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Topic: How has the depth and passion of pluto in relationships transformed you?
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Kafka Knowflake Posts: 29 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 09, 2012 01:31 PM
I met someone recently. Sun trine Sun Moon trine Moon Venus conjunct Pluto and Uranus Mercury conjunct Pluto and Uranus Mars conjunct saturn. I can't seem to take him off my mind. But I think I am theone who's obsessing with him :-( IP: Logged |
birdy Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 09, 2012 08:10 PM
Double whammy Venus sq Pluto in synastry and composite. I want to be a better person for him. I feel myself changing without him wanting me to. I've become softer, and more devoted than I've ever felt. I am completely devoted to us. I don't want to make the same mistakes in the past. I feel myself constantly shedding in ways Im use to being.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 1852 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 09, 2012 09:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by birdy: Double whammy Venus sq Pluto in synastry and composite. I want to be a better person for him. I feel myself changing without him wanting me to. I've become softer, and more devoted than I've ever felt. I am completely devoted to us. I don't want to make the same mistakes in the past. I feel myself constantly shedding in ways Im use to being.
Wow, that's powerful, hun.
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Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 177 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 13, 2012 12:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: They say pluto in relationships means holding on so tightly for fear the other person doesnt care that u destroy the relationship. So, that makes sense. I wrote about this in my tumblr once, and it was in reference to/inspired by all my pluto relationships definitely:The people you care about most it’s hardest to show how much you really care, it’s hardest to be vulnerable around, it’s hardest to even be yourself around. But still you feel the most yourself around, and the most vulnerable around, and like they can understand you better than anyone else, and without the need for words or explanations. You’re not even sure why you love them, you’re only sure they’re endlessly cool no matter how many faults they have or how many blonde moments they get. When they say something sweet, your gut reaction is to act indifferent, like you don’t really care all that much and that your heart isn’t jumping for joy and having a party. When they hug you close or look in your eyes lovingly, your immediate reaction is to reject them or not show as much emotion as them. But, if it’s someone you don’t care about as much, who you know you could probably live without, you can look in their eyes all day, respond with buckets of sweetness whenever they tell you something nice, and flirt all you want. But true love is patient. It takes its time. It doesn’t rush. It builds trust slowly. It gives many second chances. It always forgives, and builds a friendship first. It endures pain, and always believes the best about the other person. Sometimes the relationships where two people love each other the most are the most filled with problems all because of fear of rejection.
I happened to read back on this post once again...and what you said there, was absolutely beautiful. First time I read it, it was beautiful. 5 times later, still beautiful. There's lots of scary things out there about pluto. Especially when involved in relationships....selfishness, control, abuse, manipulation..etc. But what happens when Pluto falls in love? Then it's really a different story. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 1852 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 13, 2012 03:49 AM
Awww . Thank you so much!! What you wrote now is really beautiful, too! I am glad someone understands...
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