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Topic: Should this person be a whinger?
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Libreo
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posted December 17, 2011 07:32 PM
  
ASC Taurus
Sun Aries
Moon Cancer
Venus Aries
Mercury Aries
Mars Pisces
Male....omg stop complaining about everything and everyone! Is it just me being critical or do these placements create a negative, opinionated person?IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 12:08 AM
Anyone?IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 12:50 AM
Probably occasionally due to the cancer moon and pisces mars (water signs whinge alot lol!)
BUT his taurus asc and all that aries will tone it down. Earth signs choose to be proactive about things instead of complain, and aries finds it a waste of energy and time.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 01:16 AM
That's interesting. I thought it was the Taurus ASC? Are they not bullies? Just so opinionated! It's his way or the highway, anyone who disagrees with him is just plain uneducated! You think it's the water placements?IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 01:59 AM
Taurus are stubborn, but the whole my way or the highway is a combo of aries, taurus and cancer lol. Cancers are not very compromising at times.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 02:08 AM
Well that's just wonderful news! :-/IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 02:11 AM
How stubborn are you talking? Outspoken and opinionated are good traits (to an extent of course) but if he's really rigid, like refuses to do things unless it's his way then =/You're a libra right? You're not gonna like that at all! Lol. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 02:13 AM
cancer moons are so whiny. Is he kinda moody at times? IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 02:18 AM
Yep! Yesterday he was all quiet and a bit abrupt with his body language, I knew he wanted me to notice and to ask about it but I refused and just carried on as normal. The only thing it could have been that caused it was....he hates my dog (A LOT!) and I was cuddling my dog just prior and giving him lots of puppy cuddles. When wer'e out he just looks down at everyone, critisizes everyone and everything. He is the only person who lives life properly! Lol.IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted December 18, 2011 02:21 AM
Well let's see...the Aries Sun and Mercury might lead him to fight useless battles. And not learn from his mistakes. Does that happen...?IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted December 18, 2011 02:24 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
When wer'e out he just looks down at everyone, critisizes everyone and everything. He is the only person who lives life properly! Lol.
Reminds me of my mom, lol. She's a Pisces Mars as well...hmm, but she's more at-home about it. When we're out, she's just silly and chatty, but behind closed doors, she's all "Julie-ann does not run for an hour each day! She's such a big bullsh!tter. I run an hour a day!" IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 02:26 AM
Hmmmm, I'm not sure. Iv'e been seeing him for about 3 months but to be honest, don't know a lot about him at all. We don't talk about him we only talk about neutral stuff. I just find that when I'm away from him I'm sooo happy and relaxed and I make people laugh, but when he is with me I'm knotted up inside and permanently on the defense. He even put my friend down because my friend has a cat! That's the only reason! "What's he got a cat for? His house must smell of cat sh*t", that's pretty much how the tone is all the time. That's how he talks about ppl.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 02:28 AM
I'm so disappointed I thought this would be a good relationship! :-(IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 02:29 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Yep! Yesterday he was all quiet and a bit abrupt with his body language, I knew he wanted me to notice and to ask about it but I refused and just carried on as normal. The only thing it could have been that caused it was....he hates my dog (A LOT!) and I was cuddling my dog just prior and giving him lots of puppy cuddles. When wer'e out he just looks down at everyone, critisizes everyone and everything. He is the only person who lives life properly! Lol.
Cancer placements tend to make someone insecure, but not in the same way as a virgo might be (I'm a virgo lol and I'm not the most self assured person)
Cancer's tend to like validation ALOT (unlike virgos where we keep it more to ourselves and we don't really fish for compliments or seek validation). So he was kinda sulking cos you weren't giving him all the attention and you weren't responding to his lil 'trap' (of you know, asking him what's wrong and fawning over him' lol. Aries men can be alittle immature at times and in combo with a cancer moon, pisces mars, he's going to be the type that's kinda down on himself at times, and is not as upbeat as a sag or a leo might be. Not sure if you'll like that? Seeing you're a leo moon? I think? Leo's are pretty upbeat, I think you'll get alittle sick and drained of him. But who knows! He is still heavy in aries (so that's good) and has a solid taurus asc (so that stabilises him somewhat).
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Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 02:33 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
How stubborn are you talking? Outspoken and opinionated are good traits (to an extent of course) but if he's really rigid, like refuses to do things unless it's his way then =/You're a libra right? You're not gonna like that at all! Lol.
Well, much to my disgust he won't use deodorant or soap. He actually threw my dog this morning when it barked and jumped up at him for a pat (it's a tiny little fluffy one) and didn't even apologise, he landed on his back. He dropped the f word yesterday in the presence of my child and when I gave him 'a look' he just said it again. Someone was smoking near us when we were eating and while that's not a good thing he made the biggest most obvious performance out of it. I just said "you'll get that wherever you go", my daughter gets a 'comment' everytime she listens to music of her choice, she can't just listen to it without him giving his opinion on how 'bad' it is simply because it's mainstream, it's Justin Beiber....she's 12! Leave her alone! IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 02:36 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Not sure if you'll like that? Seeing you're a leo moon? I think? Leo's are pretty upbeat, I think you'll get alittle sick and drained of him. But who knows! He is still heavy in aries (so that's good) and has a solid taurus asc (so that stabilises him somewhat).
Yeah I'm Leo moon Sag Venus and I NEED to laugh, it's like breathing, I need entertainment to survive, not this crap! I so hope your'e right and the Aries might balance it all out. This is the guy the psychic predicted, right down to his name, that I would marry and have a child to!!! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 02:37 AM
Ew. He sounds like a loser.Come on! Hun you can do better than that -_-. You need somebody with alittle more class and refinement no? You're a libra with a leo moon? Find somebody that has more flair, acceptance of other people's flaws and isn't so crude and grouchy. He's mean to animals, judgemental of your daughter, cusses too much, puts down other people, tends to overreact, embarrasses you in public places (um who makes a big deal bc of cigarette smoke??) Sounds like you really hit the jackpot on this one! Lol. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 02:41 AM
Yes I think so too, but I really am very confused, she predicted everything that has actually so far happened, but I'm just not feeling the marriage thing, and I BETTER NOT be pregnant, her words "Be very careful it will happen very quickly"!!!IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 02:41 AM
Seeing your placements, you really need somebody optimistic, energetic, witty and creative. Somebody who has charm and KNOWS how to behave appropriately in situations.
Sag venuses also seeks somebody laid back and happy go lucky right? He sounds like he complains alot. Urgh.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 02:43 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Yes I think so too, but I really am very confused, she predicted everything that has actually so far happened, but I'm just not feeling the marriage thing, and I BETTER NOT be pregnant, her words "Be very careful it will happen very quickly"!!!
Do you feel like the relationship might improve? See the thing with predictions is that alot of it isn't set in stone... So if it's not going that brilliantly, and you're not happy with him, you actually don't need to get married to him later on. You have free will to choose sb else.
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Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 03:02 AM
I don't know, as you saw in my other post we are going outback for 10 days next week and it seriously is my dream come true, I can't actually believe I'm going to finally do it. And in my relationship experience, it's the first time Iv'e been with someone who just says "ok lets do it", anyone else would find reasons why it's too hard. I do like that. My kids love him, it's just these past 2 days he has driven me insane with the negativity. I don't know if he's just having a bad few days, or if I'm nit picking or what. I'm now not going to see him until the day we leave so I really do need to make my mind up about this.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 03:04 AM
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teasel
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posted December 18, 2011 04:33 AM
I have Mars in Pisces, and can whine, but I also consider it a waste of time; hard to get yourself out of the mindset at times, though.I'm also an Aries Merc/Sun, and if he's more open, then he might just be more honest about what he's thinking/feeling. I admitted earlier, that I was sulking, and it made the person who asked me what I was doing, laugh and say, "at least you're honest." IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted December 18, 2011 04:45 AM
Thankyou for your input, what a coincidence!! The sulking I can kind of tolerate, but I like to see the good in people and have pleasant interactions with them and just, you know, love life and enjoy it and be happy. He seems to hate the world, that I can't tolerate. I'd like for him to accept that some people choose to smoke, choose to own a cat, choose to pat their dog, to listen to a certain type of music etc and to realise that their choices are none of his business! IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted December 18, 2011 05:01 AM
lol he needs to lighten up lol! Sounds kinda petty and needs to chill. IP: Logged |
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