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Topic: Unrequited love
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 09, 2011 02:26 AM
Would Pluto conjunct venus be indicative of unrequited love?A few years ago I was so infatuated with this guy. I would move heaven and hell for a chance to be with him, it sounds so bad i *do* not tell my boyfriend about him. Ugh there was SO much sexual tension between us, I won't deny, no one has ever made me feel such intensity before but him. With THAT being said, I was reading up on pluto/venus contacts and conjunction caught me. Do you guys have any experience with this, or any unrequited love aspects? wrong time right place kind of thing? IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 09, 2011 02:46 AM
my first love and i had venus trine pluto. the love was intense. passion omg. the bedroom (well no words can describe it) we loved eachother like maniacs. but we were too young.IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6858 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 09, 2011 02:58 AM
The only thing is venus would have the same aspect with everyone else the same age... Venus/pluto is all or nothing... Give me all of you, or nothing walk away... Im not really sure, but I'm thinking Neptune would be more unrequited love.. Since Neptune doesnt care about physical contact. Neptune to planet often turns platonic. Neptune wants the spiritual connect. While the planet wants (what ever the planet wants) but neptune is an illusion, so neptune feels it but the planet person doesnt.. or visa versa... ALSO if one person aspects one's 7th.. but not the other way around.. The 7th house person wants the commitment. But the person who's 7th isnt activated doesnt... Something like that is what I have read..
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lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 09, 2011 02:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by curiouswoman: my first love and i had venus trine pluto. the love was intense. passion omg. the bedroom (well no words can describe it) we loved eachother like maniacs. but we were too young.
How young? IP: Logged |
Doreen Knowflake Posts: 389 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 09, 2011 03:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by lindisfarne: Would Pluto conjunct venus be indicative of unrequited love?A few years ago I was so infatuated with this guy. I would move heaven and hell for a chance to be with him, it sounds so bad i *do* not tell my boyfriend about him. Ugh there was SO much sexual tension between us, I won't deny, no one has ever made me feel such intensity before but him. With THAT being said, I was reading up on pluto/venus contacts and conjunction caught me. Do you guys have any experience with this, or any unrequited love aspects? wrong time right place kind of thing?
I'm a little drunk on Cherry Brandy so forgive me if you have stated it but if I have missed it were you Venus or Pluto IP: Logged |
Leonine8 Knowflake Posts: 148 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 09, 2011 09:43 AM
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athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 4420 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 09, 2011 10:13 AM
In my experience, My Venus square his Pluto exact. And another Person, my Aphrodite/Jupiter square his sun exact. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 09, 2011 11:30 PM
we broke up when i was in my early 20sIP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 03:55 AM
I haven't had pluto conjunct venus in synastry but have in composite and it has been the best sex of my life. Beautiful awesome chemistry! but this was coupled with venus/mars trine double whammy in synastry and venus/mars trine in composite as well.It was not unrequited. We both like eachother and care for eachother. Timing off? yes. He has issues he needs to work out and I am unavailable but not emotionally, also we live in different states lol. Does it bother me that the timing is off? No. The universe knows what its doing and I just enjoy each moment I get with him, that is all I can do and that is more than enough. I am just glad we met and I got to know him and experience him. Did you flirt with this guy and made your move? if there was a lot of sexual tension I am sure he felt it too. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 04:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: I haven't had pluto conjunct venus in synastry but have in composite and it has been the best sex of my life. Beautiful awesome chemistry! but this was coupled with venus/mars trine double whammy in synastry and venus/mars trine in composite as well.It was not unrequited. We both like eachother and care for eachother. Timing off? yes. He has issues he needs to work out and I am unavailable but not emotionally, also we live in different states lol. Does it bother me that the timing is off? No. The universe knows what its doing and I just enjoy each moment I get with him, that is all I can do and that is more than enough. I am just glad we met and I got to know him and experience him. Did you flirt with this guy and made your move? if there was a lot of sexual tension I am sure he felt it too.
Is this the twin flame you were talking about?? Yes, we flirted, mostly did the staring contest, always making physical contact with me Christ I wanted to combust right then and there. Sooooo much sexual tension........ Never been so attracted to someone like that in my entire life. D: IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 04:44 AM
I dont know if he is my twin flame or not. I suppose there is a chance he is but we are not meant to be together in this life bc I have karmic relationships to work on and he has to work on himself quite a lot. All I know is I like having him in my life and that is enough. He is at least a meaningful romantic soulmate. I think we were probably lovers in a past life: My Arabic part of lovers conjuncts tightly his venus by 3 degree orb and his venus conjuncts my southnode by 9 degree orb which is big I know but since the arabic part is involved at a tight orb I am including aspect. Also my southnode conjuncts his 12th cusp by 3 degree orb and my Southnode also conjuncts his saturn by 1 degree orb and his uranus by 6 degree orb. Oh and his vertex conjucts my karma, venus and mars so it was definitely without a doubt not an accident that we met. so the flirting didn't lead to more? is that bc you were involved already when he crossed your path? IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 555 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 05:05 AM
unrequited love? haha no. My love gets returned. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 2750 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 07:06 AM
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lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 2750 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 07:09 AM
Speaking of unequited love, you may want to look at duad in synastry. there is this post here that investigate the duad as reason for unequited love. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 02:20 PM
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 03:37 PM
Me: duad ascendent taurus 9 degrees duad sun leo at 12 degrees duad moon scorpio 20 degrees duad venus taurus 12 degrees duad mars taurus 23 degrees duad jupiter aquarius 1 degrees duad saturn scorpio 28 degrees Wow a lot of scorpio and taurus axis going on. I have to say the only love in my life that I feel has been requited with the exact same intensity, that I felt loved me without a doubt as much as I loved him, was with my ex scorpio. That is why it hurt so much when it ended bc I thought he was it, I broke up with him and figured he would fight for the relationship but instead his ego made him retreat and want vengeance (very scorpio). 9 years later this ex wants to get back and get married with me and have children.
I am sorry but this theory about duads having to do with unrequited love doesn't make much sense in my case. As for Taurus every Taurus I have been attracted to has been attracted to me right back. However, I have noticed that I tend to meet Taurus when they are already involved or when I am already involved but the attraction has never been unrequited. How to calculate your duad chart: http://aliceportman.com/calculating-duad-and-dwad-charts/ Duad table: http://aliceportman.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/Duad-Table1.pdf IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 03:52 PM
My duad chart clearly shows what I am attracted to and feel comfortable with scorpio/taurus axis and leo/aquarius axis but the attraction or love with these signs is not unrequited in my personal experience.
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 04:02 PM
But if your duad chart does not compliment your natal chart then you will feel attracted to people who don't like you back or don't like you back as much! That is the issue I think. Or if their duad chart does not line up with your duad or natal chart then unrequited/unequal attraction/love takes place. So there must be good enough synastry and composite and also eachother's duads charts have to reinforce the good chemistry that the synastry and composite express.Thanks lilithpluto for bringing this up. Really interesting stuff. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 20395 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 04:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: My duad chart clearly shows what I am attracted to and feel comfortable with scorpio/taurus axis and leo/aquarius axis but the attraction or love with these signs is not unrequited in my personal experience.
Of course not. This might only be the case (according to Alice Portman), if only person A`s Duads resonate with person B`s natal, and not vice versa.
I am not certain about that though.
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 4148 From: Miami Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 05:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Of course not. This might only be the case (according to Alice Portman), if only person A`s Duads resonate with person B`s natal, and not vice versa. I am not certain about that though.
Are you saying that if a guy that likes me doesn't have scorpio/taurus sun or mars in his natal that I probably wont feel an instant attraction? Ex has scorpio sun, hubby has mars in scorpio. My friend has sun in aqua (my duad sun is in leo and duad jupiter in aqua) and his duad venus, mars and moon in scorpio conjuncts my duad 7th cusp. I think that the person interested in you would need to have axis you have in your sun or mars duad, if you are a girl, in his natal. Is this what you are saying?? IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted December 10, 2011 08:26 PM
I agree that unrequited is neptune, not pluto.IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 4420 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 08:35 PM
It is Pluto.I know from experience. His Pluto square my Venus and he loved me but I didn't love him. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 08:39 PM
Why can't it be both? I see it more with Pluto though Pluto wanting that control posession...IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 4420 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 08:41 PM
Yes Pluto was bat sh** crazy possessive.IP: Logged |
lindisfarne Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: she doesn't know that i left my urge in the icebox Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 10, 2011 09:02 PM
@athenai have to agree with you on Pluto there. I stopped seeing a guy that aspected my Venus. he was Pluto. This is what his craziness revolved around: one night I called to ask him for this movie. Don't mean to use this word but normal people would just tell you, and make it less complicated. not with this guy this what happened: him: why? me: what do you mean why? I want to watch the movie what's it called? him: im not telling you me: why not? him: because you're not telling me the real reason. who are you with? me: what?! im alone, tell me the name of the movie? him: no. who are you with tell me first and I'll give you the name of the movie. me: I'm not with anyone. him: whos with you? why are you lying? is it a female or a male? me; I'm alone! what the hell is your problem? him; put them on the phone. me; no one is here! him: youre a f*cking liar! don't lie to me, why would you do that? you're with someone why else would you ask me? we watch movies together why are you watching movies with someone else? **** you -hang up- LOL!!!! he wanted to possess me, wasn't feeling it at all... IP: Logged |