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malicefey
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posted November 22, 2011 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for malicefey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've read many places that Saturn (when opposition/conjunction to moon/sun/venus) in synastry / composite is really "heavy".

How did you feel or experience saturn in your relationships?

Was it Enduring? Was it "cold/stifling"?

Name the type of aspect you had in synastry/composite with someone.

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Venus Scorpio
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polysigh
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posted November 22, 2011 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[QUOTE]Originally posted by malicefey:
I've read many places that Saturn (when opposition/conjunction to moon/sun/venus) in synastry / composite is really "heavy".

How did you feel or experience saturn in your relationships?

Was it Enduring? Was it "cold/stifling"?

Name the type of aspect you had in synastry/composite with someone.

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His saturn opposes my sun and venus, my saturn conjunct his sun... fell in love at first sight but it did feel "heavy" right away, from the very beginning in that "can we handle such an intense, all consuming relationship?" type of thing. In the end, no we could not handle it, plus it was very bad timing. Also, these aspects generated a lot of fear on both parts...fear to say how we felt etc, fear of rejection, fear of what the relationship could be. I still think about him every single day and he will probably always be the love of my life. We can't seem to let go in that we always seem to reach out to each other to "keep in touch" a couple times a year...definitely hard to let go. Makes me sad to write this

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Taineberry
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posted November 22, 2011 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Taineberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In synastry with husband - Venus trine Saturn and Moon sextile Saturn double whammy. In Composite - Moon conjunct Saturn. (I also have Saturn square Moon and Venus in Natal).

Very enduring (30 years) BUT be warned ... every illusion you ever had is stripped down bare in Saturn- heavy relationships. You cannot escape what IS - there is no sugar coating.

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Jounia
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posted November 22, 2011 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my relationship of 7 years;
My Saturn Opp His Sun
His Saturn conj my sun

It was almost love at first sight. We broke out other relationships to be together. Right from the beginning it was intense. We've had some really tough times together - tough as in arguments, not seeing eye to eye. We had a very 'heavy' year. Even now it's not easy, but we can't be apart from each other. It makes me wanna break away when the intensity gets too much to handle but when there are good times then it's really fantastic. Not an easy relationship to be in though....

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Jounia
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posted November 22, 2011 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Taineberry:

Very enduring (30 years) BUT be warned ... every illusion you ever had is stripped down bare in Saturn- heavy relationships. You cannot escape what IS - there is no sugar coating.

I'd agree with that! There's no hiding.....

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fireopal
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posted November 22, 2011 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Last relationship - Heavy and often dark feeling in this relationship as time progressed. (about the same age)

My Merc trine His Saturn
My Nept trine His Saturn
My Pluto sextile His Saturn
My Lilith trine His Saturn
My Pallas square His Saturn
My Juno trine His Saturn
My Vesta sextile His Saturn
My Saturn sextile His Jupiter
My Saturn opposite His Neptune
My Saturn trine His Pluto
My Saturn conjunct His Ceres

Really don't know what this relationship was about, I gave all I could in every way I could, but he made it HARD work for me. He was very surface and positive, but it didn't feel close - it felt distant and cold, although there was a sense of commitment of some kind there of course. Ultimately we had stand offs and not giving in to one another, he also lied - I had to get him out of my life - he wasn't good for me as something was just not right (although I have no bad feelings towards him). (lots of insecurities came up here from the past too). Also, very hard to break away from this from both of our parts, but I'm really glad we did!

2. Male friend for a number of years. Equal feeling in relationship (age difference)

My Moon square His Saturn
My Venus conjunct His Saturn
My Mars conjunct His Saturn
My Jupiter sextile His Saturn
My Saturn trine His Moon
My Saturn opposite His Uranus
My Saturn conjunct His North Node
My Saturn sextile His Pholus
My Saturn conjunct His Vesta
My North Node sextile His Saturn
My Ceres conjunct His Saturn

I'm completely devoted to him. He looks after me and always tells me the truth, makes me laugh and we play a lot together. We both assist one another whenever each of us needs it and its effortless. He's the closest person to me outside my family. I feel we both protect one another and its not because we feel we have too - it is just the way it is. It doesn't feel heavy at all, we are serious, playful & romantic combined together. There is a little bit of withdrawing now and then from one another at differing times - but we always come back together and discuss things which I absolutely love.

3.Female Friend known many years (age difference)

My Sun conjunct Her Saturn
My Moon sextile Her Saturn
My Saturn opposite Her Saturn
My Saturn sextile Her Uranus
My Saturn trine Her North Node
My Saturn trine Her Ceres
My Uranus sextile Her Saturn
My Pallas sextile Her Saturn

I'd say this relationship is totally equal, we both provide a lot of support and guidance to one another and we freely share that. She's been responsible for reconnecting me with things I'd left far behind me and she's reintroduced me to them once again which has enhanced everything. She's very trustworthy and I feel very thankful to have her in my life. It's a two -way thing which works. We have tremendous talks with one another which could go on forever and we have a lot of understanding between us. Again, not a heavy friendship, but a serious one with little flashes of fun here and there.

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