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Topic: Which is the coolest venus sign?
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bluegreyeyes Knowflake Posts: 153 From: NC Registered: May 2009
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posted December 13, 2011 02:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: Just curious, since there has been a lot of discussion about Geminis/Gem Venus:(this question goes to anyone with a Gemini sun, Gemini Moon, Gemini Venus, Gemini ascendant, Gemini Mercury, or Gemini Mars, or those who have dealt with them): When a Gemini IS faithful, what causes that? I've heard that the only way that Gemini can be faithful is if Gemini TRULY loves someone. Is this the 'magic word' that you have to say to get a Gemini to be faithful?
I'm a gem moon and completely faithful. I deplore cheating in any sense of the word - be it relationships, business, competition... it just makes me physically ill. I value loyalty above all else - whether it's the love of my life or my dry cleaner! ------------------ Aqua Sun Gem Moon Aries RIsing IP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 02:59 PM
It's interesting that so many KNOWflakes hate on Gemini Venus because of a single person's actions... People need to stop making excuses to themselves for their former lovers. They didn't cheat on you because they're a Gemini whatever. They cheated on you because they're an ******* . And they're an ******* because people are ******** sometimes. The stars... the signs... they're just game pieces the universe gave to us. How you choose to win the "game" of life is up to you.People CHOOSE to be the way they are. Stop using astrology to justify their actions. It's an insult to the divine art, really. Venus is different in women than men. Basic astrology. It insults me greatly when a man with an afflicted Gemini Venus does something horrible and gives a bad name for everyone. Sandra Bullock (who has Gemini Mars, as well), Uma Thurman, and Cher had Gemini Venus... and THEY were one's you got cheated on! Jesse James = Aries Venus. Ethan Hawke = Scorpio Venus. Sonny Bono = Sag Venus. No one has anything to say about that? Oh, but now you're probably saying that those women named above have fixed sun signs, so that's why they never cheated. Ah, so now that it's convenient for you to look at someone's chart, you start to do so, eh? But when you need to justify hating a particular sign and placement, you draw focus only on that. Such amateur hour. SO... Sandra Bullock(+Gemini Mars), Uma Thurman(+Gemini Mars), Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Cher, Frida Kahlo, Amelia Earhart (+Gemini Moon), Helen Mirren, Kylie Minogue (+Sun in Gemini), Tina Fey (+Gemini Mars), and I are gonna go out to hunt down three men each to bring to our daily Gemini Venus orgy because apparently we are just complete ***** . I mean, we are scandalous, unfaithful, filthy little ladies. But I guess that's just the way we are since that's the way of the Gemini.  (Courtney Love was invited, but she got lost on the way here... Thank god.)
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 13, 2011 03:07 PM
It's quite interesting to note though, that women with gem mars and venus are actually alot less prone to cheat.I've seen alot of men with it be shifty as hell, but women seem to be able to handle the energy better. I dunno why. But Gem venus for GUYS IS dodgy, and alot of them DO cheat. You can't deny this. I'm not even saying based on one experience, I've seen it alot in real life, and lol even on this forum. Though it's not really limited to men then. IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 598 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 03:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Gemini,Aqua.
oh yeeeeah! IP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 471 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 03:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: It's quite interesting to note though, that women with gem mars and venus are actually alot less prone to cheat.I've seen alot of men with it be shifty as hell, but women seem to be able to handle the energy better. I dunno why. But Gem venus for GUYS IS dodgy, and alot of them DO cheat. You can't deny this. I'm not even saying based on one experience, I've seen it alot in real life, and lol even on this forum. Though it's not really limited to men then.
I will deny this because my best friend in high school was Taurus with Gemini Venus and he was in love with the same girl from junior high until when he died in college. I know a lot of Taurus Sun/Gemini Venus guys from 1988 who are completely faithful as well. The same goes for Cancer Sun/Gemini Venus guys I am know from my own birth month in 1988. My boyfriend is a Cancer Sun/Gemini Venus from 1987 and he's been completely faithful. Trust me, I know. *cue Mission Impossible theme song* I take people for who they are and what they've done - individually. All the terrorists in the September 11 attacks were Islamic, but that doesn't mean I think all Muslims are terrorists. And not all terrorists are Islamic. IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 598 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 03:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: Just curious, since there has been a lot of discussion about Geminis/Gem Venus:(this question goes to anyone with a Gemini sun, Gemini Moon, Gemini Venus, Gemini ascendant, Gemini Mercury, or Gemini Mars, or those who have dealt with them): When a Gemini IS faithful, what causes that? I've heard that the only way that Gemini can be faithful is if Gemini TRULY loves someone. Is this the 'magic word' that you have to say to get a Gemini to be faithful? I don't know a lot of Geminis, but I have heard so many horror stories about their cheating, especially the guys, so I'd like to hear from the Gems/Gem-influenced people themselves, to be fair. I do know ONE Gemini male (older) who is a big flirt (still!), but he ADORES his Libra wife and is so sweet to her and has always been faithful as far as I know.
Ok. Let me tell you about me (Gem Merc, Gem Venus). I crave attention. I live for flirting. I love fun. Most my life I have been faithful to partners. I was always looking for true love and craved a monogamous relationship. I would flirt with others, but never did anything with them when I was in a relationship. I was with my ex for 4 and a half years. I met my husband at work and fell in love with him instantly. I slept with him and a week later broke it off with my ex. I've been with my husband 7 years and truly believed that I would never need anyone else even though my sex drive is 100 times higher than his and for the past 3 years we've had numerous rows about the lack of sex I'm getting. In April dreamt about a guy I hadn’t seen for 8 years (I was very attracted to him back then but didn’t think he felt the same). I wondered why I dreamt about him so I contacted him and he told me he used to really like me. We stayed in contact and it all escalated from there. My outlook on life seemed to change overnight and I realised (excuse my bluntness) that life is too short and after a long debate with myself, I slept with him. I seriously need sex in order to function (8th house Mars, and Scorp moon). But I slept with THIS guy because he also emotionally satisfied me. We had a great connection. I could have cheated 100 times over on my husband by now. I'm never without offers, but I never did. If Gem Venus just "screws over" everyone, then why haven't I had sex 100 times over by now? I do have morals but life is complicated and doesn't always work out in the fairy-tale way that some of us hope and imagine.
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2393 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 13, 2011 03:30 PM
woah ^ really? Nah that's cool. See I'm a virgo with alot of libra, so gem energy is attractive. But I'd rather just stick with aquarius or some fire sign instead lol.I guess houses matter too. Maybe having it in the 7th house might make them more loyal. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 09:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: I like my one- Libra.I also like Sag and Taurus. Urgh Gem? All they're gonna do is cheat on ya and screw you over.
That made me sad. Lol. I'm a Venus in Gemini and I don't think I would do that..
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athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 1584 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 13, 2011 10:34 PM
I have Venus in Gemini.. IP: Logged |
cancercaite Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 14, 2011 02:43 PM
aquarius is the most confused venus sign >  IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 1584 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 14, 2011 03:08 PM
All I know if he doesn't have brains, he wont get me. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4053 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 14, 2011 05:08 PM
Just want to add that husband and wife here are both Gemini Moons. We are both real flirts, and we don't get along with our own sex, so the majority of our friends are with the opposite sex. We are even very friendly with our ex-relationships, even to the extent of being a tad touchy feely in front of each other (meaning spouses). Yes, I get perplexed when my wife's ex-b/f kisses her in front of me (not on the mouth), but that's the trust we have in each other. Ultimately, it all amounts to nothing because we are completely faithful and devoted to each other. IP: Logged | |