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Topic: Do you believe in divorce?
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Jounia
Knowflake Posts: 598
From: United Kingdom
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 05, 2011 09:50 AM
  
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Originally posted by rajji:
Marriage is a lifetime commitment for me and nobody can ever make for a perfect partner. So I would try to make the right choice before jumping into it...If I get married I will not divorce...It takes a lot of effort to stay together in any kind of relationship...unless anybody wants a joyride.
If my future husband would die under any circumstances then I will not remarry ever again.
I can be extremely loyal.
Marriage is a one time affair for me..just like many stages in life comes but only once-Infancy,childhood,adolescence,adulthood etc etc.
My whole life I thought the same.... until April this year, when my thought and beliefs just completely turned. No idea why. Now I believe in divorce - something i have been so strongly against my whole life.
Cancer sun.
Venus in Gemini in 4th house.
Venus Trine Mars 6°34'A
Venus Opposition Uranus 5°08'S
Venus Sesquiquadrate Pluto 2°47'A
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rajji
Knowflake Posts: 1274
From:
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted November 05, 2011 11:01 AM
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Originally posted by Jounia:
My whole life I thought the same.... until April this year, when my thought and beliefs just completely turned. No idea why. Now I believe in divorce - something i have been so strongly against my whole life.
Cancer sun.
Venus in Gemini in 4th house.
Venus Trine Mars 6°34'A
Venus Opposition Uranus 5°08'S
Venus Sesquiquadrate Pluto 2°47'A
"Marriage is a lifetime commitment for me and nobody can ever make for a perfect partner. So I would try to make the right choice before jumping into it...If I get married I will not divorce...It takes a lot of effort to stay together in any kind of relationship...unless anybody wants a joyride.
If my future husband would die under any circumstances then I will not remarry ever again.
I can be extremely loyal.
Marriage is a one time affair for me..just like many stages in life comes but only once-Infancy,childhood,adolescence,adulthood etc etc."-Obviously My Venus in Libra is speaking! Jounia Your Venus in Gemini has probably made you to take a 'U-Turn'! IP: Logged |
amowls**
Knowflake Posts: 1913
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 05, 2011 11:07 AM
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i dont get it, if you expect loyalty from a partner you are only treating them as a lover?
how so? I expect loyalty from friends as well and they're certainly not lovers. Eta: nvm I guess you were asking me to clarify. Sexual loyalty is not high on my list of priorities as long as they respect you by talking about it first. If they went behind my back, I'd be hurt but only because of the lie. IP: Logged |
downtomars
Knowflake Posts: 1077
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2011 11:37 AM
I believe that people get divorced too easily nowadays. There is no such thing as “working on it” or “working it out” anymore because we have become so selfish as a society, only getting married to get the attention and the big party and getting divorced when it turns out that marriage is about love and love takes work. Work is not good as we are also a minimal effort society. We are also too quick to fool ourselves in relationships also. For example, I had a Scorpio who proposed to me every time he wanted to get back together after we broke up. If I just wanted someone for the sake of having someone I could have taken it and ran with it, fooling myself into seeing him as husband material and not the mentally abusive alcoholic that he is in reality. I know quite a few smart, professional women who have married the boyfriend who cheats, the boyfriend who is abusive, the boyfriend who can’t hold a job just so they can have the big party. They then wonder why the man still cheats, doesn’t work and is a jerk. The party and the piece of paper didn’t change anything for them so now, divorce. If we are true to ourselves and about what we think is acceptable and workable then divorce wouldn’t even be an option. There would also be less people getting married, or more people getting themselves together and being older when they do get married. Also less people wearing big, hideous white dresses and forcing people to eat dry chicken. And less registry and more charitable donations in lieu of gifts. I am very, very pro-marriage, I cannot wait to be united with another soul and that is all that matters which is why I am also pro-elopement. *Leo w/Aquarius rising, Moon in Libra – Venus conjunct DC opp AC, Sun, Mercury, Jupiter in Leo in the 7th and Saturn, Vertex & NN in Virgo in the 7th, Moon in the 9th conjunct Pluto in the 8th *
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frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 897
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 05, 2011 12:48 PM
Of course I believe in it - it exists, doesn't it? :PActually I don't even "believe in" (agree with) marriage. What a bunch of crap...trying to uphold all these traditions that are meaningless in our culture and era. I hate how it's so elaborate and focused on the bride. I find it selfish and a huge waste of money. If you love someone, be with them. If you want a tax break - stop being so fcking selfish. You'll live without it.
Venus in Scorpio, Sun in Capricorn, Moon in Sagittarius.
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Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 2241
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2011 03:27 PM
I believe in divorce as much as I believe in a priest assessing the compatibility of the couples and braving an answer of NO.Divorce in the natal house is house 6. The 12th house from the 7th of marriage. Nothing to do with Venus. Imagine having love marriage and divorce as the same thing in astrology?
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