posted November 30, 2011 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
Venus in Scorpio conjunct Pluto IV house and male.

If I felt that way about a close friend and I have before I have either told her or in those cases where it just never happened such as she dated someone else or we were seperated for whatever reason. I won't ever forget them but my feelings will change. For instance I won't feel the same way two years down the line. Whilst I may have had deeper feelings before. With passing time it turns more into a deeper friendship kind of love if we met again. It is not impossible for sparks to happen again if the circumstances were right but my first feelings and thoughts wouldn't be the same as when she/I left. If you are really meant to be together, it will happen.

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posted November 30, 2011 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
i was just wondering, are guys like you with venus in scorpio also prone to 'unrequitted love, like the (some) girls? or maybe we need to look at the whole natal chart to determine this :/

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I know I am, I have had a number of unrequited loves, mainly because I decide not to speak my heart and they end up dating someone else. I would gauge myself as pretty shy in comparison to the majority of men which is why I fall victim but I don't let it bother me too much... past the tears, chocolate ice cream and terrible romantic movies ='(

I move on steadily if they're with someone else, I always find someone new to idealize and obsess over for a little while. =) To be honest I wish more women were forward, or either i'm not looking in the right places. =/

posted November 30, 2011 11:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
I know I am, I have had a number of unrequited loves, mainly because I decide not to speak my heart and they end up dating someone else. I would gauge myself as pretty shy in comparison to the majority of men which is why I fall victim but I don't let it bother me too much... past the tears, chocolate ice cream and terrible romantic movies ='(

I move on steadily if they're with someone else, I always find someone new to idealize and obsess over for a little while. =) To be honest I wish more women were forward, or either i'm not looking in the right places. =/

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posted December 01, 2011 01:26 AM            

I find your choice of words very interesting:

" each other (nor the courage to do so--FEAR OF REJECTION)"

hopefully get over with that person, and CUT them out of your life?

These are classic Scorpio defense mechanisms.And I guess it would be fitting to have Venus( the "feeling" planet)in Scorpio, having those kinds of traits when dealing with issues of love.

I have Venus Saturn/Pluto in conjunction(Scorpio).I don't do well in mating rituals.

I find that when I do have feelings for someone, its very difficlut to admit them to myself-let alone to another. Usually, tehy are so cloaked in lust that I assume that they'll simply go away(and they do).

My feelings for someone usually die out-especially over time. Ofcourse I fantasize about them, sexually, and how things would have been.

But I think I am more comfortable with them existing in my dreams-where things are so unrealistic, they cannot be harmful-then having them manifest in reality.

I am more passionate and outspoken about work and my own personal ambitions.But when it comes to romance, I prefer for the other party to take over.I am very passive when it comes to love, its tragic.

I have Mars in seventh house -Libra. And my longest relationship was with a Mars in 1st house Libra guy.He pursued me through and through....

But basicaly, I do forget. I have felings for someone and then, after some time, they go away-especialy when I don't see them. And do I CUT them out of my life? Only when I suspect that we really stood no chance, but I NEVER tell them. EVER!!!

posted December 01, 2011 01:33 AM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
to anyone out there who have scorpio venus and other strong influences of pluto in their chart, i just like to ask you something, here's the scenario..

say, for example, you know you're secretly fallin in love with your friend but then it happens that life is on the way and you two have to be apart..sadly, none of you never really got the chance to tell the other person what you really feel for each other (nor the courage to do so--fear of rejection). As time had pass, will you still remember that person and still think about her/him? Or will just go on with your life and hopefully get over with that person, and cut them out of your life?

I know scorpio venuses wouldn't just fall for someone who doesn't have any interest in them (well, at least for me that's the case) and i also know that they're not the pursuers in a relationship, espesh those ones with strong scorpio influence..so please, share me your ideas! is it typical for scorpio venuses to feel this way? how about the guys here with this placement, what are your thoughts? (i really hope to get some answers here, though i know my question sounded a bit childish! , but i'm still a teenager so i guess that's okay?)

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ive had similar happenings like this, i would still have really strong feelings towards that person but i would probably move on. but if i ever saw them again or whatever, found them on the internet i would facebook stalk them haha or try to meet up with them. id think of them occasionally and probably "desire" them but i would just have to find another interest becuase i cant have it.

my ruling planet is venus and its in scorpio conjunct pluto on the descendent.

posted December 01, 2011 02:39 AM            

You see the trouble with me
I've got a head full of f*ck
I'm a basket case
I don't think I can love, love, love

You see the trouble with you
Is you're in love with me
What a strange thing to do
What a brave place to be

So we dive
On sunset strip
her heart so deep
I drown in it
And as it breaks
I swim through cracks
And leave with words
I can't take back

You see the trouble with me
Monkey see monkey do
There's no u in tomorrow
A better offer came through
You see the trouble with you
There's no trouble with you
So when you say that you love me
That stops me loving you

So she stays
On sunset strip
A heart so full
I drown in it
She's waiting for
My words to break
The one true love
I couldn't make

So she walks
That golden mile
Men will try
And catch her eye
We both know
What could have been
On sunset strip
Our broken dream

posted December 01, 2011 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:

" each other (nor the courage to do so--FEAR OF REJECTION)"

hopefully get over with that person, and CUT them out of your life?

These are classic Scorpio defense mechanisms.And I guess it would be fitting to have Venus( the "feeling" planet)in Scorpio, having those kinds of traits when dealing with issues of love.

I find that when I do have feelings for someone, its very difficlut to admit them to myself-let alone to another. Usually, tehy are so cloaked in lust that I assume that they'll simply go away(and they do).

My feelings for someone usually die out-especially over time. Ofcourse I fantasize about them, sexually, and how things would have been.

But I think I am more comfortable with them existing in my dreams-where things are so unrealistic, they cannot be harmful-then having them manifest in reality.

But when it comes to romance, I prefer for the other party to take over.I am very passive when it comes to love, its tragic.

I have Mars in seventh house -Libra. And my longest relationship was with a Mars in 1st house Libra guy.He pursued me through and through....
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I can identify quite well with most of what you wrote. I am passive as well, my Mars is also in Libra and falls between my 2nd and 3rd house it conjuncts my mercury which falls into my 3rd house. The part about them existing only in dreams, fantasies and imagination is true for me also. It doesn't help making my mind up having my Moon in Gemini either...

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
yea, that's our problem sometimes; we ignore, we don't admit to ourselves that we're feeling something for someone, yet the feeling is so clear to us, we just don't admit it! We wait until someone makes a move or someone to actually bring up that topic..afraid of getting too involved because of the possible pain we might get at the end but once we admitted to ourselves that we love you, we would do anything to get you but only if we had the courage to do so! >.<

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Haha! Exactly, its working up the courage to tell you just how much we could potentially love you. Its a frightening prospect opening up as much as we could with someone, especially if you worry about being too strong and looking like a crazy person >_>

posted December 27, 2011 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
to anyone out there who have scorpio venus and other strong influences of pluto in their chart, i just like to ask you something, here's the scenario..

say, for example, you know you're secretly fallin in love with your friend but then it happens that life is on the way and you two have to be apart..sadly, none of you never really got the chance to tell the other person what you really feel for each other (nor the courage to do so--fear of rejection). As time had pass, will you still remember that person and still think about her/him? Or will just go on with your life and hopefully get over with that person, and cut them out of your life?

I know scorpio venuses wouldn't just fall for someone who doesn't have any interest in them (well, at least for me that's the case) and i also know that they're not the pursuers in a relationship, espesh those ones with strong scorpio influence..so please, share me your ideas! is it typical for scorpio venuses to feel this way? how about the guys here with this placement, what are your thoughts? (i really hope to get some answers here, though i know my question sounded a bit childish! , but i'm still a teenager so i guess that's okay?)

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