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Topic: What aspects and signs makes someone obsessed with looking good?
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 14, 2011 08:37 PM
Like having a strict regime for food and exercise? Somebody who wants a nice body, wants to look good? Not in a 'I have to exercise in the gym for 4 hours daily' kind of way, more like they need to exercise daily and is always looking to look their best? Someone who feels they need to always be well put together? Style and grooming wise as well? IP: Logged |
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posted November 14, 2011 08:46 PM
Libra with Virgo Venus takes the body obsession to extreme. Especially when Saturn or Chiron aspects Venus.Other signs will put in a lot of time at the gym but seems to be a means to an end....like, they need to tone up for an event. But Virgo makes for perfectionism and Libra lives for aesthetics, so when you combine the two, you get someone for whom a perfect body is an end more than a means. Also, Saturn in Virgo has body image issues. My father has Virgo Saturn on my ascendant and this resulted in him harping on about my (non-existent) weight problem when I was a teenager. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 9347 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 14, 2011 08:54 PM
I have this, Capricorn Venus in the 6th sq to Saturn/Pluto. Venus/Pluto can be read as being obsessed w.looks, Venus/Saturn can be read as putting effort into one's appearance, Venus in the 6th house of habits, self explanatory. Virgo ASC is said to point to this too.IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 1186 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 12:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: Libra with Virgo Venus takes the body obsession to extreme. Especially when Saturn or Chiron aspects Venus. Also, Saturn in Virgo has body image issues. My father has Virgo Saturn on my ascendant and this resulted in him harping on about my (non-existent) weight problem when I was a teenager.
My Moon is in Libra, a 7th house stellium, Venus conjunct the DC and trine MC and I have Saturn in Virgo conjunct NN trine Chiron in Taurus. I am health and fitness conscious. Okay, fine, a tad obsessed - but in a good way. Two out of my three 1/2 degrees are in health related subjects (Health Sciences with emphasis in nutrition and Health and Psychology). I even have a certification in athletic coaching! I was studying to get my NCSF personal training certification but I just stopped one day. My goal was/is to help young women with body image issues learn to love their bodies and to get as healthy as they can without getting carried away or dieting and while working with their natural shapes and body types. I used to struggle with body image issues but I think after my Saturn Return I learned to just be healthy and get over it. I actually started my studies in health when Saturn was going through my 6th house and I got in the best shape of my life then! I never was a size 6, wasn't meant to be, but I can still be healthy. I am 5’10” and a fit size 14, I love my hourglass! I have my morning protein/fiber smoothies, take a few daily vitamins and supplements and I walk every other day and take a class a couple times a month. I do buy trendy fitness equipment, not big stuff, just like “The Shake Weight”, lol. I do care but I am not as obsessed as I was when I was in my teens/early 20s. I remember once in high school I ate a piece of cake at a party and someone took a picture because they couldn’t believe I was eating something so fatty! Yeah, I am totally over that! I am always well put together also, it is very important to me. I pride myself on having good posture, I even took a class on it - something that is taken for granted nowadays! My closets are packed with clothes and shoes. I have stuff that I bought 2-3 years ago with the tags still on it. I have to use Space Bags and change clothes out for the season (I have sucky closet space)! I have a classic, mostly preppy yet slightly romantic and sometimes sexy style (if that makes sense), not a bunch of trendy stuff. I have five to six different shampoos and conditioners, just lots and lots of health and beauty stuff. I blame that on a shopping addiction though (Sun in Leo/Moon in Libra) and the fact that I didn’t have much growing up (Chiron conjunct IC), so I tend to overcompensate. Funny thing is, I am very natural looking (although I do have the big pageant hair sometimes, I can’t help it as a Leo). Around town, food shopping or just walking, I am usually wearing yoga pants, tank top or a band tee and a jacket if it is cold – they just happen to be nice and didn’t come out of the hamper. My hair is usually in an octopus clip. I don’t get fake nails. I am African-American and my hair is fairly long and real and I don’t get it relaxed (I blow it out though). I wear make-up but don’t need much, I don’t even pluck my eyebrows (except for a stray here and there). Plus I am not too fussy, I will get on the floor to play games with and teach children and heaven forbid there is a dog on the floor, I will roll with it no matter what I am wearing! Even when I am doing that I still manage to look “put together”. I just know what to wear and when (Libra influence). I just think that looking good (well put together and not sloppy) and feeling good (with eating healthy and doing whatever type of exercise you want to do) is important. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 02:54 AM
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AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 609 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 03:56 AM
Chiron aspecting Saturn aspecting asc defpsychological wounds(chiron), hardship(Staurn), self-image(asc) are recurring issues..... IP: Logged |
BelligerentPygmy Knowflake Posts: 1145 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 08:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [B]Libra with Virgo Venus takes the body obsession to extreme. Especially when Saturn or Chiron aspects Venus.
Wrrrrrongggggg!!! *buzzer sounds* I actually have four planets in Libra (Moon conjunct Pluto; Jupiter conjunct Saturn) along with Venus in Virgo, and Venus trine Chiron. I never, ever, everrrrrr, work out. I never go on diets either and pretty much eat whatever I want - I've never had obsessions or hangups about my body in any way shape or form - the whole stereotype of the woman who hates her body, has always been a really foreign concept to me; I've just never really cared that much or been THAT preoccupied with the external. I don't try to be fashionable either; in fact a lot of times people crack on me for the stuff I wear and how I look; and I've had people lecture me about me appearance too - "You should have more PRIDE in your appearance!" type stuff, but honestly my personal preference is really casual, baggy, comfortable stuff. I've just never cared much about that kind of thing when it comes to myself. Which isn't to say that the Libra love of beauty isn't present in me - it is, but it manifests in a totally different way - like, I love looking at gorgeous, well-dressed people. Libras like 'pretty'. But it isn't the be-all, end-all for us and definitely isn't the most important thing *to* us, as is commonly believed. IP: Logged |
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posted November 15, 2011 09:03 AM
^ But you are not a LIBRA with Virgo Venus See, I had a few personal examples in mind when I made that post. And just because you are the exception doesn't mean there isn't truth to what I've observed. Example: See downtomars' post. Sorry, I know how much you love doing that whole "Aha I gotcha!" thing. @Lonake: As usual, you're accurate. I'm Virgo rising and am very health/body conscious. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1947 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 09:28 AM
My roommate is a Libra with a Virgo Venus and he is semi obsessed with his weight and hair and clothes. He doesn't really work out, but he does tend to be a hypochondriac. He's poor but he likes showing off his APC/Acne jeans and his Marc Jacobs shoes lol.My ex is a Leo, Virgo Rising and he also is very health conscious and has had eating disorders in the past. He's very fond of clenses, too. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 42653 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 09:35 AM
Venus in the first house.------------------ Want a peek in to my journal? http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4856 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 10:12 AM
I know couple of examples with Mars/Saturn H6.IP: Logged |
maira Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 12:53 PM
I have this, take your pick: Libra ascendant with Saturn conjunct and Pluto in the 1st, Sun-Ven-Mars in the 7th opposite Pluto.IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 1186 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 01:16 PM
I would also like to add Ceres to the mix also because she is the goddess of food, agriculture and nourishment (as well as nurturing – I also saw clothing as a keyword on Bob Marks’ site). Maybe Ceres aspects to Saturn or Pluto. I have Ceres opp Pluto so that could have something to do with it. A need for nourishment needs to be balanced with control…IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1136 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 01:37 PM
Libra sun - Leo moon.....guilty.IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan unregistered
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posted November 15, 2011 02:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: Like having a strict regime for food and exercise? Somebody who wants a nice body, wants to look good? Not in a 'I have to exercise in the gym for 4 hours daily' kind of way, more like they need to exercise daily and is always looking to look their best? Someone who feels they need to always be well put together? Style and grooming wise as well?
Dominant Leo? I have no idea. I'm a Libra with Venus in Leo and I'm a classically vain individual but I don't do much to keep myself especially coiffed besides the basics. Minimal make up etc. I'm in love with myself, but I don't spend time primping myself maybe because having Moon in Aries gives me no patience. If it can't be done in 5 minutes I don't want to do it. I work out not to look good, but because I've got Mars in Aries and I like to stay physical. I love jogging for it's own sake, why do it for any other reason. I've had many Virgo friends who have suffered from eating disorders and are OCD about how the look physically. They carry floss, breath mints, hair spray, the works. They tend to always be doing something to improve how they look and are always on diets. They are very body conscious. I think this question is too nonspecific so it's hard to answer. Vanity and Glamour is Leo, Beauty is Taurus and Libra, being OCD about your body seems like Virgo to me. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 15, 2011 02:30 PM
I agree that anything Virgo is a fit to this description. Also I would think Cap rising wants to be seen as "presentable" and therefore always takes care of grooming. In general earth signs care a lot about appearance. Taurus will always smell nice if nothing else! IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 1186 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 03:15 PM
I almost forgot: My father is a Virgo former athlete and he is insane about his physical fitness and special diets (and about how his wife and children looked, ahem, that obviously affected me too - see my previous posts in this thread). His ascendant is in Leo with Sun in the 1st and Venus square Chiron.My mom is a Cap with a Cap rising and she was and is always well put together. She did give me a bit of a complex growing up as well. She didn't really understand my body because she is a 5'5" size 8-10 lady with a naturally athletic build. I really had to find my own way. Mom has Venus square Chiron also... Yikes, imagine having a Cap and a Virgo as parents and then I get Saturn in Virgo on top of that... IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 15, 2011 04:11 PM
Everyone other than people with strong Scorpio and/or Aquarius.. placements is somewhat obsessed with looking good. The Scorpio/Aqua bunch.. try to completely shun convention - sooner or later.. The girls stop shaving. The men... well - ya - actually - they also stop shaving, amongst other things Case in point: The road from Hollywood Hottie - TO Chewbacca Impersonator -
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scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1059 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 07:39 PM
I'm like this...and I'm a libra with venus in virgo. Too weird! I knew libra suns were vain, but I didnt know venus in virgo made it worse. Im a hairdressor and makeup artist. Very much into fashion. I have a cappy moon. I tend to overweight, but I like to exersize and have a very strict skin and haircare regimine. I am absolutely fanatical about it. Like OCD or something.IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1059 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted November 15, 2011 07:50 PM
I agree with the chiron asc thing too, cuz I have chiron in taurus in 1st conj asc 2 deg. I think my outward beautifying is due to deep inner insecurity and hurt. I've never felt pretty either, no matter how many people told me I was. I feel really ugly. I read chiron in 1st is like that, they magnify every little flaw to an extreme proportion.IP: Logged |
Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 16, 2011 02:41 AM
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4856 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 16, 2011 07:00 AM
Asc Sq Chiron,maybe?IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 9347 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2011 07:39 AM
Yea it's not everything but people sure treat you better when you look more attractive. That is one of the main reasons I put extra effort into my appearance. Save money, get better seats, better service, they see you putting effort into your look, and esp if you have a respectful/charming demeanor, they want to extend the same courtesy back to you. It just makes the day more pleasant.IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2441 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: ^ But you are not a LIBRA with Virgo Venus See, I had a few personal examples in mind when I made that post. And just because you are the exception doesn't mean there isn't truth to what I've observed. Example: See downtomars' post. Sorry, I know how much you love doing that whole "Aha I gotcha!" thing. @Lonake: As usual, you're accurate. I'm Virgo rising and am very health/body conscious.
I definitely think you are on to something with the sun in libra and virgo in venus and the venus/saturn thing. And lonake is also onto something with the pluto/venus thing. This girl at my job back in miami in sidereal is a libra with venus in virgo and her venus conjuncts both saturn and pluto lol and she was extremely obsessed with looking good at all times and she always indeed looked good at all times from head to toe and was in great shape. In addition her sun conjunct saturn and pluto so I guess she has a sun/venus/saturn/pluto stellium. She spent so much money on shoes and brand clothes it was hard to believe. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2441 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 29, 2011 05:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: Yea it's not everything but people sure treat you better when you look more attractive. That is one of the main reasons I put extra effort into my appearance. Save money, get better seats, better service, they see you putting effort into your look, and esp if you have a respectful/charming demeanor, they want to extend the same courtesy back to you. It just makes the day more pleasant.
Yeah the key is the combination of looking goood with been charming and appearing somewhat humble and courteous. Otherwise if obsession with appearance is coupled with arrogance and good looks some people will still like you and kiss your ass but most people will be disgusted by the shallowness so outer beauty needs to be coupled with inner beauty and then you get that awesome treatment you are talking about. IP: Logged |