posted November 05, 2011 01:14 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
i'm surprised that no one has pointed out to her that she has just turned a 'friend' into an 'enemy' and if that scorpio were to lose their job, op wouldn't be getting off so squeaky clean..

jus sayin.

i think there is lots of truth to the scorpio being so moronic that they don't fess up to their b.s. because of control.. they fear not being in control and if they even so much as acknowledged what the friend is saying, even if based in all truth and even if they know it themselves, they'll never admit it because it will be seen as a weakness.. i'm not a scorpio but i understand the mentality very well.

from then on, if the friend felt a right to mention something like that to the scorpio, they'll probably do it again if the scorpio is receptive.. and again, and again and again and if it does happen more than once, it can get ugly.. and fast.. it's better for them to walk away than to express what they're saying because more than likely, they want to gouge your eyes out.

i think u should be very aware that you're on thin ice now, op, and anything u say, can and will be used against u without prior notice.

you've been warned.

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posted November 05, 2011 01:19 AM            

u have no idea what she feels because she hasn't said a word to u.

because of it, ur assuming what you want to believe but obviously, you have NO experience with scorpio, period!

i wouldn't push her anymore.

posted November 05, 2011 01:29 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
maybe you're ignorant and self-involved?

u have no idea what she feels because she hasn't said a word to u.

because of it, ur assuming what you want to believe but obviously, you have NO experience with scorpio, period!

i wouldn't push her anymore.

if u think 'verbal' would be as dirty as it'd get, i look forward to your next thread where u realize u had another thing coming.

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So being lazy, unprofessional is completely justified? ******* everyone off is completely justified?
Refusing to accept responsibility is justified?
Getting other people to talk for you is also justified?
The fact that I went out of my way on many occasions to warn her/talk to her = me being ignorant/self involved? Maybe you are not familiar with big words you use, who knows!

I have seen this time and time again, people defending laziness of Scorpio's. Makes no sense to me to be quite honest. If I did something wrong, and someone made it apparent and if more than 3 people are making it apparent, i'd do the best thing and get it checked out.

I am ignorant and self-involved? Did you not read anything? Or are you just firing back at me for saying you lack any depth LOL what is really going on here.. do you have a Leo moon? (I bet you do) Did I bruise your ego with that comment? Im not sorry, I do not think you have any depth to you.

I obviously am not self-involved if I am the ONLY person in our entire department that tries to confront her on numerous occasions. Hence why I am even here asking how can you even confront a scorpio in a way where they wont run away and avoid. Which you clearly missed, again i have a hunch you're just upset which entertains me.

Your poor reading comprehension bemuses me too. And you still can't answer my question. How am I walking on thin ice? You continue this pretentious form of cryptic behavior just stop wasting my time and get to the point, this isn't the riddle game..

posted November 05, 2011 01:37 AM            

that is all.

posted November 05, 2011 01:47 AM            

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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
i'll say that i don't hope anything that is headed for u isn't already on it's way.

that is all.

good luck with your 'friend', your 'cooking' and your 'boyfriend'. take care.

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posted November 05, 2011 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
biggest eyeroll right now, just saying. i don't take people like you seriously you can't even spit out what you want to say. its not like i even know you in person, you can just say it but whatever.

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I realize I'm not apart of this dispute between you and TuxedoMask but I was reading this thread and wanted to mention that forum discussions aren't really meant to be duals. Just a place for peaceful discourse. If I were you I'd respect TuxedoMask for sharing his opinion and continue to discuss topics related to this thread peacefully. We are all entitled to our own opinions and we can agree or disagree but there's no need to get into an abrasive verbal dispute. We should all just put our matches away...and be tranquil .

posted November 05, 2011 03:05 AM            

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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
I realize I'm not apart of this dispute between you and TuxedoMask but I was reading this thread and wanted to mention that forum discussions aren't really meant to be duals. Just a place for peaceful discourse. If I were you I'd respect TuxedoMask for sharing his opinion and continue to discuss topics related to this thread peacefully. We are all entitled to our own opinions and we can agree or disagree but there's no need to get into an abrasive verbal dispute. We should all just put our matches away...and be tranquil .

And to answer the original thread question, everyone has the capacity to think logically including Scorpios. They are actually some of the most intelligent, emotionally mature and perceptive people I've known personally.

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posted November 05, 2011 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:

-I have seen this time and time again, people defending laziness of Scorpio's. Makes no sense to me to be quite honest.

- Scorpios and their planning to attack someone, thats just ridiculous. I dont care for it.

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posted November 05, 2011 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
This isn't stereotyping? I can see if your offended if people were making excuses for the scorpios your talking about in your thread, because we don't know them. But to generalize a whole group of people isn't logical if you ask me. The irony :/

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posted November 05, 2011 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
your co worker does sound like she is lazy and is nice you communicated with her instead of going to the boss and getting her in trouble...

but I have noticed that NN in the 10th people since they are here to focus on career matters have really high standards of professionalism and have little patience for anything less than excellence and feel based on my one NN in the 10th experience that they need to not demand the same level of dedication to their career to others bec only one out 12 people have NN in the 10th but I understand your frustration in this particular case. I dont like to do other people's work either and that rubs me the wrong way bc I feel like co worker is taking advantage!!! Its inconsiderate and disrespectful to the coworkers. I never ask anyone to do my work for me, ever.

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To the other poster, I have noting against tuxedo
what I do not like however is little annoying mind games aka cryptic behavior. If you're not going to say what you must than don't speak at all. it's extremely banal if you ask me. People that do that really annoy me to no end...

@Amelia I don't think I have high expectations when it comes to work. I mean all I expect is, you to do your job, that's pretty much it. Sure sometimes I get annoyed by people that prefer to play, I'm not saying not having fun at work is okay either but I get impatient when it's a consistent thing- having someone play and not working and having everyone pick up after them, you know? I can't stand people that come to work to talk, gossip, and basically do anything but the work itself.. it angers me a little because there are people out there that are unemployed and would do anything to be in so and so position, you know? If you don't wanna work, don't book shifts, just stay home or whatever you know?

posted November 05, 2011 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
No.. everyone I know makes excuse for laziness towards Scorpios "maybe they don't like the job"
it's not here, it's other places and some people offline. laziness shouldn't be excused, stepping on toes, ******* people off, shouldn't be excused. I'm not repeating myself this is based on my own experience I clearly talk about people I personally know... and people I observe and other people can agree with me

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Well what if certain "excuses" really are the case? I don't mean the rude examples you stated, but it seems like you would give anyone the benefit of the doubt except scorpios. Like no matter what negative outcome that seems to be going on with them is always there fault. Not saying it isn't but you should really look at it from both perspectives. Because unless your in somebodies shoes you don't truly understand what there going through. I mean that for ALL zodiac signs.

posted November 05, 2011 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Well what if certain "excuses" really are the case? I don't mean the rude examples you stated, but it seems like you would give anyone the benefit of the doubt except scorpios. Like no matter what negative outcome that seems to be going on with them is always there fault. Not saying it isn't but you should really look at it from both perspectives. Because unless your in somebodies shoes you don't truly understand what there going through. I mean that for ALL zodiac signs.

The only advice i can give to you is if you don't like someone, stay away from them. These scorpios obviously rub you the wrong way, despite them being your "friends".

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posted November 05, 2011 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Anjellyfish:
I creep these threads all the time, but never really say much (other than occasional activity in another forum on here). Is it just me, but if someone "stereotypes" another sign or placement...i.e gemini moon, or Aries sun (which people seem to do here ALL the time, and I am a Aries sun & merc with a Gemini stellium, including Gem moon) it's okay, and people feed into it? but if someone stereotypes Scorpios, it's like, oh no! Okay, anyways...off my rant on the total hypocrisy and when certain other signs get stereotyped I never see this much caustic vibes- Scorpios DO have a tendency to passive-aggression, and trying to avoid confrontations. I do think it's totally overrated how some astrologers like to play up the scorio sun sign or rising sign like it's powerful and the most mysterious? To me, they just remind me of terrified, sensitive emotional people.

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I don't think it's okay to stereotype any sign :/ it's ignorant. Just my opinion

Though it's funny, if water signs stick up for themselves there being sensitive, but if they try to avoid arguing there scared? LOL

posted November 05, 2011 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
You're fair to have your assumptions. I dont really feel like expanding, its pointless.

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posted November 05, 2011 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I don't know very many scorpios, and the ones I do aren't very talkactive.

I'm a Scorpio myself & I always try to be level-headed.
But Idk you tell me, was my comment on your other post logical? :/ I know one thing for sure, when I have a bad experience with a sign i certainly don't stereotype all of them.

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I'm not sure if the OP has read or responded to this yet, but I think it's important. Stereotyping isn't the point of Astrology: understanding better who we are, how we interact, and overall our lessons to learn this 'go around' are.

Plenty of people at work do the bare minimum to skate by, sometimes, they excel on their trajectory as of by luck - but rarely. All of us can become disgruntled with lazy co-workers; but those who focus on that gripe, find they are less focused on the work. Any sign of the Zodiac can be lazy, self-righteous, and evasive - it's all a matter of life experience and circumstance.

posted November 05, 2011 10:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Wild Places:
I'm not sure if the OP has read or responded to this yet, but I think it's important. Stereotyping isn't the point of Astrology: understanding better who we are, how we interact, and overall our lessons to learn this 'go around' are.

Plenty of people at work do the bare minimum to skate by, sometimes, they excel on their trajectory as of by luck - but rarely. All of us can become disgruntled with lazy co-workers; but those who focus on that gripe, find they are less focused on the work. Any sign of the Zodiac can be lazy, self-righteous, and evasive - it's all a matter of life experience and circumstance.

Give the Scorpios a break.
Expansively,
A Fellow Aquarian (wishing we could all, just get along)

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