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Topic: Should this person be a whinger?
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anongrl10
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posted December 18, 2011 05:05 AM
  
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Thankyou for your input, what a coincidence!! The sulking I can kind of tolerate, but I like to see the good in people and have pleasant interactions with them and just, you know, love life and enjoy it and be happy. He seems to hate the world, that I can't tolerate. I'd like for him to accept that some people choose to smoke, choose to own a cat, choose to pat their dog, to listen to a certain type of music etc and to realise that their choices are none of his business!
What a loser!
I hope you dump him, girl! Just the fact that you are a happy positive person and he's a miserable old fart is enough!
Focus on the happy positive people like yourself.  IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 18, 2011 05:06 AM
Oh, goodness, I'm not that bad!! I see what you mean. I knew someone with Merc in Aries who would flip between the mindset, and then into one of real enthusiasm. Annoyed me when he accused me of being negative, when I was really in a bad way (and partially because of him), when I'd dealt with him for a couple of years, at least, being really negative and sarcastic. It's okay for him to slip in and out of it, because he's aware of it - that's his way of thinking; he will tell me that I can't blame anyone for my feelings, or for anything else, but he will blame others for his negative attitude, and/or bad behaviour, when he gets really PO'd. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 01:39 PM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
What a loser!
I hope you dump him, girl! Just the fact that you are a happy positive person and he's a miserable old fart is enough!
Focus on the happy positive people like yourself.
:-)
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mercuranian
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posted December 19, 2011 03:14 AM
If someone hated my dog that would be enough for me to say bye bye. But if they threw or hit my animal, forget about it. I would be GONE!
My ex showed signs of a bad temper, and like you I was more relaxed when he wasnt around. I felt more and more like I was beginning to walk on eggshells. If we were out for example and the bartender looked at him wrong or said something smarta** as bartenders sometimes do, I would be all nervous waiting for the other shoe to drop. No thank you. He didn't make it past the 3 month mark. He even yelled at me and berated me when I was breaking up with him. Yeah, that'll make me change my mind! He had sun and mercury in aries. I don't think aries mercury alone is all THAT bad. I have it opposite uranus to boot. I have to watch my mouth, especially after a couple of drinks  IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 19, 2011 03:39 AM
We were talking the other night and something about his ex came up and he 'accidently' mentioned that for some 'strange reason' she won't let him know what her home address is. He quickly tried to divert the topic but I heard it and it registered, I didn't ask why.IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted December 19, 2011 04:08 AM
Yikes! No bueno..IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 19, 2011 04:49 AM
Run.
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Betty Boop
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posted December 19, 2011 06:10 AM
Teasel - Your Venus is NOT Retro! I think that makes a difference. My ex Pisces has that conjunction - Venus R conj Merc in Aries... and Libreo - I think I already told you he was a huge jerk. It's up to you what you do, but I don't think you should be with this guy at all. He seems like bad news.
If someone kicked my dog - I'd throw him out then and there. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 19, 2011 06:13 AM
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Betty Boop
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posted December 19, 2011 06:16 AM
Regardes - you wouldn't kick someone's dog.
He seems violent. This is not Cancer-Moon-ish ....
It's more like Aries gone wrong!IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted December 19, 2011 06:36 AM
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scrappydog
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posted December 19, 2011 06:12 PM
Taurus Asc is no whiner, they are strong, steadfast people who can take a lot and with dignity, its that cancer moon and picses mars you should be looking at. Also moon square mercury, god these people are complaining, whining bores! I know several people with this, all with the square and they are the most miserable people and never shut up about it. The aries just brings it out more agressively so its even worse.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted December 19, 2011 06:22 PM
Regardes - I'm the same. I would get so angry it would take all I have.. to simply kick him out of my place (or leave if I was at *his* place)... rather than grab a club or something and beat the crap out of him..
I'm not at all a violent person. Normally I wouldn't lay a finger on someone.. but if they intentionally kicked my dog and made him fall-backward (so it must've been a strong kick) - OMG I would be fuming.
It's the same as them hitting myself or a close family member.. because my dog is like family to me. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 19, 2011 09:23 PM
^ Thing is, I have a small child, a 4 year old and while she's a good little girl she is still a small child and they can be annoying, so if this is how he deals with small living things that annoy him I have something to worry about. I thought Cancers loved animals. :-(IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 19, 2011 09:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Libreo:
We were talking the other night and something about his ex came up and he 'accidently' mentioned that for some 'strange reason' she won't let him know what her home address is. He quickly tried to divert the topic but I heard it and it registered, I didn't ask why.
He also has Venus in the 12th house.....secretive?IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 19, 2011 09:37 PM
1. Obv the ex is on bad terms with him if she doesn't want him to come knocking.
2. Why does he want her address anyway? You don't want to be with the type of guy that has their exes still entangled in their lives (in 'that' way)IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 19, 2011 09:44 PM
They bought a dog together and are both very attached to it so they each share access, like a custody thing with a child. They meet in a park to do the exchange, this is why we were discussing it. He lives in a place at the moment where he cannot have a dog, and I said "why can't you just go to her house and spend some time with the dog there?" that's when he dropped the info about not having her address, however they ARE facebook friends??? Weird.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 19, 2011 09:45 PM
The ex is now married with a baby, the dog is like 8 or something. Still, I do wonder why she can't trust him enough to let him know where she loves and where his dog is at.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 19, 2011 09:53 PM
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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Taurus Asc is no whiner, they are strong, steadfast people who can take a lot and with dignity, its that cancer moon and picses mars you should be looking at. Also moon square mercury, god these people are complaining, whining bores! I know several people with this, all with the square and they are the most miserable people and never shut up about it. The aries just brings it out more agressively so its even worse.
Do you think the Taurus ASC would balance that out? Trying desperatley to see some good here.IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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posted December 20, 2011 05:18 PM
Not to derail this thread, but I'm dealing with a whiner of my own.  My ex who I'm still friends with will NOT stop complaining about how sexually frustrated he is. It's been going on for weeks now. When someone complains or whines to me, my instinct is to give advice as to how to go about rectifying the situation. I don't see the point in complaining for the sake of complaining. When I ask him what he wants me to do about it, he then starts insinuating I should physically help him with his situation. (No. Thank. You.) So, he's either using his complaining as a ploy to get me to sleep with him without directly asking me OR he's just a whiner who wants sympathy. (Which I have zero of. I haven't gotten laid in more than a year. I don't wanna hear it.) He is:
Taurus Sun exact conj Jupiter
Scorpio Moon - afflicted
Taurus Mercury
Gemini Venus
Aquarius Mars
Cancer ASC I'm guessing the Cancer ASC predisposes to some whining, but I think the afflicted Scorpio Moon might lend itself to a little bit of conniving behavior.  IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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posted December 20, 2011 05:22 PM
@Libreo And I agree with everyone else up in here. This guy sounds no good at all.  IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 20, 2011 08:13 PM
I was whingeing (hehe hypocrite that I am) this morning to someone about him and she said "Is he Taurus?" I said "No Taurus rising", her hubby is Taurus (with Cancer moon) and is the same. FondueKnight (sorry if I spelled it wrong, can't see your name till I hit submit reply! Lol) do you not attribute your ex's whining to the Taurus placements? And yeah, my guess is he's hitting on you, he wants you both to 'fix' eachothers lil problem. Passive aggressive way to go about it tho, just speak up I say! That way you get to say no and he stops hinting.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 20, 2011 08:14 PM
And I spelt it right! Go me!IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
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posted December 20, 2011 08:48 PM
I've never thought of Taureans as whiners, but it seems we've found a pattern here.  Water moons seem to be another similarity.I'm like a camel when it comes to sex, so yeah it'd be nice to get some, but I'm not freaking out over it. And he's my ex for a reason -- not going down that road again.
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Libreo
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posted December 26, 2011 10:39 PM
Well I cancelled the trip away, and in retaliation he came to my home and opened my gate to let my dog out. But my neighbours found him and returned him to me.IP: Logged |
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