posted December 02, 2011 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by NickiG:
i prefer the word "airhead" lol

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posted December 02, 2011 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't.

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ok then, is multitasker a better word?

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted December 02, 2011 10:24 PM            

We are conditioned to think that love is a contract and commitment to stay together and be faithful till death do us part. I say love is fully living the present with no expectations and without attaching oneself to an outcome.

My favorite book: Awareness by Anthony de Mello. Some favorite quotes from this book and other of his writings are:

“Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.” -Anthony de Mello

“These things will destroy the human race: politics without principle, progress without compassion, wealth without work, learning without silence, religion without fearlessness, and worship without awareness.” -Anthony de Mello

“If what you seek is Truth, there is one thing you must have above all else.” “I know. An overwhelming passion for it.” “No. An unremitting readiness to admit you may be wrong.” ― Anthony de Mello

"What you are aware of you are in control of; what you are not aware of is in control of you. You are always a slave to what you're not aware of." -Anthony de Mello

"Wisdom tends to grow in proportion to one's awareness of one's ignorance." -Anthony de Mello

"People who want a cure, provided they can have it without pain, are like those who favor progress, provided they can have it without change." -Anthony de Mello

posted December 02, 2011 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by NickiG:
ok then, is multitasker a better word?

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posted December 02, 2011 10:26 PM            

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted December 02, 2011 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
to love unconditionally is to open your heart and take a chance without expecting nothing in return. If you don't have expectations you can't get hurt. Expecting something comes from fear of the unknown and not from love.

We are conditioned to think that love is a contract and commitment to stay together and be faithful till death do us part. I say love is fully living the present with no expectations and without attaching oneself to an outcome.

My favorite book: Awareness by Anthony de Mello. Some favorite quotes from this book and other of his writings are:

“Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.” -Anthony de Mello

“These things will destroy the human race: politics without principle, progress without compassion, wealth without work, learning without silence, religion without fearlessness, and worship without awareness.” -Anthony de Mello

“If what you seek is Truth, there is one thing you must have above all else.” “I know. An overwhelming passion for it.” “No. An unremitting readiness to admit you may be wrong.” ― Anthony de Mello

"What you are aware of you are in control of; what you are not aware of is in control of you. You are always a slave to what you're not aware of." -Anthony de Mello

"Wisdom tends to grow in proportion to one's awareness of one's ignorance." -Anthony de Mello

"People who want a cure, provided they can have it without pain, are like those who favor progress, provided they can have it without change." -Anthony de Mello

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posted December 02, 2011 11:19 PM            

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Coolest Venus sign? Pisces by far. They know what love *really* is...and what it isn't.

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posted December 03, 2011 03:25 AM            

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate... leads to suffering."

I know I'm quoting Star Wars, but it's true.

posted December 03, 2011 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
Guys, I don't want to step in and sound all Mom-ish, but all this hate against Gemini Venus needs to stop. It's not good for the soul. Indifference is the way to peace...

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate... leads to suffering."

I know I'm quoting Star Wars, but it's true.

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posted December 03, 2011 09:59 AM            

it might be that my scorpio sun, mars, and pluto overrides any "cheating" or "unfaithful" tendencies i might get

or my leo moon...or even my cap venus...you know what? i should just say the rest of my chart, LOL

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted December 03, 2011 10:02 AM            

I will definitely stop hanging out with someone or break up with them if they stop having the same enthusiasm for life as me. To be with me, u have to be Happy, and let things slide. My reason for living is to show others the joy of living, and the reason whY i can get depressed sometimes (accounting for gemini's twin nature) is simply because I find it's harder to make people laugh than I thought. So there's nothing i hate more than someone who will not laugh with me, or who won't be easygoing and enthusiastic with me. I will of course not break up with them at the drop of a hat or anything. I mean, if i got with them in the first place it was because i saw they were someone who i could have fun times with. But i hate someone who keeps thinking about the past and being bitter so someone like that, who is and always was like that (and it isnt just a mood swing or a phase in their life) will definitely drain the life out of me so much that we would have to break up.

posted December 03, 2011 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Come on, how has no one said Venus in Aries yet? We got Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, Johnny Cash, Steve McQueen.. if that ain't a good collection of 'cool', I don't know what is.

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Gregory Peck too, if memory serves.

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*I use the whole sign system*

Personal Planets:
Sun, Mercury: Libra
Venus: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Capricorn

posted December 03, 2011 01:21 PM            

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(this question goes to anyone with a Gemini sun, Gemini Moon, Gemini Venus, Gemini ascendant, Gemini Mercury, or Gemini Mars, or those who have dealt with them):

When a Gemini IS faithful, what causes that? I've heard that the only way that Gemini can be faithful is if Gemini TRULY loves someone. Is this the 'magic word' that you have to say to get a Gemini to be faithful?

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Frankly, a lot of people here go for the simplistic interpretation and jump to conclusions far too quickly WITHOUT TAKING INTO ACCOUNT THE WHOLE CHART. There is wayyyy too much emphasis on signs. Aspects play a larger role in determining actual personality, imo.

Anyway, as a Gem ASC, I've had many long term relationships, and only cheated on one partner. Why did I cheat on him? He didn't make me feel guilty about it. Obviously, people are going to stick with someone whom they LOVE, but just saying "I love you" to a Gem won't make them love you back.

My friend is an Aries Sun, Gemini Moon and she has only had one boyfriend and has only slept with one person (him). She was never really interested in guys, despite them being VERY interested in her. She was always single, she'd go on dates but then was "over it" by the 5th date or so. Then she met her boyfriend and now it's like they're married (they even live together).

posted December 13, 2011 10:22 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
When a Gemini IS faithful, what causes that? I've heard that the only way that Gemini can be faithful is if Gemini TRULY loves someone. Is this the 'magic word' that you have to say to get a Gemini to be faithful?

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