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posted December 08, 2011 03:31 AM            

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Did anyone have this in a relationship? How would it play out?

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posted December 08, 2011 03:48 AM            

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Probably as a perma-issue involving communication. Mentally, the two people just not being on the same page.

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posted December 08, 2011 04:11 AM            

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I have this in my natal and in my current relationship. It's not great but not terrible for me. I mean, you will usually get some hard aspects with Saturn in synastry to have long term. For me, I am familiar with the energy since I have it in natal too - it plays out like he likes to seem authoritarian at times, and sometimes it gets on my nerves because it overrides me. So I tell him lol. He doesn't like it of course, since Saturn wants to me respected and looked up to. To switch it up, I express admiration too to make his Saturn feel 'needed' and respected and it works well. it's a compromise. I think at its more annoying, Saturn sq merc can also manifest as one cutting the other off during conversation even if it's mercury doing it because it feels 'confined' by Saturn's platitudes. At its worse, Saturn will 'look down' on Mercury, while Mercury will be deeply hurt by Saturn's wet blanket attitude. It's like Mercury goes, Hey! I just had this interesting thought, and Saturn goes, Yeah whatever. lol. But that's the more negative way of it I think.It can even be reversed - it's not always saturn having the upper hand since if its in hard aspect, it can just come off as deeply insecure and even envious of the planet's energies which it's aspecting.

Hope that makes sense.

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posted December 08, 2011 08:42 AM            

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Yes. My saturn was in conj to his mercury and his saturn was in square to my mercury. I always think he was much better than me and more intelligent and so on...There was also some kind of barriar between us. We read each other more than talk. I felt I must be better on everything....and I work hard on it and he stood behind me. He helped me through my educations all the year we was togheter.

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posted December 08, 2011 01:54 PM            

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posted May 03, 2012 09:47 AM            

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edit* Hahaz
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"Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars."

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posted December 09, 2012 06:59 PM            

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I have it with a guy and no matter what I say he looks on the negative side and I cant win.
So it has broken up the relationship even though I have sextile with him. If I just kid around he takes it the wrong way. I found myself feeling repressed and afraid to open my mouth so it is over. We had other great aspects but it seems the negative ones always win.

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