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Topic: Please help me mend my broken heart
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IamLoved
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posted December 12, 2011 10:13 PM
  
Hello everyone.It's been a while, but I'm back again. I hope everyone is well! Lately, I have been feeling very sad. I feel incomplete without a relationship. I have friends to spend time with, but I'm still sad. I'm 27 yrs old and I've been a single woman for 6 years now. What am I doing wrong? I go out, I socialize and nothing.... Can someone please give me some advice, insight, something that will inspire me and clarify the reason I'm going through this? Please help.... I was born May 8th 1984 Queens NY 9:48 am Thank you so much!!!! Many blessings to those who try to help me! <3 Katie IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 12, 2011 10:16 PM
Post your natals with progressions please =)IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted December 12, 2011 10:26 PM
Ok thanks. I am going to register with photobucket so that I can post the image here THANKS!!!! IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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posted December 12, 2011 10:27 PM
You've got Venus opposite Saturn, which I have as well, and I'm perpetually single -- so I totally empathize.  The way I've learned to deal with it is remembering that Saturn delays but rewards. Perhaps now is a time for you to work on yourself and make yourself the best you you can be so that when the right person comes along, you'll be ready for it. I think your Saturn return will be important in dealing with this.I have a question for you, though. You have Moon trine Uranus. I have Moon square Uranus, and it's probably the main reason I'm a commitment-phobe. I just don't like anything threatening my freedom. Do you have issues anything like that? I'd imagine with the trine it's easier to deal with Uranus' love for freedom with your emotional side. I'm just curious.  IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 12, 2011 10:29 PM
I think moon trine uranus is good, just means she likes her space and doesn't like smothering relationships. She's independent =)Moon square uranus or opposition causes problems with commitment. IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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posted December 12, 2011 10:35 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I think moon trine uranus is good, just means she likes her space and doesn't like smothering relationships. She's independent =)Moon square uranus or opposition causes problems with commitment.
Yeah... that damn square drives me crazy. So many 7th house Cancer placements that want a relationship, and that square to Uranus that sets off alarms whenever someone shows that they like me. IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted December 12, 2011 10:36 PM
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lindisfarne
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posted December 12, 2011 10:41 PM
feeling incomplete without a relationship = red flag
feeling complete and whole because of a relationship/someone = red flagyou shouldn't need someone to make you whole. codependence isn't healthy op. IP: Logged |
IamLoved
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posted December 12, 2011 10:45 PM
@Fondue KnightThanks so much for the reply. I guess I have to wait another 2 years for my Saturn return to come, before I can get some relief from being lonely.
When I'm in a relationship I like to be committed, but also have a partner who has things to do outside of being with me. I don't like to be smothered, but I do want a relationship! I just want a relationship that is balanced with a healthy social life, not one that is possessive or mundane.
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IamLoved
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posted December 12, 2011 10:48 PM
@mintgirl123Thanks!! You are so right! I don't care for smothering relationships IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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posted December 12, 2011 10:49 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
@Fondue KnightThanks so much for the reply. I guess I have to wait another 2 years for my Saturn return to come, before I can get some relief from being lonely.
When I'm in a relationship I like to be committed, but also have a partner who has things to do outside of being with me. I don't like to be smothered, but I do want a relationship! I just want a relationship that is balanced with a healthy social life, not one that is possessive or mundane.
You're very welcome!  I'm not good at reading progressions or asteroids, so hopefully someone will come around who can give deeper insight.  And that last part sounds like what I try to tell myself, but when push comes to shove I end up running for the hills.   IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 12, 2011 10:52 PM
I think your Saturn in the 5th is making playm fun and romance very hard for you. Is this true?
I will come back and look some more, tomorrow.------------------
Want a peek in to my journal?
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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IamLoved
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posted December 12, 2011 10:55 PM
@lindisfarneI do everything to feel complete. I spend time with friends/family, have plenty of enjoyable hobbies, volunteer, exercise, work and travel, but yet something is missing. I want someone to hold.... someone to kiss.... someone to tell "I love you" Nobody is meant to be alone. And I don't feel right being alone for 6 going on 7 years. At first I was okay with it..... I felt free...... but now I want love from another person. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 12, 2011 11:02 PM
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I do everything to feel complete. I spend time with friends/family, have plenty of enjoyable hobbies, volunteer, exercise, work and travel, but yet something is missing. I want someone to hold.... someone to kiss.... someone to tell "I love you" Nobody is meant to be alone. And I don't feel right being alone for 6 going on 7 years. At first I was okay with it..... I felt free...... but now I want love from another person.
Miss Katie, I'll say a prayer for you tonight. My heart cries for you and your heartaches. However, I believe you will find the true love that you fully deserve. I don't think anybody is deserving of feeling lonely. Its not natural. Sorry I know next to nothing about astrology, but I can certainly empathize and feel your emotional pain. However, I offer you encouragement and morale suport. I'm an older guy who's been down your path before. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted December 12, 2011 11:05 PM
Neptune has been transiting your 7th and 8th Houses for a while. This has led to you romanticizing relationships and intimacy/sex. Neptune will enter your 9th House of the higher mind and joy very soon and you will be seeing the world in a new light, with or without a man.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 12, 2011 11:40 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Miss Katie,I'll say a prayer for you tonight. My heart cries for you and your heartaches. However, I believe you will find the true love that you fully deserve. I don't think anybody is deserving of feeling lonely. Its not natural. Sorry I know next to nothing about astrology, but I can certainly empathize and feel your emotional pain. However, I offer you encouragement and morale suport. I'm an older guy who's been down your path before.
Nice YTA :-) IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 12, 2011 11:42 PM
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
@lindisfarneI do everything to feel complete. I spend time with friends/family, have plenty of enjoyable hobbies, volunteer, exercise, work and travel, but yet something is missing. I want someone to hold.... someone to kiss.... someone to tell "I love you" Nobody is meant to be alone. And I don't feel right being alone for 6 going on 7 years. At first I was okay with it..... I felt free...... but now I want love from another person.
It will most CERTAINLY definately come to you. No doubt about it. But only when the time is right, not before. And probably when it's the furthest thing from your mind. Mark my words. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted December 12, 2011 11:53 PM
Holy cow, I'm a bit embarrassed that I even checked, and I should be ashamed of myself. But I'm extremely married, so its all moot. The compatibility is pretty darn hot.. Sun Trine Venus, Mars Trine Sun, Mercury Trine Sun, Sun Conjunct Neptune, Sun Trine Pluto.... The Capricorn and Taurus meshing and combo is almost perfect... And she's local to me.. lol IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 12, 2011 11:59 PM
LOL!!! Nothing wrong with your honesty!IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted December 13, 2011 12:02 AM
Plus she's a fellow earth sign hahaMan, that was such an Aqua Venus thing to do. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 13, 2011 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Holy cow, I'm a bit embarrassed that I even checked, and I should be ashamed of myself. But I'm extremely married, so its all moot. The compatibility is pretty darn hot.. Sun Trine Venus, Mars Trine Sun, Mercury Trine Sun, Sun Conjunct Neptune, Sun Trine Pluto.... And she's local to me.. lol
Maybe you were her friend in a past life or were close and felt compelled to respond to her post. Idk....I tend to think like that.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 13, 2011 12:04 AM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Plus she's a fellow earth sign hahaMan, that was such an Aqua Venus thing to do.
Why? That's the second time this week Iv'e read that Aqua do snoopy type things, do they?
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Capriquarius
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posted December 13, 2011 12:08 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[b]Plus she's a fellow earth sign hahaMan, that was such an Aqua Venus thing to do.
Why? That's the second time this week Iv'e read that Aqua do snoopy type things, do they?[/B][/QUOTE]
I didn't see it as snoopy, actually. More like inquisitiveness, observing and testing to see how things work, what makes them tick, and exploring abstract possibilities that should be impossibilities per Saturn limits...IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 13, 2011 12:10 AM
Would a Scorp sun Moon aqua do this? IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 13, 2011 12:11 AM
Iv'e recently had one ask weird out of the blue questions of me that seem like they are 'testing the waters', this makes a lot of sense.IP: Logged |
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