posted December 15, 2011 09:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
One thing people don't often discuss is Pisces's dark side. Just as Cancer can snap your face off when you approach at the wrong time, and Scorpio will lock their self in the basement with a voodoo doll and a lock of your hair, Pisces can be an emotional adrenaline junkie. In some cases the chase may even be more interesting than the actual catch. There can be situations where Pisces folks stir and build up their own emotions around a particular situation just to make it more thrilling or dangerous than it actually is. The bored (and Aquarius or Aries driven) Pisces can find walking down a dark alleyway at night quite a rush, though they may never own up to it. On an unconscious level these types of Pisces folks may build emotional drama around certain situations to protect their self from the possibility of feeling something much worse (like honest rejection). If this guy is avoiding you, he could actually be engaging in Piscean flirtation (If you love me, you will catch me, and keep me, and memorize what each of my scales tastes like, cause that's what I will do for you).

Getting him alone and striking up a conversation should really tell you what is going on. If he's just nervous, that's fine, be gentle and he will warm up. If he continues to avoid you, he's either not interested, feels you are into him, and unsure of how to deal with the situation. Or, he's more into the thrill of being chased than the actual work involved in getting to know and love someone.

Advise: Dating a Pisces who is not emotionally available, is like buying dinner just to smell it. Most of what Pisces has to bring to the table is based on their emotional availability. Without it, they are just a pretty face who curls up in a ball and cries after sex. Unless that's your thing LOL =)

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posted December 16, 2011 01:44 AM            

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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:
I really don't buy any of the shy-Pisces guy stuff, at all.

I've been mixed up romantically to some extent with TWO guys that had their moon in Pisces. Like someone said above this post - like any other sign, when they're interested, they'll hit you over the head with it and make it REALLY obvious, either by flat-out showing with words that you mean something to them, or setting aside time to be with you, or both.

No guy who is interested in someone, runs the other way when they see them. Period. Even if they're really shy, they won't run from you because they're into you and being around you makes them feel GOOD and who would run from that feeling? If he's running it's because for whatever reasons he just doesn't want to be around you, or something you said or did made him decide to keep his distance from you.

And I'm not putting it like that to hurt your feelings, I honestly don't want to, but I think a little reality needs to be injected into this convo before you actually do something like go out and keep trying to interact with this guy when he may not want it, and accidentally cross a line and invade boundaries you shouldn't.

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Can i just say that i really liked that last paragraph, i thought it was perfectly blunt, articulate, very respectful and exactly the advice i've been telling myself through my analytical virgo moon but haven't been able to actually apply to myself.

so i'm interested in a pisces moon - who has been giving me the eyes, tripping over stuff when he notices me, etc. - who will sidestep me if we accidentally turn a corner and just about physically run into each other, but who hangs outside of my work (yes he works very nearby, but there are chairs on the completely other side, there's absolutely no reason for him to be where he goes, except to look into where i work because it's the only open window that faces there) and he also keeps turning up where i go. i've hit on him numerous times and there's absolutely no doubt in my mind that he knows i'm interested in him - pisces to pisces telaphy alone. he's actually acting the way i normally do (shy as hell, awkward, etc.)so i feel like i get it. i get caught up in the whole fantasy of the thing (like whoever was discussing that) instead of facing the reality, so i'm not sure if he's doing that or if he's not interested in me, but is just intrigued by my pursuit of him. (he's a scorpio mars, so you know stalking is the norm hehe)

i've currently been doing the whole tap on the glass and then giving him space and that was when he started showing up where i go, as i started to avoid the places where we'd been routinely running into each other for the last few months or so. that's not as creepy as it sounds i swear, i mean choosing to work in the same area as him instead of a different location altogether, not following him to coffee shops.

so this one time (while we were in our "routine")his friend comes up to me at a show and goes without any provoking whatsoever, in fact only after "hey, how's it going?"....says: "so i was talking to _____ and we were saying how we hadn't been to a good dance party in a while?"
WHAT THE HELL?!?!

also, the person who said this has always rubbed me the wrong way and we aren't friends at all, in fact we don't usually talk apart from giving each other the nod, but i've known her brother (who is really good friends with the pisces moon i'm talking about) for years.

But still, he's super awkward around me if we get put in a situation where protocall would normally say that we'd say hi and chat for a second or two. ahhhh!

posted December 16, 2011 01:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
I have Pisces ASC and I can relate to this, I do it too. I get frustrated with myself. If I like someone they're all I can think about, but the fantasy is way nicer than the reality in the sense that if I really like them, I feel way out of my comfort zone. I tend to prefer to be alone where no one can hurt me, and just keep fantasising about them, obsessively! Not logical, no. Very impractical yes, but it's just what Pisces do. Don't take it as disinterest. I would call his bluff, like "fine then, if your'e not gonna make the effort then neither will I" and mean it, and watch him swim back!

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Pisces ascendent as well, reading this was like a checklist, yup i do that too, and that...and that...and that. It IS so impractical and illogical, and i always can't believe myself afterwards but i keep doing it *sigh* This is why i'm not sure if he's doing the same to himself after he avoids me.

posted December 16, 2011 10:58 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:

i'm dying to run into our mutual friend and talk to him about it and just go "hey, so what the **** is up with ____? he knows i'm interested in him and he knows where he can find me but i'm tired of making an ass of myself, if he is intersted then it's his turn to put some damn effort in!" mwhahah i don't want to scare him though.

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posted December 16, 2011 11:22 AM            

Yeah, i've been trying to leave the ball in his court....but i am a sag mars, i like the chase.

posted December 16, 2011 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
note: i haven't actually had that conversation with our mutual friend - i would just like to have it.

Yeah, i've been trying to leave the ball in his court....but i am a sag mars, i like the chase.

oh god no i NEVER enter into forced relationships. i just can't do it, so much so that sometimes i even wish i could.

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