad... although I'm sure it's unpleasant to go through.

posted November 01, 2011 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Every capricorn i've met has een extremely jealous. They're very afraid of ending up alone and have an inferiority complex. Sinilar to cancer, but they express it by becoming a control greak and trying to dominate you and being cold towards you as a defense mechanism. They're also very depressed people so be prepared to do a lot of nurturing and cheering up and reassuring....they will complain a lot about absolutely eerything lol.

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YES YES AND YES. YES!

He didn't act cold... but he was DEF. less friendly than last time when he had no problem telling me I looked good dancing. But thinking back I wonder if he saw me run away and hide when I was trying to find a place for my friend to sit and saw him behind a crowd of people. I assumed he wouldn't have seen me from that far underneath all the lights and among people. He's so intimidating that I get the shakes even approaching him. He's like 6'3" and I'm 5'07" lmao.

And yes, I experienced the whole depressed thing with my Cap rising ex-boyfriend. My best friend is a Scorpio with a Capricorn moon. I'm a healer, I guess it's what I'm supposed to do.

posted November 01, 2011 02:29 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Every capricorn i've met has een extremely jealous. They're very afraid of ending up alone and have an inferiority complex. Sinilar to cancer, but they express it by becoming a control greak and trying to dominate you and being cold towards you as a defense mechanism. They're also very depressed people so be prepared to do a lot of nurturing and cheering up and reassuring....they will complain a lot about absolutely eerything lol.

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Interesting how you mention that and Capricorns opposite sign is cancer. I guess cancer is very open with their needs, even while being indirect (sulking
Capricorn if anything is just as bad, even worse only because they hide it, and want to cover it up by keeping up appearances acting like they are ontop, when inside they are probably just as insecure as their opposite sign. Just my wild guess.

posted November 01, 2011 02:50 AM            

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I had a Cap 'threaten me' a little while ago, it was so funny.! We went on ONE date, he apparently had ownership the next day and was well within his rights to bark at me like I was his 'little woman'. I dumped him instantly (me, venus in Sag) he sooked for 4 weeks then sheepishly reappeared and apologised, and when I say apologised I mean he admitted guilty and then justified his actions, but 'he still likes me, so can I see you again or what?' I was enjoying the grovelling somewhat (Moon in Leo) so I told him I'd think about it. His response? "Well, don't take too long, I'll give you until tomorrow, someone else might catch my eye and I don't want to waste an opportunity waiting for you, but it's you I want". Oh how romantic! I don't like them.

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LMAO! Right? They come off so fake. I worked with a Capricorn girl at Hallmark and she would leave work early 'cause she was in law school. She only texts back people or makes plans when it's initiated by the other person, or if she FEELS like it. If she didn't agree with someone's work ethic (for instance, this sweet girl from Arkansas transferred to OK for school. She was annoying, yes, but harmless. She traded shifts with an elderly woman so she could go see a concert with her friends. I mean yeah I can see the faux pas in that but at the same time the Cap girl barked at her "You're rude and inconsiderate." in such a condescending, unnecessary way.) she took it upon herself to let you know what she thought. I tried taking off work once 'cause I was sick and wires got crossed, and she tried barking at me but I hung up on her lol. I don't have time for that. Leo/Capricorn combinations are the worst. #justsayin'.

posted November 01, 2011 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
im a Capricorn w/ Scorpio Venus and i get very very jealous ...and possessive, but that possessiveness and control is played out in a more subtle, clever way.

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Do you discriminate who gets your jealousy though? Like would you get jealous/possessive about someone you were attracted to but didn't know that well?

posted November 01, 2011 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by starzy54:
I am a Cap female with a Venus in scorpio and Mars in pisces. I am possessive of my partner (secretly of course lol , i can get very jealous,i want him all to myself haha )But we are in a relationship. And i agree with the others, Caps are very loyal , my eyes don't stray at least. Have no idea whats going on your guys mind though..if he seems jealous, thats just kinda odd, as he's in a relationship,perhaps its too soon to judge what he's thinking.He seems confused.

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posted November 01, 2011 04:43 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Seriously? Cappy guys find it hard to commit? From my experience, they want to get serious way too fast! And start planning the future and stuff like that.

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Heck yeah!

My wife and I agreed to get married 22 days after we started dating! By then we also agreed on the number of children we want to have, and where our lives ought to head.

posted November 01, 2011 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ lol that's pretty much a slap in the face for all the people in this thread that commented otherwise no? Knowing that the Cappy guy wasn't into them enough to want anymore than some fun =/

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posted November 01, 2011 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Are we supposed tobe lusting after the car? I don't get it, I'm serious. This is like a blind spot for me, men think women only want them for their money/car. Why would we do that? You cannot have a deep conversation or make love to a dollar bill or a hunk of metal. Are we really considered that shallow that we have no interest whatsoever in the human being himself and only want his material items? Wow, what a slap in the face! I'm really insulted. I never knew I was supposed to check a mans status before I give him the time of day. The guy I loved more than anything in the world drove a 20 year old beat up heap of crap. I loved him with all my heart, I'll never forget him. We camped under the stars and talk all night and laughed lots. And I have turned down many a date with a snobby man in a suit and a nice car. How incredibly dull. Please do not put me into your shallow little category. I do have depth.

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I am not targetting you. This is not personal.

I've been through this battle all my life. You tell me that its not true at all. For every woman like you, there are a dozen superficial ones out there concerned primarily with wealth.

I have declined marriage with millionaire women myself for roughly the same reasonsyou chose not to go out with Mr. Snobby Suit.

When I was dating, I never discussed my career or my education. The immediate reaction was "what a loser," and perhaps it was for the better.

While you wouldn't assume that the regular guy is no good, please also don't assume that the guy with the fancy suit isn'tgood either. We all just make an honest living doing what we need to do to ensure our stability and financial security.

Coming back to my original point, I'm a Capricorn and I work super hard for a living to provide my family with the best I can provide. If it pleases me that my wife dress in designer attire, then its my perrogative and my mission to deliver the financial resources. Just don't pin a Scarlett Letter on my chest because I strive for career success.

I personally detest being told that providing for my family should not be a priority and that I should "lighten up."