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Topic: Gemini Venus/Merc...can you guys really settle down?
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Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:04 PM
  
My close friend dated a Taurus guy with Aries Moon, Gemini Merc/Venus and Aqua Mars...and he broke her heart...after 5 whole years. They even talked about kids and marriage together and he would say that she' the one he'll spend the rest of his life with... BUT..he said, he wants to go out now and explore his chances. His reason is that its something he just "gotta do....How will I know you're really the one??" He has Sun square Mars, Venus opposite Saturn/Uranus...I'm not sure if these are significant but its a pretty close orb for him. I would love some Gems' inputs...so I can help my friend out. I've heard some not-so-nice things about gem venuses..but I would really like to see if anyone has any input as to the reason why he could leave a 5 yr relationship just so he can go and meet other girls and "fool around with them" - his words exact. She's a Sag sun/venus, Aries moon/mars. She has Sun sq Ascendant (sag/pisces), Sun trine moon, moon quincunx venus. Their synastry: my girl-friend on the outside.  ------------------
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NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:05 PM
does a gemini ascendant count?------------------
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Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:06 PM
 anything related to Gem :P please do share!IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 29, 2011 09:12 PM
I think with gem mercury, it just makes them prone to seek alot of stimulation, get bored easily and have a huge tendency to lie about everything. Having a gem mercury by itself can probably be alright, it's more gem venus and mars. Moon also. Since venus is about how they love, mars is how they exert themselves, esp sexually and moon is emotions.
The problem with gem placements is the fact that it makes somebody VERY curious and have this 'grass is always greener' mentality. They will always feel like exploring, that can't be helped.
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NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:13 PM
personally, i crave marriage, to settle down (but not necessarily kids yet)i have a gemini ascendant and a sag mercury singleton as well as cap uranus singleton venus, saturn, neptune in cap in the 8th, uranus in 7th....mars and pluto in scorpio, sextile venus, saturn, and neptune some are loyal placements and other are flighty placements, but my loyal placements are stronger, despite how strong my gemini asc is and i'v heard that line several times, about the whole needing to go and see if this girl is the one for him and such....some people do figure out that the person they were with was the one for them and some just want to get the h*ll out of there good news is, this guy is down for a long term relationship if he was with her for 5 years....its a h*ll of a lot better than what i'v accomplished (they left me, not the other way around) ------------------
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Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:14 PM
Would Gem Mercury people tend to have a flirty mouth?? Cuz this guy is off the charts with his flirting. He even flirted with ME knowing that I am my girl-friends' childhood friend..literally. Ticked me off to the max he did that.While he was with her, he still flirted with girls. They would go to parties/get-together with friends and he would go talk to girls and exchange numbers with them...WHILE MY FRIEND WAS THERE. IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:17 PM
yes, very flirty...actually, flirting is one of geminis trademark traits, LOL------------------
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mintgirl123
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posted November 29, 2011 09:18 PM
An ex had a merc and venus in gem. He was really really flirty. I think mercury makes him think like a gem, it's more the venus that makes them sickeningly flirty. Darn I would have dumped his ass. But I see they have moon moon conjunction, probably was hard for her =( didn't she feel really embarrassed? I would feel so ashamed if my bf was getting numbers off girls while I WAS THERE. That's pretty effed. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 29, 2011 09:20 PM
And bc I'm scarred from my past experiences, I would never date anyone with cancer, scorpio or gem placements. Like =( and they say sag are flighty?? Hell no, not from my experience. I just can't take the games that gems play too.IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:21 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
And bc I'm scarred from my past experiences, I would never date anyone with cancer, scorpio or gem placements. Like =( and they say sag are flighty?? Hell no, not from my experience. I just can't take the games that gems play too.
if i were a dude, i'd say give me a chance cus i would prove that your worries would be misplaced, lol ------------------
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Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:22 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
And bc I'm scarred from my past experiences, I would never date anyone with cancer, scorpio or gem placements. Like =( and they say sag are flighty?? Hell no, not from my experience. I just can't take the games that gems play too.
I heard that about Sag Venus people...but my friend is a Sag venus and all she did was stood by him while he went and did all these things to her. She loved him....unconditionally (perhaps?) and she just cannot let go of him. Maybe you are right with the moon-moon conjunction. IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:23 PM
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Originally posted by NickiG:
if i were a dude, i'd say give me a chance cus i would prove that your worries would be misplaced, lol
If you were a dude I'd probably feel this world isn't so bad after all...  LOL IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:24 PM
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Originally posted by Starry~*:
If you were a dude I'd probably feel this world isn't so bad after all... LOL
lol...i have all the best qualities of my placements, none of the bad ------------------
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mintgirl123
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posted November 29, 2011 09:25 PM
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Originally posted by Starry~*:
I heard that about Sag Venus people...but my friend is a Sag venus and all she did was stood by him while he went and did all these things to her. She loved him....unconditionally (perhaps?) and she just cannot let go of him. Maybe you are right with the moon-moon conjunction.
haha she acted like me. I don't think sag venuses are cheaters. They can be loyal. It's just that seeing everyone that has a gem venus, I've never seen any that were loyal. Not gonna risk it with a new guy lol hoping he's the exception. It might be 'discrimination' in a way, I'd call it being smart. That and them having scorpio moon or venus, or even mercury! Holy sh talk about draining. I hate how 3 of my main planets in air, yet the virgo sun side of me are attracted to water and earth signs! Urgh lol I wish I had a natal chart that was mostly air and fire, or mostly water and earth.
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mintgirl123
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posted November 29, 2011 09:29 PM
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Originally posted by NickiG:
lol...i have all the best qualities of my placements, none of the bad
What are you? Gem rising? What's your sun? IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:30 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
What are you? Gem rising? What's your sun?
scorpio sun, mars, pluto ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 29, 2011 09:31 PM
I think scorpio suns are alright, it's just when someone has it in moon, dunno what happens... They just get really intense and not in a particularly good way?IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think scorpio suns are alright, it's just when someone has it in moon, dunno what happens... They just get really intense and not in a particularly good way?
i strongly dislike scorpio moon, especially coupled with an aqua sun...even worse when they'r square ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:35 PM
What would a dude with venus opposite saturn mean for him?IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 29, 2011 09:35 PM
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NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:36 PM
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Originally posted by Starry~*:
What would a dude with venus opposite saturn mean for him?
i imagine about the same as venus conjunct saturn, which i have...but the energy could be different with opposition ------------------
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Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:37 PM
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Welcome!
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NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:37 PM
LOL, i didnt even notice you were new...i was too absorbed with the conversation------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted November 29, 2011 09:40 PM
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LOL, i didnt even notice you were new...i was too absorbed with the conversation
I happens Tell me about your venus conjunct saturn! IP: Logged |
NickiG
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posted November 29, 2011 09:40 PM
there is one thing i noticed about the sysatry....it looks really bad..i see more red than bluei think the only thing that kept this guy around for 5 years is the saturn conjunct saturn ------------------
I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
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