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Topic: What happens when you freak out? How do you show anger?
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted November 25, 2011 10:55 PM
So I was reading the Aries thread and it made me think about how different mars signs and sun signs express anger. How do you show anger? Are you quick to anger? What do you do/say/act like when you're beginning to lose control? What happens when you reach your breaking point? What happens after, are you one to hold a grudge, give silent treatment etc?What's your sun moon and mars sign? IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5625 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 25, 2011 11:00 PM
i dont think i'v ever really freaked out before...never snapped or anything....just got angry....so i guess i'm rather slow to anger and i never like getting angry at people...its rather hard to explain------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 25, 2011 11:10 PM
This is an interesting thread on the same topic, if you want to have a look: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203511.html
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BelligerentPygmy Knowflake Posts: 1145 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 11:10 PM
I have a long fuse and it takes a lot to really **** me off, but when I do get ****** , I get P!SSED!!!!!How it manifests usually depends on the environment; if it's a public situation I'll just sit there and go icy give everybody the Death Glare because I don't believe in making a scene. If it's privately it manifests in a more obvious way - and by that I mean I just start b!tching. Sun in Leo Moon in Libra Mars in Cancer, square Pluto, Saturn and Jupiter IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan Knowflake Posts: 1099 From: New England Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 11:39 PM
When I get angry it's like a fireworks show and it takes a long time for me to calm down. My whole body is shaking and it feels like I'm overheating inside. My speaking tone gets into aggressive mode and I feel like I'm losing control. It's best if I allow the fireworks show to burn out because if I don't it's like a pot of water boiling with the cover on. You can see the steam rising and at this point I feel physically sick. I'll want to destroy something, rip something into pieces, anything to allow me to release the fury.I was a fanatical jogger growing up doing about 6 miles a day it helped me release a lot of stress and work off anger. Now I do Yoga which helps me relax and channel my anger. I was a tyrant as a child when I got mad. Which was rarely but when it happened it was awful. Sun Libra Moon Aries Mars Aries IP: Logged |
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 1292 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 25, 2011 11:57 PM
When I freak out I become outwardly calm, but inside my emotions are boiling. I automatically try to defuse the situation and bring it down to a courteous conversation..... But, if the person continues to instigate me, my voice gets very loud and I make a scene to embarrass the other person or make them back off. I hate the feeling of being angry, because my mind always works slower than the pace of the argument. I often end up saying the wrong things or failing to get my point across because I feel too flustered. Sun Sagittarius Moon Virgo Mars Leo IP: Logged |
downtomars Knowflake Posts: 1077 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2011 12:08 AM
I am not quick to anger, I am actually rather calm. But if you insist on poking me then expect a sharp word explosion with Mars in Gemini. Also, because my Moon is conjunct Pluto, when I do get angry then it is bad. Probably because you wouldn't expect it from nice, sweet me. I think lalalinda explains it much better in the older thread (I chopped the quote a little lalalinda!): quote: Mars/Gemini I express anger with words mostly through sarcasm... you'll get blunt, brutal honesty, that will sting for awhile.
The things I say will not be nice especially if you told me a little too much about yourself (hey, if you get dirty then I get dirtier). The messed up thing is that I will say these things calmly and that tends to make the other person get even more mad so I try not to go that route. I have only gotten that angry three times in my life. Once with a "friend" who betrayed me, once with an ex-boyfriend (the cheating, verbally abusive Scorpio) and once with an aunt who was always rude and disrespectful and I had enough of it. My Moon is in Libra trine Mars exact though so I don't get crazy about things that often. I am usually the one breaking up fights and defusing situations. I also have Mars trine Pluto. I like to just deal with minor issues as they arise I really hate fighting/arguments and violence makes me physically ill. Even writing this is a little upsetting to me. But, if someone does something outrageous then their feelings will get hurt. I don't hold grudges either, that is usually on the other person. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3782 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 12:41 AM
I'm never angry, like, ever! So I don't see how it really matters.I think there was a total 1 times I actually really got mad... I can recall it clearly! Every emotion you could feel at once! I raised my fist and charged at the person, but ended not doing anything and cried for a li'l bit. I felt like a completely different person! EDIT! I forgot my placements, lol. Mars in Leo and Sun in Scorpio. My Mars is pretty afflicted aspects-wise. IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 01:02 AM
I don't get mad very easily, I'm fairly tolerant of things here and there. But eventually, the straw breaks the camel's back and hell hath no fury like a ****** off Cancer woman with something to say! I tend to I text whoever I'm mad at a millions words per second like it's the Datona 5000. They know very quickly in very fine detail that I am damn upset.Then I delete all the texts and watch a movie. I'm pretty sure most people are like this, though, right? Right? Cancer Sun Libra Moon Pisces Mars IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 3097 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 26, 2011 02:54 AM
I never freak out. Waste of time. I talk to people and say what I want. Leo sun conj AC Moon gemini Mars cancerIP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 6997 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 03:03 AM
ima thrower and a screamer ack sun in taurus opposite mars in scorpio. moon is in leo. i'm not inclined to make a scene. haven't been in an actual fight in over a decade but i'm not above that lol..IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 3097 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 26, 2011 03:07 AM
Sand.Haha. Take it easy. Maybe you will get an heartattackIP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 897 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 03:08 AM
I "freak out" over a lot of things..it's all the Sagittarius in me that loves to be over the top and exaggerate things.When I freak out over ANGER, though that's a different story. Here's an example of the angriest I have EVER been: My little brother was jumped by a "friend" and a week later my family was busted for growing marijuana...so I had a person in mind I was pretty sure was responsible for ratting them out - the same "friend" who jumped my brother. I FLEW OFF THE HANDLE. The first thing I did was go look for my dad's gun..but the cops had taken it. Then, I went to the guy's dorm room and pounded on his door ready to bash his head in..he wasn't there. My ex-boyfriend and I went looking for him and found him and we rammed my boyfriend's car into the other guy's car at 30 mph, totalling the other guy's pretty little Scion. I raced up to him and was RAGING, screaming with such hatred telling him I was going to blow his brains out for ruining my family's life, etc etc...and then I told him I was going to go to the Dean of Students at our school and rat him out for the illegal sh*t I knew he was doing. And I did. I ratted him out and he got kicked out of school and had to move back to Texas. The other time I've been almost that angry was when my sister did something I jus couldn't handle..I called her a few nasty names and went up to her room and destroyed it. Then we got in a physical fight. This type of anger does not happen often, but when it does, it's bad. I have a VERY short fuse and it scares me , the hatred that I can feel when betrayed..especially when my FAMILY is betrayed...I can honestly say I would kill for them, not that that would be smart because I'd end up in prison..but ya know. Capricorn sun Pisces mars My Mars has a lot of hard aspects ..it squares Uranus, for one thing. I can get very violent. I beat up a kid when I was in 5th grade because he was throwing rocks at my brother, who was in kindergarten. So in my eyes that kid deserved it... IP: Logged |
BlackSeraph Knowflake Posts: 251 From: PA, USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 03:12 AM
Well, with Mars-Pluto-Venus in Libra, and semi-square my Sun-Saturn in Virgo (on Leo Cusp) combination, it can get... volcanic.. Quite volcanic. I had some Krakatoa moments growing up. Went through quite a few Nintendo controllers lol...Other rage modes have included what I have called "tourette's mode". As a college friend said, I could make a sailor blush. Things are a little more subdued now... usually I just get really dark now and maybe unleash hell in private. Although I have had a couple legendary rants on Facebook that probably nearly killed a couple friendships. At that point though, I didn't care at all about the collateral damage. My internal mental fantasies about what I wanted to do to the "offenders" (the ones who really p***ed me off at that point) are best left unsaid. Rather savage thoughts though. That's about it in a (kinda big) nutshell. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 4366 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 03:35 AM
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BelligerentPygmy Knowflake Posts: 1145 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 03:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by Xiiro: When I freak out I become outwardly calm, but inside my emotions are boiling. I automatically try to defuse the situation and bring it down to a courteous conversation..... But, if the person continues to instigate me, my voice gets very loud and I make a scene to embarrass the other person or make them back off. I hate the feeling of being angry, because my mind always works slower than the pace of the argument. I often end up saying the wrong things or failing to get my point across because I feel too flustered. Sun Sagittarius Moon Virgo Mars Leo
You too? That actually happens to me alot if I get mad enough - I get flustered and it's like my brain, mouth and ability to communicate in general just starts to shut down - but not because my brain can't keep up; in fact it's the opposite, my brain actually speeds UP during those times. At this point I actually think that meltdown-mode is 'by design'; I can already be a very nasty piece of work if I'm attacked, very verbally abusive if provoked - I can only imagine how bad I'd be if those safeguards weren't in place and I had full control of my ability to communicate and were actually capable of saying everything I wanted to say in those moments. I already mentioned how afflicted my Mars is a few posts up - but I left out how it quintiles Kaali, conjuncts Vulkanus and Sirius, and how my Mercury quintiles my eighth house Pluto. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 03:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: ima thrower and a screamer ack sun in taurus opposite mars in scorpio. moon is in leo. i'm not inclined to make a scene. haven't been in an actual fight in over a decade but i'm not above that lol..
I think you're cuter than you think, sand. :hug: IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:00 AM
Anger is hard for me to express. If I feel you wronged me, I will let you know and give you a chance to respond. If nothing comes of it, I completely shut down and wall you off. My Mars in Aqua will feel like leaving, if not physically for sure mentally. I won't give you the time of the day. If I feel it was a misunderstanding, I will ask to talk and my fuse can be pretty long in this case. Like to get to the bottom of things; understand what happened, and understand you. I am open to see your perspective and in fact I seek to understand (Sag = Seeker of the Truth, Aqua = Seeker of the Truth, Pluto in 8th = research, getting to the bottom of things). When I'm really ****** , it's usually when I feel I tried everything and the other side simply is not listening. Then, it can get nasty but it takes two to tango. In general I hate disagreements (Jup, ruler of my Sag sun, in fair Libra) and I am a negotiator by nature. I naturally seek to reconcile opposites. When I get to an extreme is to make a point and to balance the other extreme if I feel it is over-represented. I prefer a meeting of minds where people having different views get to a mutual understanding with each other. It brings me closer to the other person (emotionally speaking). And it feels better than insulting, yelling, ignoring, etc. IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: ima thrower and a screamer ack sun in taurus opposite mars in scorpio. moon is in leo. i'm not inclined to make a scene. haven't been in an actual fight in over a decade but i'm not above that lol..
LOL, sometimes I secretly hope the other person would pick a physical fight with me so I can throw a few punches and get the stress out... IP: Logged |
Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:19 AM
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Purrr Knowflake Posts: 186 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 04:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: I "freak out" over a lot of things..it's all the Sagittarius in me that loves to be over the top and exaggerate things.When I freak out over ANGER, though that's a different story. Here's an example of the angriest I have EVER been: My little brother was jumped by a "friend" and a week later my family was busted for growing marijuana...so I had a person in mind I was pretty sure was responsible for ratting them out - the same "friend" who jumped my brother. I FLEW OFF THE HANDLE. The first thing I did was go look for my dad's gun..but the cops had taken it. Then, I went to the guy's dorm room and pounded on his door ready to bash his head in..he wasn't there. My ex-boyfriend and I went looking for him and found him and we rammed my boyfriend's car into the other guy's car at 30 mph, totalling the other guy's pretty little Scion. I raced up to him and was RAGING, screaming with such hatred telling him I was going to blow his brains out for ruining my family's life, etc etc...and then I told him I was going to go to the Dean of Students at our school and rat him out for the illegal sh*t I knew he was doing. And I did. I ratted him out and he got kicked out of school and had to move back to Texas. The other time I've been almost that angry was when my sister did something I jus couldn't handle..I called her a few nasty names and went up to her room and destroyed it. Then we got in a physical fight. This type of anger does not happen often, but when it does, it's bad. I have a VERY short fuse and it scares me , the hatred that I can feel when betrayed..especially when my FAMILY is betrayed...I can honestly say I would kill for them, not that that would be smart because I'd end up in prison..but ya know. [b]Capricorn sun Pisces mars My Mars has a lot of hard aspects ..it squares Uranus, for one thing. I can get very violent. I beat up a kid when I was in 5th grade because he was throwing rocks at my brother, who was in kindergarten. So in my eyes that kid deserved it...[/B]
OMG I'm in love with you. I once got someone kicked out of the country... that's a long story, but he deserved it! IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 09:39 AM
Mars in cancer house 4.I take a long time. Think of it as this; Mars is hot, cancer is water = boiled water that's what I am like when angered. Takes awhile, once it happens once I'm pushed and pushed, misunderstood as I am in actuality extremely sensitive (I just suppress things and dont say much) than I blow up. It's rare to blow up but when someone pushes me and gets in my face I do, especially if they are involved in the anger I've suppressed. Im not a violent person I would never put my hands on someone else. It's wrong and its something i can't forgive in myself. I don't hold grudges though once the anger is out I move on fairly quickly. Think of that boiling water cooling down.Things that bother me... Anyone that makes people I really love upset. Anyone that picks on/bullies anyone i care about I'll be the first to stand up and say something.. Another thing anyone messing with people I can consider family. I'll fk your sht up pretty much LOL. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 09:45 AM
But I'm not a vindictive person like some people i know. I'm not gonna let someone "pay" for wronging me that's really lame, wasteful of energy and just not how I go. If someone wrongs me I'll most likely internalize it... I don't like confrontation very much. I only confront when it's affecting the entire group, but if it affects me I won't really confront it until I blow up.... I don't seek revenge on others, a waste of time and I pity people like this no offense if any of you guys are like this... I get over things pretty quickly. I do not stay mad or angry at people, in extreme cases I become numb to them but eventually I'll need to express what's inside, once that happens I move on fairly quickly and expect them to move on quickly.I've befriended people that are very vindictive. One Sagittarius sun was like this with me. Half the time I didn't even know what I did to slight her but she would plot out the most evil ways to make me or anyone else pay. I dropped her as a friend because I don't put up with lame people that have the time to seek revenge on others when they can just talk about it? I even ask her if I did something wrong and she always said "nope!" my friend is a Scorpio sun Scorpio Pluto and probably bad aspects to Pluto, she is very vindictive.... I like her she's a nice girl we generally get along but I do not like how she feels the need to seek revenge over dumb things.. seeking revenge is dumb altogether IMO. Just my opinion lol IP: Logged |
Fuzzy Knowflake Posts: 103 From: 8th house Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 11:46 AM
I don't get angry often, mostly I just get really irritated. But when someone is acting in a way that I feel is just over-the-top inconsiderate, I yell a little. Not scream at the top of my lungs, just kinda give an angry lecture. And it's always immediate though, if I have time to think about whatever happened, I know I would never yell. These angry expressions only happen because the person is right next to me and I didn't have time to calm down yet.When I'm irritated though, I glare a lot, and it's fun because I have really vivid face expressions and I feel like my faces can make a strong point. I never actually hit people, but when a close friend hurts my feelings somehow, I get upset and almost immediately scratch them really hard or insert my nails into their skin (they're sharp, it hurts a lot). This also only happens as a first reaction. One thing I really don't believe in is any kind of revenge, ever. Mars in Aries opposite Moon in Libra Mercury in Gemini Sun in Gemini
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frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 897 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted November 26, 2011 11:54 AM
Purrr - daaaang, out of the COUNTRY?? that's crazy!! but if he deserved then hell yeah!i turned my previous boss in to IRS for tax fraud and paying people under the table (not me, i wasnt being paid under the table cuz i wasnt a "friend" so i was getting minimum wage) but i didnt turn him in because i was being treated unfairly...i turned him in because i found out he was audio recording our conversations without our consent (unfortunately that IS legal in my state) and i do not deal well with my privacy being invaded. i guess you could say i'm pretty vengeful. it's all that Scorpio in me i guess IP: Logged |