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Topic: Boyfriend proposed; I said no
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featherlightly
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posted November 03, 2011 05:42 PM
  
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Originally posted by Mysticknowflake:
This just doesn't look like a marriage chart. The Saturn issues between the charts are disturbing to me. His Saturn has no aspects to her personal planets and her Saturn is in opposition with his mars. Edit: Her mars and his moon also her Saturn is squaring his mercury, that is a very difficult aspect that can be overcome, but will take much patience.
Saturn has been a BIG theme in our relationship. Although the line didn't show up in the chart, his Saturn actually squares my Mars. Then there's my Saturn opposition his moon (ouch), our Saturns square, the Saturn square Mercury... I think it's a big part of why this relationship has felt frustrating yet I'm reluctant to give up on it (the Saturn "glue"). IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted November 03, 2011 05:44 PM
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Originally posted by Mysticknowflake:
Lonake: OMG yes, that is the exact feeling. It is like the love is there, but you just can't reach a level of intimacy of the soul, if that makes sense.
Yes, exactly! It doesn't reach the soul... all the other elements are in place, he's easy to live with and a lot of fun, but I crave something deeper. My moon is at the apex of a T-square with Sun/Mercury and Pluto... when it's not activated in synastry, something big is missing... IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted November 03, 2011 05:46 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Who just commented on synastry Merc sq Saturn? Am I the only lazy one in this bunch, lol, who wants to trudge through that mess? Feels like sludge. I'll gladly take my synastry minus Saturn aspects to Mercury, please.
Yeah... not a fun aspect. I had an ex where our synastry had a Saturn opposition Mercury double whammy. I wanted to punch him every time he opened his mouth. In this relationship, it's manifesting as major misunderstandings and a very poor ability to communicate on serious topics. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted November 03, 2011 11:51 PM
7 months? Christ. That's too short of a relationship to know FOR SURE that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. Obviously you feel that way, which is pragmatic. It's also good that you said no because you feel like walking away sometimes. IMO, if you feel that you could do that and it doesn't tear you apart, he's not the one (but I'm a romantic so).IP: Logged |
Mysticknowflake
Moderator Posts: 751
From: PA
Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 04, 2011 03:45 AM
featherlightly, tread carefully with this relationship, sounds as if you are doing much soul searching. Listen to that little nagging voice, I wish that I would have many times. Blessed be!~ IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 04, 2011 06:52 AM
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Venus
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posted November 04, 2011 07:54 AM
bottom line is, dont let go of him yet! if he realy cares he will wait until ur ready  it might take just a couple of months or maybe a couple of years, but when you're ready ur ready IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 05, 2011 03:03 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I wonder is it the one with the unaspected planet, who feels strangely detached on a deeper level?
True for me (!)
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Lonake
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posted November 05, 2011 03:07 AM
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Originally posted by featherlightly:
Funny you mention career, too. Our careers intersect (we're both self-employed in the same field) and we originally met through our work. Now we've kinda joined forces and do a lot of our work conjointly. I definitely do give him career advice, and you're right that I find his work ethic appealing!
Thanks for the feedback on the career comments. I was hesitating on whether to write that part but the Grand trine stands out.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted November 05, 2011 08:36 AM
Can you post the composite?IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 05, 2011 09:31 AM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
7 months? Christ. That's too short of a relationship to know FOR SURE that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.
My wife and I did that through mutual agreement in 22 days (not a shock proposal). So, it can work. We are now happily married almost 19 years. IP: Logged |
featherlightly
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posted November 05, 2011 11:19 PM
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