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Topic: There is only one sign I fear in the entire zodiac..
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5814 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 12:25 AM
Capricorn suns. They make me miserable :/i'm a cancer. I have no problem with Aries people, but have run into a few who I found extremely annoying and impossible to figure out. I keep on the lookout for Libra suns, too. However, just because they are that sun sign doesn't mean I won't be their friend. I'll just keep on the lookout that they might let me down in some major way. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 12:28 AM
Actually - I'm scared of Opiuchus!!! I mean what kinda guy carries a snake around everywhere? It's a little creepy!
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hannarama Newflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted November 03, 2011 12:29 AM
I've never met an Aries like that, maybe I AM that kind of Aries and I just don't know. I really don't hang out with too many fire signs though 'cause honest-to-god fire signs scare the crap out of me. I absolutely can't stand Leo men except for one and I think that's 'cause of his air (possibly water) moon. He's actually NICE. I get along with Leo women better though not by a large difference. Aquarius guys ruffle my feathers easily but I actually appreciate them because they never take my "Aries-ness" personally. I think my Gemini placements only enhance the Aries in me but hopefully I'm more refined now than a year ago.Let's see... I love Capricorn and Gemini men, but Gemini women have never stayed in my life too long (though they're great to shoot the breeze with at random) and Capricorn women have always seemed to enjoy hurting others' feelings (only speaking about the ones I've encountered) with their bluntness. I LOVE Sagittariuses!!! I really do. There's no pressure, no suffocation, just a lot of fun signs. They're the Irishmen of the zodiac in my opinion.  Uhm, I've met four Pisces that I can recall... two guys and two girls. One was in high school, he was a pretty sweet kid but his temper was off the charts. Worse, and more erratic than an "Aries" temper. The other guy was okay... he was a gentleman to his girlfriend and we got along but again with the bluntness! I don't understand it. Pisces is a sensitive sign so why aren't they conscious (maybe they are) of their tone when speaking to people? Both my Aunt and a co-worker I know currently have that tone and I have to hold myself back from telling them about themselves. 'Specially my Aunt... ugh. She has a Sag moon. Why is it Sag moons are nuts (maybe I'm nuts and that's why I've met so many) but Sag suns are great? Of course I love Scorpios too although Scorpio moons are very hard for me to be around. I'm a down-to-earth person but I'm light. I'm gentle. I'm graceful in my interactions with others 'cause I want to put them at ease, and not that Scorpio moons aren't but they are just TOO intense for me. Maybe they don't know that energy they exude? Who am I kidding, they're Scorpios... THEY KNOW. For awhile I had a string of Taurus guys I crushed on but they're too unsure of themselves. Nice guys though. I appreciated I could be silly around them and know it didn't matter. I could go on but I think I've said enough.  IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 12:47 AM
No offense, lindisfarne, but it seems, from what I've seen on the forum, that all your topics are a little too negative... I thought I should just tell you. Not starting a fight or anything, but there's a certain negativity that you bring to each topic you start that doesn't really promote positive inspiration in those of us who want to learn more about astrology rather than complaining about signs we dislike...IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 01:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: I don't know why. I never even put two and two together that all of the people who I dislike A LOT are all Taureans till recently. I think they intimidate me ans maybe with my moon in Leo I don't feel comfortable being intimidated or bullied. I just can't do them. And theyr'e not funny. I need funny. And theyr'e too possesive......
Agree! I don't fear them but they are annoying, possessive, and manipulative as all get out (!) More clingy than a Cancer, and Cancer is a tough one to beat on the cling factor!IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 01:17 AM
btw I love Aries, they're Sweethearts. I like that they get to the point and they're v.sincere.IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 01:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: Actually - I'm scared of Opiuchus!!! I mean what kinda guy carries a snake around everywhere? It's a little creepy!
HAHAHa!!!!!!!!!
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 01:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Libreo: [b]I don't know why. I never even put two and two together that all of the people who I dislike A LOT are all Taureans till recently. I think they intimidate me ans maybe with my moon in Leo I don't feel comfortable being intimidated or bullied. I just can't do them. And theyr'e not funny. I need funny. And theyr'e too possesive......
Agree! I don't fear them but they are annoying, possessive, and manipulative as all get out (!) More clingy than a Cancer, and Cancer is a tough one to beat on the cling factor![/B][/QUOTE]manipulative in what way????? I see the possessiveness but with material stuff maybe it's a fixed sign thing? IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2632 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 01:32 AM
It seems to me lindisfarne that you really do have an intense dislike for Aries, I've noticed in most of your threads you continuously bash them. Instead of focusing on the negative, why not try a little tolerence. Out
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 01:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Purrr: No offense, lindisfarne, but it seems, from what I've seen on the forum, that all your topics are a little too negative... I thought I should just tell you. Not starting a fight or anything, but there's a certain negativity that you bring to each topic you start that doesn't really promote positive inspiration in those of us who want to learn more about astrology rather than complaining about signs we dislike...
Why would you click something you don't like?? I'm not here to shine on your world. Or make you a peach pie. I have my reasons for being here (I don't need to tell you why I post it's fairly obvious though) and you don't read my posts thoroughly as not everything I say is negative. Cool if you get that impression but no one is forcing you to read anything I say. You're doing that all by yourself. Don't like, don't read/click/scroll/pay attention to etc etc. /shrug
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 01:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: manipulative in what way????? I see the possessiveness but with material stuff maybe it's a fixed sign thing?
I know right? Taurus are stubborn and possessive but manipulative??? LOL uh no. They're NOT clingy the way cancers are. Cancers smother you and it's like holy crap get away.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 01:49 AM
^ My experience. And I stand by it.IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1076 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 02:33 AM
Do you think that's the reason I don't like Taurus? Because of my Leo moon? hmmmm....IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1076 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 02:33 AM
Ummmm, confession. I have Mars in Taurus :-/IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1076 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 02:35 AM
And Lonake I like you! :-DIP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 03:41 AM
^ I attract Taurus pretty often, Venus conj Moon, that's all I can see for it. Maybe my H8 Sun is a draw too. The most interesting specimen had Taurus Sun, Mars, Asc, NN. Somehow I lived to tell the tale. However it makes me too sick to think about it lol. One of the few that I can think v.highly of is my half brother, but he has Aries Moon, Gem Asc & Gem Venus in the 1st. Just came out to his dad's side of the family, to boot he is gonna marry his bf, now fiance, his dad is completely devastated. That boy is the sweetest, most charming fella, and v.smart too (and good looking).IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake Moderator Posts: 751 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 03:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy: About the Cancerian Mars thing - that's a stereotype that definitely needs to die a quick death.
I agree!~ :-) There are many stereotypes about a certain sign or placement that needs to die a quick death! IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake Moderator Posts: 751 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 03:50 AM
I don't really fear any sign, that would be silly, as there are amazing people born of every sign.People who are prejudiced against any sun sign have much to lean IMHO... IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 03:51 AM
People perpetuate stereotypes by acting em out! If they stopped then there would be a 'HUSH'.IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake Moderator Posts: 751 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 03:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Purrr: No offense, lindisfarne, but it seems, from what I've seen on the forum, that all your topics are a little too negative... I thought I should just tell you. Not starting a fight or anything, but there's a certain negativity that you bring to each topic you start that doesn't really promote positive inspiration in those of us who want to learn more about astrology rather than complaining about signs we dislike...
I couldn't agree more!~ IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake Moderator Posts: 751 From: PA Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 03, 2011 03:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: btw I love Aries, they're Sweethearts. I like that they get to the point and they're v.sincere.
Thank you! :-) Finally someone with something nice to say about an Aries. IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 04:26 AM
quote: Why would you click something you don't like?? I'm not here to shine on your world. Or make you a peach pie. I have my reasons for being here (I don't need to tell you why I post it's fairly obvious though) and you don't read my posts thoroughly as not everything I say is negative. Cool if you get that impression but no one is forcing you to read anything I say. You're doing that all by yourself. Don't like, don't read/click/scroll/pay attention to etc etc. /shrug [/B]
I understand you're reaction, but you've completely misunderstood why I've said what I've said. You really don't need to feel as defensive as you are in your reaction. It's just that others and I have noticed that you do seem to be upset, but you need to find a more positive way to heal from those wounds... Starting threads on how much you hate a certain sign is not getting to the root of the issue. I'm sorry to sound harsh, but it's a bit... passive aggressive. What do you want to achieve? And I CHOOSE to read what you say because I want to UNDERSTAND your side of the story, where you're coming from. If I don't like what I read, I don't stop. That would be ignorant. I prefer to keep reading and investigating and create an objective, educated evaluation. I do not expect you to make my day, nor did I say that everything you say is negative. I said, verbatim, "from what I've seen on the forum, that all your topics are a little too negative..." As stated before, please don't be so defensive. No one means harm, especially me - and several others who know me personally from this forum would attest to that. I've had a mother who sexually, emotionally, abused me for my entire life. I can't go home without needing to call the police. But I don't start threads on how I think Cancer Mothers are insane. That doesn't create any positivity in my life. Instead, I find focusing on finding peace within myself helps me to heal. You can't change people. You can complain about them all you want, but it doesn't change a thing. You simply must move on... emotionally and spiritually... focusing on your hatred against people or their sun signs is not the path. However, if these topics made you feel better, than go ahead. My intuition just tells me that they're truly not helping you heal or reach a higher level of spirituality... Do they really help you heal? Or are they just a band aid? As lalalinda said, quote: "It seems to me lindisfarne that you really do have an intense dislike for Aries, I've noticed in most of your threads you continuously bash them. Instead of focusing on the negative, why not try a little tolerence."
Love and Light.  IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 04:30 AM
Also, please watch this video and remember the end.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B0lYIBjCpco IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 03, 2011 04:31 AM
Never let anyone take your inch away, including yourself.That's all. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8748 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 03, 2011 04:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mysticknowflake: Finally someone with something nice to say about an Aries.
I don't see anything rotten about em. Maybe people are just reacting to a Fire sign in a defensive way & then Mars is assoc. w.war so they take it personally when it comes from Aries? I have Fire Asc (Leo) & Mc (Aries) & Libra Mars, I don't see anything to be fearful of. I also don't see em as aggressive, am I missing something? Yea they get upset sometimes, but it's not without merit. And I think it's OK to be exact with your words when you are angry. It's healthy. Now, I've seen people w.Merc in hard aspect to Mars be combative/in your face types. Sun conj Mars men, forget about it. They want to be the biggest man on the streets, and all the swagger that goes with it. Mars/Saturn hard aspects, built up frustration manifesting as irritability/harsh words/forcing their issue. Mars/Uranus hard aspect could be another, tho this time it would be due more to lack of self control. But just an Aries, or an Aries stellium? I haven't seen it. ALSO When you look at someone with a lot of Aries, important to see what sign their Mars is in to see how Aries in their chart is gonna be filtered. The best would be either Mars in Aries (domicile) or Mars in Cap (exalted). Mars in Aries would be direct yes, but it is only them dealing with an issue before it becomes a disaster.IP: Logged |