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Topic: what do you think of a man with Mars in Libra?
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anongrl10
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posted November 14, 2011 04:23 PM
  
I have Jup in Libra (which rules my sun since I'm a Sag) and kind of get along with Libras. I don't fancy them usually but I get along famously especially when my Jup conjuncts one of their personal planets.Would you think a man with Mars in Libra is like a man with Sun in Libra? This guy is a Sun and Venus Cap, with Mars in Libra. He has a Venus-Mars square like I do. In my eyes, this sounds like a guy who looks more conservative and more "strict" that he really is; assuming that Mars is a man's core. What do you think? IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted November 14, 2011 08:29 PM
Gosh, I'm not sure how that layout with the Venusian square is gonna work out against Cap energy. But one thing I noticed about the three Libra Mars guys I know of: they want to be charming but flirt way too aggressively. They don't know when to be laid back and when to be more assertive. Limp handshake and then in-your-face unabashed flirtation, flavored by their Venus sign (since Mars in Libra would "ask" Libra's ruling planet how to act). So I guess this Cap guy would flirt by acting patronizing...? (Venus in Cap) IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 14, 2011 08:36 PM
Not really. Mars in Libra is somewhat combative. Irritating the passive aggressiveness, can't take no for an answer. My experience.I'm a female with Venus Cap sq Mars in Libra,
dated someone with the same combo (male).
Venus Cap makes em earthy bawdy sexuality, they just don't usually advertise it. Libra Mars typical romantic, in men tho it can go haywire.. You're right to a certain extent that the combo leans toward traditional. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted November 15, 2011 02:35 AM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Gosh, I'm not sure how that layout with the Venusian square is gonna work out against Cap energy. But one thing I noticed about the three Libra Mars guys I know of: they want to be charming but flirt way too aggressively. They don't know when to be laid back and when to be more assertive. Limp handshake and then in-your-face unabashed flirtation, flavored by their Venus sign (since Mars in Libra would "ask" Libra's ruling planet how to act). So I guess this Cap guy would flirt by acting patronizing...? (Venus in Cap)
LOL I think you nailed the flirting tactic if I judge from my experience.
I do like his Venus and Sun in Cap but I wonder if Mars in Libra is screwing this up.
A Libra Mars for a man sounds very passive-aggressive given the opposing (Aries-Libra) energies, or at a minimum frustration.
And the thing I cannot comprehend is the square. How is a Mars in Libra squaring Venus in Cap behaves? I mean Libra wants beauty and fairness and perhaps a bit of a womanizer (wants to please all?) but Cap is more about "who's the best for me"? Is that right? Or what else could it a potential expression of this square? IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted November 15, 2011 02:37 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Not really. Mars in Libra is somewhat combative. Irritating the passive aggressiveness, can't take no for an answer. My experience.I'm a female with Venus Cap sq Mars in Libra,
dated someone with the same combo (male).
Venus Cap makes em earthy bawdy sexuality, they just don't usually advertise it. Libra Mars typical romantic, in men tho it can go haywire.. You're right to a certain extent that the combo leans toward traditional.
Really? Combative, can't take no for an answer? This sounds almost like a Scorpio to me. 
In what ways can Mars in Libra in men can go haywire? Any examples? Just to get the feeling. Thanks!
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Lonake
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posted November 16, 2011 02:20 AM
^ Really.... I don't experience Scorpios that way at all. They don't really do passive-aggressive.
Libra Mars men when they're not getting what they want keep pushing and pushing to try to get a reaction out of me, to get me to express a negative feeling cos that makes em feel better. They can't just drop it when they don't get what they want. Aspects matter though. I dated one Libra Mars like myself w.Saturn and Pluto in Libra conjunct the Mars, not even close to being like any regular ol' Mars. That's one big reason I don't play the regular passive-aggressive game. The other Libra Mars men, they push to get any kind of reaction all the while with a smile on their face and then when you are close to giving it to them they act like 'what's wrong with you, I didn't mean that' when all the while they were up to exactly that. That's what they get off on. Gluttons for punishment, too. Smarmy fellows, I can see right through them. I would not date a Libra Mars man again unless he was packing a super conjunction to it. Saturn and Pluto do not mess around.
But if you have a good one (or one that you can stand) it is a v.romantic placement and they are typically sensitive lovers who look after their partner's needs first.
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anongrl10
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posted November 16, 2011 02:31 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
^ Really.... I don't experience Scorpios that way at all. They don't really do passive-aggressive.
OK, I was referring to "combative" and "won't take no for an answer" only. Not to passive-aggressive. That is very Libra indeed! quote:
Libra Mars men when they're not getting what they want keep pushing and pushing to try to get a reaction out of me, to get me to express a negative feeling cos that makes em feel better. They can't just drop it when they don't get what they want. Aspects matter though. I dated one Libra Mars like myself w.Saturn and Pluto in Libra conjunct the Mars, not even close to being like any regular ol' Mars. That's one big reason I don't play the regular passive-aggressive game. The other Libra Mars men, they push to get any kind of reaction all the while with a smile on their face and then when you are close to giving it to them they act like 'what's wrong with you, I didn't mean that' when all the while they were up to exactly that. That's what they get off on. Gluttons for punishment, too. Smarmy fellows, I can see right through them. I would not date a Libra Mars man again unless he was packing a super conjunction to it. Saturn and Pluto do not mess around.
That's quite an experience you had there, Lonake. Sorry to hear. It sounds almost emotionally abusive.
This Libra Mars is square to Venus Cap in this guy's chart. His Saturn is in Taurus where my Moon and Saturn are. His Pluto is near mine (small age difference). I would say he definitely goes after what he wants but in a diplomatic way. If what he wants and what you want clash, yeah I see a problem.
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But if you have a good one (or one that you can stand) it is a v.romantic placement and they are typically sensitive lovers who look after their partner's needs first.
I am not sure I can't stand the aloofness of Sun and Venus in Cap but I feel they are very attentive and warm when they want to. So, it's confusing. I thought his Mars in Libra might be a mitigating factor but not sure after what you shared with me. The sure is that he's not a straightforward man and I am a straightforward woman...
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Metid
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posted November 18, 2011 05:27 AM
I'm a Libra mars man with sextile Leo venus.. How do you think I come across? Interested to see.------------------
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 05:39 AM
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Originally posted by Metid:
I'm a Libra mars man sextile Leo venus.. How do you think I come across? Interested to see.
Well, I think your Leo Venus will go a long way to make u a good match with me (Sag Sun Venus in Scorpio here). With the guy in question, his Venus and Sun are in Cap while his Mars in Libra is in square to both his Cappie Venus and Sun. Your sextile is just smoother on the eye and the heart of the other person. I also have a Ven-Mars natal square and gosh I think some people might be as bewildered by me as I am with this Cap-sq-Libra guy, but as always it's easier to see something when it's in someone else's "makeup" than in ourselves. IP: Logged |
Metid
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posted November 18, 2011 05:50 AM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Well, I think your Leo Venus will go a long way to make u a good match with me (Sag Sun Venus in Scorpio here). With the guy in question, his Venus and Sun are in Cap while his Mars in Libra is in square to both his Cappie Venus and Sun. Your sextile is just smoother on the eye and the heart of the other person. I also have a Ven-Mars natal square and gosh I think some people might be as bewildered by me as I am with this Cap-sq-Libra guy, but as always it's easier to see something when it's in someone else's "makeup" than in ourselves.
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 06:09 AM
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Originally posted by Metid:
Sun Gemini with Scorp Asc which confuses me sometimes
Wow, interesting combo. Although Gems are opposite my Sun I find them super attractive.
Scorpio ASC is intriguing (esp to this Venus in Scorpio); do you have any planets in your 1st or in conj (or opp) to your ASC? IP: Logged |
Metid
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posted November 18, 2011 06:37 AM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Wow, interesting combo. Although Gems are opposite my Sun I find them super attractive.
Scorpio ASC is intriguing (esp to this Venus in Scorpio); do you have any planets in your 1st or in conj (or opp) to your ASC?
Well heres link to my chart.. I'm pretty new at this all.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/001678.html
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 06:43 AM
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Originally posted by Metid:
Well heres link to my chart.. I'm pretty new at this all.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/001678.html
The image in that thread is not showing anymore. You have to make sure it's still on your photobucket account. Then, give me to link or the img code from there.
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Metid
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posted November 18, 2011 06:56 AM
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 07:41 AM
Bingo! 
So you have Moon in Scorpio conjunct your ASC from the 12th conjunct Neptune also in Scorpio in the 12th house of the Pisces, where Neptune feels at home. Very spiritual and highly sensitive and intuitive position.
Although Neptune feels good in the 12th, the cusp is in Scorpio not Pisces. You are passionate about your esoteric life. Even your NN tells you that you need less Scorpio and more Taurus in this lifetime. Scorpio has to tone down to Pisces and Pisces needs the roots and earthy realism of Taurus especially when it comes to your dreams/goals/wishes and associations with friends and groups.
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Metid
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posted November 18, 2011 07:48 AM
Spiritual, sensitive and intuitive sounds right.
What do I do?... A mixture of things.. Civil Servant (Weatherman), Soldier but re-training to be an actor.------------------
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 07:58 AM
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Originally posted by Metid:
Spiritual, sensitive and intuitive sounds right.
What do I do?... A mixture of things.. Civil Servant (Weatherman), Soldier but re-training to be an actor.
Oh very interesting: you have this opposition between your Mars in Libra and Saturn in Aries the house of Mars. Soldier is damn right for you. Are you strict (Sat) but fair (Libra)? This is a dynamic relationship (opposition, that is) that means you have to redefine it regularly. Not the easiest one to handle especially by a pretty Neptunian person like you but doable after testing and trying a few "acrobatics".
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 08:03 AM
Weatherman is spot on I feel for Uranus conj your MC. At the same time, "mixture of things" also resonates with Uranus conj MC. Pluto is near your Uranus and so it also influences your MC as well. Pluto is about changes and as your 12th house is in the Scorpio cusp, it is dominated by Pluto on your MC. Your profession influences your 12th house experience. If you feel "trapped" (a 12th house feeling), a career overhaul will help you get unstuck. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 08:06 AM
Your Sun is in Gem in the 7/8 cusp. The core part of who you are is all about others and their resources (monetary and otherwise, e.g. spiritual resources as well). Have you thought a career in psychology? Your MC is in the cusp of Virgo, and 12th house is about gains from big organizations/institutions/hospitals/jails/etc. places where you can offer your services as an intuitive healer/psychologist. Also, Uranus on your MC rules your 3rd house. Do you enjoy writing? Do you express yourself through it? Even your Venus in the 9th says that you are made for Higher Education. This could be corroborating evidence for the suggestion about becoming a psychologist (serving soldiers would be fantastic too). Wow, one more thing: Merc (traditional ruler of the 3rd house of communications/writing/media) sextiles your Uranus on the MC and is in your 8th house too, the house of Scorpio (esoteric studies)! If you ask me (and I know you didn't lol), you are really made for an academic career (Uranus on MC) in a service-oriented profession (MC on Virgo cusp, Pluto on Virgo) that helps people in large places/groups (12th house) through intuition (Moon/Nept in the 12th). The link between your Moon in the 12th sextile Pluto in the 9/10 house cusp trine Merc in the 8th is very telling for your success in this lifetime. It looks to me that your spirituality will drive your career choices and ultimately your success. You need a way to bring it out, e.g. to put it to service to people for their own good and yours. Your NN says that although intuition is "easy" for you, your change is to detach from it at the same time and use it for practical purposes and for grounding.
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posted November 18, 2011 08:10 AM
I do class myself as firm and do find I have to make sure I don't go to far one way or the other. Awww you say the nicest things! ------------------
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 08:15 AM
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Originally posted by Metid:
[B]I do class myself as firm and do find I have to make sure I don't go to far one way or the other.
That's right; that's the opposition. And Saturn in Aries is very masculine. You must look very handsome. quote:
Awww you say the nicest things!
(where's the red-cheeks smilie when you need it?)
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Metid
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posted November 18, 2011 08:18 AM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
Your Sun is in Gem in the 7/8 cusp. The core part of who you are is all about others and their money/resources. Have you thought a career in psychology? Your MC is in the cusp of Virgo, and 12th house is about gains from big organizations/institutions/hospitals/jails/etc. places where you can offer your services as an intuitive healer/psychologist. Also, Uranus on your MC rules your 3rd house. Do you enjoy writing? Do you express yourself through it? Even your Venus in the 9th says that you are made for Higher Education. This could be corroborating evidence for the suggestion about becoming a psychologist (serving soldiers would be fantastic too).
I had thought about psychology and have kind of been drawn to healing spiritually. Writing again is something I've thought about and would like to do.. The genre/subject matter just seems to elude me. I feel more creative....
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by Metid:
I had thought about psychology and have kind of been drawn to healing spiritually. Writing again is something I've thought about and would like to do.. The genre/subject matter just seems to elude me. I feel more creative....
Have you ever written poetry or fiction? It is an art as well as a science and you can study it before you can tell if it's you. Most people think they "know" writing because it sounds like something "everyone does" but truly creative writing is not an easy thing to get a handle of. Even if you don't do anything, try keeping a daily personal journal. I feel your Moon/Neptune in your 12th will love this expression outlet. IP: Logged |
Metid
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posted November 18, 2011 08:23 AM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
(where's the red-cheeks smilie when you need it?)
It has been said.. but then again.. isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/209752.html
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anongrl10
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posted November 18, 2011 08:31 AM
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Originally posted by Metid:
It has been said.. but then again.. isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder?
lol I said "handsome" not "pretty"; there is a difference in the aura of a masculine-looking man and that of a "pretty boy". IP: Logged |
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