posted December 23, 2011 01:35 AM            

I have this libra "friend" and I'm a little peeved with how she has been treating my good Leo male friend. He likes her, so they were "talking". And she completed f****** it up of course I snapped at her. She did the most immature thing anyone could do!

she called him on Monday evening and he answered and asked "who is this?" and she hung up and his response "enraged" her. she told me, "Howww dare he!!! He forgot about me? What a prick! f him!" and he was genuinely sorry! I totally understand both sides I understand his: the connection was off and yes some people sound very different on the phone compared to in person! I have to ask "who is this?" with my Gemini friend cause he sounds completely different. my Leo friend (the one in this topic being mentioned) his mother called him and he asked "who is this?" because of the bad connection. back to my story, basically libra in order to "get back at him" she decided to ignore him! instead of being mature IMO and just clearing things up she really f'd the situation up. She ignored him he called her every day, message her asking if he did anything wrong and if they could talk about it but she kept ignoring and getting pleasure in it. He got really ****** off because he knew what she was doing. And now that he knows what she is doing he's not even bothering anymore he warned her "let's talk about it or I'm gone" she ignored him! in her words "I wanted to see if he would chase me" wtf?!?!! so he pulled out and now she's wondering what his problem is and somehow I'm getting involved she thinks I said something to him. Which i did not. I did however - warn her that her game wasn't working and hell see it and be ****** and she's acting like a princess over something truly harmless. So now she's ****** off at me she thinks I ruined their relationship...

posted December 23, 2011 09:04 PM            

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she is very young.

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ya... they're all young.

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I sound like a woman hater..

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posted January 06, 2012 01:28 PM            

1.) It is because she is extremely immature.
2.)It is because she's Libra lol

Let me explain!..
With my 7th in Libs I attract Libras and Libran influence like.. well alot lol My entire extended family is pretty much all Virgo or Libra with influence in their chart of whichever one they are not. I also get TON of Libras attracted to me in school and social realms. Actually, my friends and I have laughs because alot of my friends always end up in love or in serious relationships with Libra guys!

So basically there are different ways of feeling and expressing your sun sign. Some people come into life more of 'who they're suppose to be' while others come in quite obvious that their sun sign has some 'wiggle room' that they need to grow into!

A 'balanced' Libra is all the wonderful things of good judgment, faithful in partnerships, and great at balancing situations. However, an 'unbalanced' Libra is almost the opposite. Flighty indecision, unfaithful to any particular person because the need for social acclaim -and the tendency to create a lack of balance in situations so that they can then hold the 'key' to restoring balance!

I have many stories in the personal (and merely observed) archives if you need more concrete examples. It is true that most of the 'young' female Libras I know around my age bracket (late teens to early thirties) use their energies in the more underdeveloped way.

It's interesting that you posted this because, only yesterday in class, I was wanting to be fond of this cute little innocent seeming girl in class and make friends with her -but my intuition was like "NO, no, no!" and I was like 'Why not?!' and then her necklace fell out that was Libra LOL I was like (sad face) "must be an unbalanced one" LOL Maybe this post is just confirmation to staaay awaay lol. But I am so drawn to the idea of balanced Libran energy!

The guy I like now has either a Virgo or Libra Moon... let's see which it turns out to be and how that goes!

LOL about the air sign women thing -My grandmother is Libra and my aunt (her baby sister) is Gemini... my oh my. My Gemi aunt has more money and controls the family gatherings and had the 'better' husband (balanced Libra ;-) ) and all that would just send my gma a lil crazy I think lol. My gma was constantly trying to proove herself socially and status wise in this lil bubble they had -but then she would act like she was soo much more balanced and proper then my piece-of-work aunt lol. My gma finally seems to have balanced out more in old(er lol) age. My aunt mellowed more once my uncle passed. -This Gemi aunt actually has a Libra son that is IDEAL for a 'balanced' Libra male. He made me feel so secure as a young girl (he's my older cousin); I always thought a good man would have such solid judgment like him. Low-and-behold, I find out later in life I have 7th house Libra!

posted January 08, 2012 02:10 PM            

I remember asking this question a long time ago.

There comes a time period when we fully become as are natal chart describes.

I doubt the libra described is one with there natal chart yet.

posted January 08, 2012 02:51 PM              

For example, Jesus Christ was a perfected soul so his natal chart wouldn't have applied.

Humans are set apart from angels in that we were granted free will, but if we don't consciously develop it, we are doomed to the energies that were in force when we took our first breath.

Love is also a force that can override a chart, by being at one with the source.