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Topic: There is only one sign I fear in the entire zodiac..
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lindisfarne
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posted November 02, 2011 09:24 PM
  
Aries. *Specifically* heavily influenced Aries in someone's chart. I have to go out and buy a box of kleenex or something or else i will develop some neurotic tick LOL if I can stay around anyone with a lot of Aries in their chart. They just scare me. Very booming people, in your face, combative, aggressive.. at worst prone to shameful bullying tactics to intimidate you. Of course this is just my exp with people who have a lot of Aries in their birth chart. I dont mind sun Aries but there has to be either water or air in there enough for me to not want to shut down.
I just grow some anxiety around them. What about you guys? Any heavily influenced signs that make you very wary, anxiety ridden? Again this is not a topic to flame anyone or anyone's sign either, just share some of your experiences with any one, or two sign that someone had a heavy influence in their chart that made you feel very on-edge, anxious etc IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 02, 2011 09:37 PM
Cancer and scorpio
Wster signs really.I just can't stand the manipulation they love to pull. Gem too cos they're usually flakey and liars imho.IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted November 02, 2011 09:38 PM
I feel the same way about aries, too. my ex whom i have a 13 year old daughter with is the same way. has four planets in aries and venus in taurus. boy we can go at it. he is the only person who intimidates me, but i could never let on to that. yes combative-never know whats going to happen.. he has always been a bully to me and others. he bites, but i bite back, but im always scared. he has bullied me as far as trying to take her away from me using scare tactics and the legal system, manipulating his mom and the rest of his family by lying on me and his daughter to make himself look good, and feels he is above the law by not paying child support-he has had so many motions that there is now a block on it. i stopped going to hearings in 2002. i believe his asc is cancer which makes it worse. if his life is going bad, then he is going to punish someone else.
when he drops her off, he always has to makes noise with the tires on his truck, so embarrassing, it seems in your mid-forties you would grow out of it. but i have to remember he has all that aries fiery energy.my husband and i have a new son with four planets in aries. go figure....mommy is going to work on him for as long as i can about being selfish etc, but the aries is obvious. its good though bc he is obviously a leader and very active; always hiting his head like a ram. even in his sleep. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 02, 2011 09:44 PM
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Originally posted by taurusvirgoleolady1974:
I feel the same way about aries, too. my ex whom i have a 13 year old daughter with is the same way. has four planets in aries and venus in taurus. boy we can go at it. he is the only person who intimidates me, but i could never let on to that. yes combative-never know whats going to happen.. he has always been a bully to me and others. he bites, but i bite back, but im always scared. he has bullied me as far as trying to take her away from me using scare tactics and the legal system, manipulating his mom and the rest of his family by lying on me and his daughter to make himself look good, and feels he is above the law by not paying child support-he has had so many motions that there is now a block on it. i stopped going to hearings in 2002. i believe his asc is cancer which makes it worse. if his life is going bad, then he is going to punish someone else. my husband and i have a new son with four planets in aries. go figure....mommy is going to work on him for as long as i can about being selfish etc, but the aries is obvious. its good though bc he is obviously a leader and very active; always hiting his head like a ram. even in his sleep.
Oh god that is so strange because I was thinking, "hm when I have children I want to see if I can somehow willingly try to make them be born in a specific month..." LOL I actually *believe* i will try to get pregnant, and plan the whole thing so that my child will be born either in Aquarius.. or Taurus. How awful is that hahah! I definitely know how I will handle my child, knowing the birth information. I know i will still be into astrology in the next 5-10 years! I am sorry to hear about your story. I dont think sun aries are like that though, its specifically the influence of a lot of aries.. the bully-domineering behavior is really there. They scare me, not in a "I fear you because I respect you" kind of way, its a "I fear you because you bring out something inside of me that I do not want to come out. I fear you because I fear having to recycle exhausting ways to put up with the combative behavior, I fear you because I dislike having to go dumb and shut down because of the bullying behavior." And they are stubborn too. very. So even if you confront them on how their behavior isn't nice, they will get worse. So.. I learned to just take it all in.. and take my frustrations out by either talking about it or writing about it/drawing.etc. Its awful that he wont even pay for child support.. Ugh makes me sick. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 02, 2011 09:49 PM
Don't you have a cancer mars? Might be why they're rubbing you the wrong way. I have an aries rising, I love it. Beats having sth passive anyday.IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 02, 2011 09:58 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Don't you have a cancer mars? Might be why they're rubbing you the wrong way. I have an aries rising, I love it. Beats having sth passive anyday.
I have cancer Mars.
I dont consider myself a Passive person either. I can be aggressive, in fact I am, just not the way an aries is - in your face, domineering having to show the entire world who and what they are. I assert myself in a way where I am not noticed. I prefer to be in the background so to speak. I am aggressive especially when acquiring material things, but not in a way where I bully others and belittle them. The difference between myself being an Aquarius with a lot of aqua placements and water placements (cancer mars pisces moon and venus) is that when someone confronts me, i don't get hostile and try to bully them. I let them think/say what they need and than i go off and reflect on it. If someone disagrees with me, I don't bully them and try to lower their self-esteem. instead I debate and try to find out why they disagree with me, sometimes I may come off as stubborn and rigid and its happened where I stay fixed on my ideas/opinions but I never bully someone into taking my side etc like the aries people i know. I also don't walk into a room and have to pronounce my superiority, I dont outwardly act overly aggressive and put people off. I walk into a room, do what I have to do and get it done and leave. I also don't get up in people's faces, and start a big argument screaming at people just cause someone said something offensive. Instead I prefer to verbally communicate in a calm matter and if i am not able to speak in a calm manner, I walk away/go reflect. maybe thats passive who knows.. Being in your face and having a screaming match is something I never have been into, and I quite do not understand others that do this.. Sometimes it seems people consider what would be passive when it is actually silently aggressive, not everyone has that need to physically pronounce their greatness/qualities. Some people would rather show it through consistent effort and hard work. Not saying you don't but Im just speaking based on the Aries influenced people I knew.. A lot of people get the impression that I am passive. Im really not. I just prefer to reflect, take a step back most of the time and consider what the best route of action would be, and thats when I act. I act truly, if I find the situation to be beneficial i dont waste my time on things that aren't worth it. Again people think I am passive, so its not curious to me at all that you might perceive me to be passive. Im a silent attacker. I'll get you when you least expect it. Is how I roll. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 02, 2011 10:18 PM
OMG I'm afraid to death of pisces placements now...
yet I cant see to get away from it... I see pisces and I automatically think RUN girl RUN!!!!!!! Dont look back... IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 02, 2011 10:53 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
OMG I'm afraid to death of pisces placements now...
yet I cant see to get away from it... I see pisces and I automatically think RUN girl RUN!!!!!!! Dont look back...
LOl! Why? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 02, 2011 10:55 PM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
LOl! Why?
Seems to be my weakness... Every guy I fall for hard has something in pisces...
I get the pisces placements since my asc is in pisces, but the rest of me goes crazy! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 02, 2011 10:56 PM
They don't know what they want, from my experiences and are wishy washy...flakey...Just not sth I'd find attractive traits in ANYBODY. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 02, 2011 10:57 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
OMG I'm afraid to death of pisces placements now...
yet I cant see to get away from it... I see pisces and I automatically think RUN girl RUN!!!!!!! Dont look back...
Lol why!? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 02, 2011 10:58 PM
See above ^^^^^  IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 02, 2011 11:02 PM
Sorry for double post hahaIP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 02, 2011 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
Aries. *Specifically* heavily influenced Aries in someone's chart. I have to go out and buy a box of kleenex or something or else i will develop some neurotic tick LOL if I can stay around anyone with a lot of Aries in their chart. They just scare me. Very booming people, in your face, combative, aggressive.. at worst prone to shameful bullying tactics to intimidate you. Of course this is just my exp with people who have a lot of Aries in their birth chart. I dont mind sun Aries but there has to be either water or air in there enough for me to not want to shut down.
I just grow some anxiety around them. What about you guys? Any heavily influenced signs that make you very wary, anxiety ridden? Again this is not a topic to flame anyone or anyone's sign either, just share some of your experiences with any one, or two sign that someone had a heavy influence in their chart that made you feel very on-edge, anxious etc
I don't fear Aries, I just find them really obnoxious, like that bratty kid you see out in public whose parents never taught them manners so they constantly throw tantrums... Any manipulation stuff water signs pull doesn't instill fear in me it just annoys me and makes me feel total lack of respect and contempt towards them; I have a strong Pluto and I always pick up on it immediately and find it repulsive... Honestly I don't fear any signs, there's just some signs whose shadow side I find more annoying or intolerable than others. About the Cancerian Mars thing - that's a stereotype that definitely needs to die a quick death.A lot of successful boxers, have Mars in Cancer. Mars in Cancer isn't wimpy, it's just laid back and has a long fuse. But go too far or put one in a position where they feel they have to protect themselves or those they care about and you'll get a rude awakening, really fast. I have my Mars in the sign, but then again it also squares Jupiter, Saturn AND Pluto, so maybe that changes things alot. IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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posted November 02, 2011 11:31 PM
I like everyone. I've had good and bad experiences with all the signs, I'd love to join in but I don't fear any of them. Ah well.  IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 02, 2011 11:50 PM
I'm with Lioness! lolBut only some Pisces... and definitely only the men.
Anyway I have good instincts so I stir clear of the toxic types.
They can be very cruel. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 02, 2011 11:53 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I'm with Lioness! lolBut only some Pisces... and definitely only the men.
Anyway I have good instincts so I stir clear of the toxic types.
They can be very cruel.
Yeah a good friend of mine is a Pisces Sun with a Leo moon...
Luv her... But never date her... hahahha! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 02, 2011 11:59 PM
Natively Joan - quote:
I've had good and bad experiences with all the signs
Same here! But you know.. everyone goes through their emotional maturity cycle in life.. When I was younger I used to blame my Pisces first love for so many negative things in my life... I went through the death of two people close to me and his behaviour at this time is something that I thought I could not forgive..
Now I no longer blame him.. because it is bygones and I attract so many Pisces in my life, so I know many of them are very positive and genuine people. I guess some people never get over things. It's sad to watch, because it reminds me of myself when I was stuck in that place.. but... what can one do?
 I'm wishing everyone on this thread all the best and hoping you can get past the negativity & attract people who bring you lots of good times & hearty laughs.
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Betty Boop
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posted November 03, 2011 12:01 AM
Lioness - quote:
Yeah a good friend of mine is a Pisces Sun with a Leo moon...
Luv her... But never date her..
lollll I know what you mean! My best friend is a Pisces with Ven/Mars conj in Aries... Watch OUT!!!!
She's definitely more fiery than I've ever been. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 03, 2011 12:04 AM
Taurus. Everyone I dislike with a passion to the point of sleepless nights and a racing heartrate, has a Taurus sun or moon. My daughters father is Taurus sun, moon, venus, mercury and mars. Don't ask I don't know how it happened. I can't even look at him or hear his voice or his name. Her step mum is Scorpio with a Taurus moon. I have to go now, I'm thinking about it Taurus too much.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 03, 2011 12:06 AM
^ *gasp* by why? They're so stable and solid. And you feel like you can depend on them and they're comfortable. Stubborn yes, but they're affectionate and romantic and mostly loyal!
Way better traits than a gem lol.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted November 03, 2011 12:13 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Lioness - lollll I know what you mean! My best friend is a Pisces with Ven/Mars conj in Aries... Watch OUT!!!!
She's definitely more fiery than I've ever been.
Yeah my friend has Venus in Aries Mars in Cap.. Shes one fiery women, way more gusto then me..
We have lots of fun together.. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 03, 2011 12:14 AM
I don't know why. I never even put two and two together that all of the people who I dislike A LOT are all Taureans till recently. I think they intimidate me ans maybe with my moon in Leo I don't feel comfortable being intimidated or bullied. I just can't do them. And theyr'e not funny. I need funny. And theyr'e too possesive......IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted November 03, 2011 12:14 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Taurus. Everyone I dislike with a passion to the point of sleepless nights and a racing heartrate, has a Taurus sun or moon. My daughters father is Taurus sun, moon, venus, mercury and mars. Don't ask I don't know how it happened. I can't even look at him or hear his voice or his name. Her step mum is Scorpio with a Taurus moon. I have to go now, I'm thinking about it Taurus too much.
lol damn girl
why??
you'll def dislike my sister than! do you get their sense of superiority too? like they walk around judging everyone with their noses in the airIP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 03, 2011 12:19 AM
YES!! Too much pride. Her Dad is ONLY concerned with 'do I COME ACROSS as a good Dad?" But isn't. He showed up at her pre school 2 days ago and hit on her teacher. Drunk. He's already tried to sleaze onto 2 of her little friends single mums, but then he's a bully and doesn't pay child support and still demands all his Daddy rights, he's just a creep. Another one likes to publically humiliate and embarrass his facebook friends and thinks it makes him look good....
I have to go again, heart rates rising.IP: Logged |
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