posted November 21, 2011 02:13 AM            

His Venus conjunct your Chiron has to be handled carefully. Venus can't keep Chiron out...feels too vulnerable so will build walls, which will hurt Chiron (I interpret Cancer Chiron in 1st as your mother emotionally rejecting or abusing you when you were very young. You said that your parents would try to make you cry on purpose, right? Well, when he first puts up those walls, it will make you feel that hurt again) but Chiron somehow gets through again, and this cycle will repeat until Venus learns that there's no way the love for Chiron can be controlled, it just IS. Chiron is hurt through the whole process. But if you're both mature enough, eventually your pain and his love will be joined and a deep healing won. Love and pain...his Cancer side will secretly dig that.

If someone can't handle that level of intense vulnerability, it'll be like that Leona Lewis song, "Bleeding Love."

Your NN conjuncts his Juno...a relationship with him is in line with your spiritual path in this lifetime.

Those Saturn opp's will be challenging but since both your Saturns are engaged, the relationship should stabilize in time.

posted November 21, 2011 03:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
He idealizes your appearance (your ASC conjunct his MC), or your way of looking at the world is perfectly in line with what he aspires. You both place emphasis on intellect. He has Chiron in Gemini conjunct MC. Perhaps he had a sibling (Gemini) or father (10th House Chiron) who made him feel intellectually inadequate, and as a result he is deeply driven to be acknowledged for his intellectual achievements. Your being articulate brings up this wound, and if he does have a sibling you may even remind him of him/her.

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I don't know about his family yet. We went to high school together but I don't remember him at all (he was a popular football player. And I don't remember him. Where was I?) But that's really ironic you say that. I always seem to pick up things and then they'll be reinforced to me later and this is one of those instances. I have all that Gemini influence, right? So naturally I look for a partner I can spar with, talk to, etc. Well I mean he's a funny guy, seems really nice and I'm attracted to him but I could tell just from last night it might take us a minute to understand each other intellectually. I don't think he's dumb, it just takes him awhile to formulate what he wants to say (all those Cancer influences) so I'll have to learn patience (which I'm sure is part of the karma...) but I was thinking last night about the intellectual mismatch, or the rhythm of communication. Hmm.

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His Venus conjunct your Chiron has to be handled carefully. Venus can't keep Chiron out...feels too vulnerable so will build walls, which will hurt Chiron (I interpret Cancer Chiron in 1st as your mother emotionally rejecting or abusing you when you were very young. You said that your parents would try to make you cry on purpose, right? Well, when he first puts up those walls, it will make you feel that hurt again) but Chiron somehow gets through again, and this cycle will repeat until Venus learns that there's no way the love for Chiron can be controlled, it just IS. Chiron is hurt through the whole process. But if you're both mature enough, eventually your pain and his love will be joined and a deep healing won. Love and pain...his Cancer side will secretly dig that.

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Your NN conjuncts his Juno...a relationship with him is in line with your spiritual path in this lifetime.

Those Saturn opp's will be challenging but since both your Saturns are engaged, the relationship should stabilize in time.

Warning...he has a 7th House NN. Sign of a commitmentphobe, because they are learning how to compromise and move with another in this lifetime. They crave being in a relationship but also fear the responsibilities and the possibility of losing themselves. But your Sun in his 7th should help, because you activate his partnership urge.

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Would that change if I knew his real birth time? He broke up with his girlfriend nearly 7 months ago. I hope he's over her. And you're saying since my Sun is in his 7th, that he wants to be with me specifically?

By the way, THANK YOU SO MUCH for looking at this.

posted November 21, 2011 03:50 AM            

Re: the Venus-Chiron conjunction, I don't think it points to dramatics as much as it does to vulnerability. And Cancers do seem to enjoy emotional drama in dysfunctional relationships.

Here's an informative thread regarding Venus-Chiron synastry. Towards the bottom, someone talks about the other person's Chiron on her ascendant:

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203949.html

Ttyl!