posted December 14, 2011 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ lol but shy guys do.

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posted December 14, 2011 04:53 PM            

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Pisces - Mimic the movements of a fish in a bowl.. First you stare at Pisces.. When Pisces "taps on your bowl".. you immediately run away to the furthest point of the room.
This convinces Pisces that it is safe to be friends with you, because you are even more paranoid than they are.

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posted December 14, 2011 04:54 PM            

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avoiding you sounds a bit neurotic after the age of 20 or so.

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posted December 14, 2011 05:00 PM            

I remember, we both caught each others eye after we has known each other awhile, it was when our love was getting very deep.. and I will never forget that gaze. Had true love written all over it.

posted December 14, 2011 10:40 PM            

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Originally posted by cancercaite:
i know it seems utterly ridiculous to think and i can hardly believe it myself but i can see it in his eyes, he has liked me for several years, it first became apparent 3 years ago. his behavior around me was just off.. he doesn't seem to run away from anyone else and he does it in such an obvious way kind of like an immediate reaction to seeing me. i don't think it will amount to anything because he is just too scared. although i'm reluctant to say this in case you think i'm too immature to know anything i am actually under 20 years old

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One thing people don't often discuss is Pisces's dark side. Just as Cancer can snap your face off when you approach at the wrong time, and Scorpio will lock their self in the basement with a voodoo doll and a lock of your hair, Pisces can be an emotional adrenaline junkie. In some cases the chase may even be more interesting than the actual catch. There can be situations where Pisces folks stir and build up their own emotions around a particular situation just to make it more thrilling or dangerous than it actually is. The bored (and Aquarius or Aries driven) Pisces can find walking down a dark alleyway at night quite a rush, though they may never own up to it. On an unconscious level these types of Pisces folks may build emotional drama around certain situations to protect their self from the possibility of feeling something much worse (like honest rejection). If this guy is avoiding you, he could actually be engaging in Piscean flirtation (If you love me, you will catch me, and keep me, and memorize what each of my scales tastes like, cause that's what I will do for you).

Getting him alone and striking up a conversation should really tell you what is going on. If he's just nervous, that's fine, be gentle and he will warm up. If he continues to avoid you, he's either not interested, feels you are into him, and unsure of how to deal with the situation. Or, he's more into the thrill of being chased than the actual work involved in getting to know and love someone.

posted December 14, 2011 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
One thing people don't often discuss is Pisces's dark side. Just as Cancer can snap your face off when you approach at the wrong time, and Scorpio will lock their self in the basement with a voodoo doll and a lock of your hair, Pisces can be an emotional adrenaline junkie. In some cases the chase may even be more interesting than the actual catch. There can be situations where Pisces folks stir and build up their own emotions around a particular situation just to make it more thrilling or dangerous than it actually is. The bored (and Aquarius or Aries driven) Pisces can find walking down a dark alleyway at night quite a rush, though they may never own up to it. On an unconscious level these types of Pisces folks may build emotional drama around certain situations to protect their self from the possibility of feeling something much worse (like honest rejection). If this guy is avoiding you, he could actually be engaging in Piscean flirtation (If you love me, you will catch me, and keep me, and memorize what each of my scales tastes like, cause that's what I will do for you).

Getting him alone and striking up a conversation should really tell you what is going on. If he's just nervous, that's fine, be gentle and he will warm up. If he continues to avoid you, he's either not interested, feels you are into him, and unsure of how to deal with the situation. Or, he's more into the thrill of being chased than the actual work involved in getting to know and love someone.

Advise: Dating a Pisces who is not emotionally available, is like buying dinner just to smell it. Most of what Pisces has to bring to the table is based on their emotional availability. Without it, they are just a pretty face who curls up in a ball and cries after sex. Unless that's your thing LOL =)

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You are HILARIOUS in so many ways I can't count them! I laughed aloud several times during this! Thank you SO much!

posted December 15, 2011 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by cancercaite:
why is this pisces so scared of me, i know for a fact that he is interested in me yet he runs away from me every time i come near him. i cant even talk to him myself because he makes excuses not to be in the same room as me. what is going on in his head?

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posted December 15, 2011 04:58 PM            

I've been mixed up romantically to some extent with TWO guys that had their moon in Pisces. Like someone said above this post - like any other sign, when they're interested, they'll hit you over the head with it and make it REALLY obvious, either by flat-out showing with words that you mean something to them, or setting aside time to be with you, or both.

No guy who is interested in someone, runs the other way when they see them. Period. Even if they're really shy, they won't run from you because they're into you and being around you makes them feel GOOD and who would run from that feeling? If he's running it's because for whatever reasons he just doesn't want to be around you, or something you said or did made him decide to keep his distance from you.

posted December 15, 2011 05:43 PM            

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if there is ONLY avoidance behaviour and they are making no attempts to get to know you, it is definitely a warning sign that there is no real interest.

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posted December 15, 2011 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by cancercaite:
i am not merely judging by glances but it can be said that i came to this conclusion myself. it's based around conversations i've overheard accidently among other things like stalking me on facebook for example and the behavior of his friends around me, he has tried to communicate with me in the past (nothing interesting though just mundane stuff)i am open to accept that his love might not be strong enough for him to act on it or that i may have said or done something which makes him think twice. nonetheless i do find his behavior bizarre. i can understand the comment about being realistic as my writing style does make me sound spaced but i am honest with myself and i don't at all intend to push myself into his life. thanks for the comments, i will take them into account

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All this stuff still reads like guesswork to me and not anything definitive. If it were me I'd just not make any efforts to contact or interact with him in any way at this point. That way if he's not interested you aren't bothering him. And if he is, trust me - he'll come find you and make that clear.

posted December 15, 2011 05:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Xiiro - BIG for that! It's true word for word... It's always the Aries or Aqua influence that does it... usually Aries!

annaf-
This is a great point. It's true that they are very evasive but they go back and forth and play mind games.
If they are not playing with you *at all* - they might be disinterested.

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posted December 15, 2011 05:57 PM            

But you are right in saying that they don't physically run off.
Because even when I had a huge argument with my Pisces and we were not on talking-terms... if I was in his physical presence he'd stay very close to me. (& he'd try to overhear my conversations with other people)

posted December 15, 2011 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Actually Belligerent... I think I did a Pisces Mercury on this thread (not paying enough attention) - because I was taking the "running away" to be more metaphorical..

But you are right in saying that they don't physically run off.
Because even when I had a huge argument with my Pisces and we were not on talking-terms... if I was in his physical presence he'd stay very close to me. (& he'd try to overhear my conversations with other people)

The thing is they ARE under 20.... so .... I don't know.. It could still be a teenage thing - the 'running off'.

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In my experience they don't run off in any sense, literal or otherwise, if they're interested.

posted December 15, 2011 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by BelligerentPygmy:

Both of the Pisces men I knew had Uranus pretty active in their chart one way or another. If there were some truth to what Xiro says then you'd think they'd have displayed those traits at some point. Neither one did. At the end of the day a man is a man is a man and no matter what sign he is, if he's into you he'll make that blatantly clear.

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Please stop trying to make a point by discounting my posts, especially if you are not going to read the post properly. I made no mention of Uranus, and great that you walked away thinking I did, but the whole "telling people they are wrong because you see things differently" is getting old.