posted December 13, 2011 12:14 AM              

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Iv'e recently had one ask weird out of the blue questions of me that seem like they are 'testing the waters', this makes a lot of sense.

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posted December 13, 2011 12:20 AM            

You should find that when there is a new moon in Leo, and a full moon in aquarius, you have a better choice of partners available.

posted December 13, 2011 06:27 AM            

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Originally posted by IamLoved:
@lindisfarne

I do everything to feel complete.

I spend time with friends/family, have plenty of enjoyable hobbies, volunteer, exercise, work and travel, but yet something is missing.

I want someone to hold.... someone to kiss.... someone to tell "I love you"

Nobody is meant to be alone. And I don't feel right being alone for 6 going on 7 years. At first I was okay with it..... I felt free...... but now I want love from another person.

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posted December 13, 2011 07:19 AM            

Also, since I see you're from Queens, and I live on the border of Queens/Nassau.... I have a recommendation for someone local who you might enjoy a session with, so email me if you are interested.... jbrenner56@yahoo.com

posted December 13, 2011 09:04 AM            

I have a friend, she never had a bf til she met her now-husband when she was 31. Now she is 33, happily married. She never regretted not having more fun/playing the field though she sometimes, like you, wondered when a guy will come along.

I come from a family of 3 girls - We are all perpetually single most of the time too.. but I definately had more relationships than my sisters, but they are happier than me. They are happily single most of the time.

posted December 13, 2011 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by IamLoved:
@lindisfarne

I do everything to feel complete.

I spend time with friends/family, have plenty of enjoyable hobbies, volunteer, exercise, work and travel, but yet something is missing.

I want someone to hold.... someone to kiss.... someone to tell "I love you"

Nobody is meant to be alone. And I don't feel right being alone for 6 going on 7 years. At first I was okay with it..... I felt free...... but now I want love from another person.

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posted December 13, 2011 05:03 PM            

Thanks for your response.

posted December 13, 2011 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
You've got Venus opposite Saturn, which I have as well, and I'm perpetually single -- so I totally empathize. The way I've learned to deal with it is remembering that Saturn delays but rewards. Perhaps now is a time for you to work on yourself and make yourself the best you you can be so that when the right person comes along, you'll be ready for it. I think your Saturn return will be important in dealing with this.

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This is right on the money!

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I was single for 3 years and that was the best three years that I ever gave myself! It gave me time to cultivate my interests more and build my life from the ground up. There were suitors but, they only wanted one thing.

Those three years, I never yearned for a relationship and my theme song was the Pussycat Dolls "I don't want a man".

Then one night, it happened. I met my future mate. I didn't know it at the time. I was out and about doing my own thing. We exchanged emails and kept in touch. A year later, after chasing me and trying to pursue dating, I let him catch me.

I'm middle aged and never been married....We all have out unique paths that we are one and don't feel discouraged cause what you are experienced doesn't seem ideal. Embrace your life

posted December 13, 2011 05:18 PM            

Thank you do much, for your kindness and prayers! I really appreciate you for taking the time to post and pray for me in my time of need.

posted December 13, 2011 06:34 PM            

See that.... my point exactly... your already taken!!!! All the good ones are taken!!!!! lol

posted December 13, 2011 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by IamLoved:
@Libreo

I hope it does come soon! Thanks!

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posted December 13, 2011 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
It's hard to see from your transits why you are having such a difficult time on the dating scene. Only thing that stands out, which is positive, is that you have a Saturn return coming up in a year or two. A return is when a planet is at it's strongest, so this can only be positive news. Why? Well, Saturn rules your 7th house of relationships/partner. The start of a new cycle as far as partners are concerned.

You should find that when there is a new moon in Leo, and a full moon in aquarius, you have a better choice of partners available.

Only thing I can see for the dry period you mention is when 7th ruler, SATURN, met 1st ruler, MOON. The conjunction should be a great thing, not 'negative' like you've experienced. I've had no partner for most of my life, despite great transits - so it's not always about the astrology of the situation.

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posted December 13, 2011 11:51 PM            

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Originally posted by IamLoved:
@YoursTrulyAlways

See that.... my point exactly... your already taken!!!! All the good ones are taken!!!!! lol

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posted December 13, 2011 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by IamLoved:
QYoursTrulyAlways

Thank you do much, for your kindness and prayers! I really appreciate you for taking the time to post and pray for me in my time of need.

Thanks again!

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Sweet Katie,

I sense you are a woman of faith. I would encourage you to keep looking towards God for strength and direction, and to keep loving yourself, because half of keeping attractive for the sake of your true love is believing in yourself. He is on a journey moving towards you, as you are similarly moving towards him. That fateful moment will arrive in due course. Have patience and have conviction.

Meanwhile, I feel deep down inside the presence of a strange emotional tie to your heartache, and if you would like someone to converse with, particularly about male-related relationship issues, especially myself being a man who is materially older, then please feel free to e-mail me at yourstruly@writeme.com.

One more thing. I am partial to your namesake. I named my daughter Kate as well. Katherine would be 17 years old in March.

posted December 14, 2011 06:48 AM            

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Originally posted by IamLoved:

I also think that a reason that I am single is because I have an empty natal 7th house :-(

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Ney, definately not true. The more knowledgable on the forum will explain the significance of an empty house.

posted January 04, 2012 12:30 AM            

I found this post again!

Thank you everyone for responding to this post!