posted December 14, 2011 06:55 AM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
You still missed the point, so now I guess you're odd and obnoxious.

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Weren't you just complaining in one of your other numerous threads that you prefer direct, no-nonsense, blunt communication? So I communicated to you very directly what I thought the problem was.

It's funny, although not a surprise, that as soon as "blunt communication" tells you something you don't want to hear, you get snippy and defensive. Maybe Water Mercuries, with our emotional style and sensitivity, are onto something after all?

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And no, I don't have responsibility. Just because I was aloof or whatever doesn't make me responsible for someone's moodiness.

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Look at this rationally. All your Cancer friend knows is that someone he considered a friend suddenly cut him off and avoided him for no apparent reason. He can't read your mind; all he has to go by is your actions. Your actions were hurtful. So he decided to withdraw. It's very simple cause and effect.

On some level you know your own actions are part of the problem, otherwise you wouldn't have put it in the thread.

I hope you recognize the inconsistency of you starting numerous threads all over this forum complaining about how Capricorn placements are so distant, or how Water Mercury people can't communicate directly, while you yourself magically expect other people to know what's going on in your head.

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Not my problem if they take an act that wasn't even related to them way too personally.

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Well first of all, it is related to your Cancer friend, because the "act" is how you treated him.

And sure, you can treat your friends however you want. But if your attitude is "I can be rude to my friends whenever I'm in a bad mood and I don't owe them an explanation," you can't complain when some of your friends start giving you a wide berth.

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Please don't say cancers feel the undercurrents of things because no, i don't agree, seems like they tend to misonstrue situations and cause their own moodiness if anything.

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