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Topic: This guy wants to get serious with me
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VenusDiSirius
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posted December 24, 2011 02:01 PM
  
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Delilah
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posted December 24, 2011 10:49 PM
His Pluto is in your 7H, conjunct your Uranus and Juno. He's not ready to let you go and may not be for a long time. He might see you as a little unstable, especially after you've told him that you need a few days before you see him. You challenge him even when you don't mean to and he may want to prove that he's the one in control. Your Pluto in his 5H... it's going to be doubly intense. And with Pluto in 5H and 7H control issues can't be avoided because they'll boil to the surface and burn you both. From this alone, I don't think it's possible for you to have a light-hearted, casual relationship. If you have sex, it looks like it'll be amazing. You might want to stay on top of birth control though.With his Saturn conjunct three of your personal planets, he definitely wants control in your relationship. Other than instances like this, does he want to do the things you want without imposing on how and when? IP: Logged |
Delilah
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posted December 24, 2011 10:58 PM
Oh, I read somewhere that if a man's Moon conjuncts his Pluto all of his relationships will be intense. He'll either attract drama or cause it. I know a guy who has this and none of his ex-girlfriends are sane. Even his one night stands are certifiable. He always wonders why he can't find a more stable woman when his flings are over.But with the guy you're talking about, it looks like he's the one with issues. You might bring this out of him, but so would anyone else he's interested in. With Ceres placed between his Moon and Pluto, maybe this is the only way he thinks he can prove that he cares? If it isn't intense, he may not think that it's real. IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 25, 2011 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by Delilah:
Oh, I read somewhere that if a man's Moon conjuncts his Pluto all of his relationships will be intense. He'll either attract drama or cause it. I know a guy who has this and none of his ex-girlfriends are sane. Even his one night stands are certifiable. He always wonders why he can't find a more stable woman when his flings are over.But with the guy you're talking about, it looks like he's the one with issues. You might bring this out of him, but so would anyone else he's interested in. With Ceres placed between his Moon and Pluto, maybe this is the only way he thinks he can prove that he cares? If it isn't intense, he may not think that it's real.
this and you add venus opposition pluto. I have noticed that often venus opposition pluto either repress their pluto as much as possible and turn to rituals instead or have difficulty expressing the pluto energy in a balanced way. Edit:
Both aspects reinforce each other and result in either repression or difficulty expressing pluto energy in a balanced. Self Awareness with practice can perfect expression of pluto energy. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 25, 2011 03:04 AM
Yeah I can see the major control issues between us... Its actually putting a stop on everything... I think its too much.. So much that it wont seem to really even go anywhere, because.. Im not going to let him control me.. Synastry wise his
moon conjunct my pluto,
his venus opps my pluto
his saturn conjuncts my Sun,Moon,Mercury.. He wants the control, but Im not giving up the power... So no-one is getting anything.. Today he told me I dont understand you, WHY wont you just come and see me.. I said because I already told you in a few days! So why keep asking..
Im getting annoyed with the fact he keeps asking me, when I told him in a few days...
To be patient.. IDK that Aries Venus is like NO NOW! lol... Now just doesnt work for me...
If he keeps asking me over and over again.. Im going to cut him off again, and forget about it... I shouldnt have to explain myself over and over again...
He thinks he can convince me to change my mind.... LMAOFFFF...
Now thats hilarious!
Maybe he should google Leo Female! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 25, 2011 03:06 AM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
You need to talk to "fish man". 
LOL... well he's upset with me... for now.. Ill talk to him next week and put on the charm.. He will forgive me.. not to worry IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted December 25, 2011 03:43 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
LOL... well he's upset with me... for now.. Ill talk to him next week and put on the charm.. He will forgive me.. not to worry
Aw... so sweet...
I hope he gets a kiss too!
 "fishmen"! signed,
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amelia28
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posted December 25, 2011 10:59 AM
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Now thats hilarious!
Maybe he should google Leo Female! [/B]
LOL  ....
pushiness is really annoying! He needs to take a good look at himself and make a big effort to adjust some of his personality traits bc he will just scare everyone away. Nobody likes someone that is that blatantly controlling and pushy, especially a Leo female!!! He is just clueless LOL
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Lioness
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posted December 26, 2011 07:05 PM
Ok I need opinions.... HELP!!! Well we talked on Sat (xmas eve) he wanted to see me, but I said no... Im not going to leave my daughter on xmas eve...
He didnt say anything, but I assume it bothered him, because well he didnt say ANYTHING.. So what ever I didnt let it get to me... So I text him today.. Saying IDK the problem I told you from the beginning it would be a few days... So why are u upset... Its said well then ok can I see you tonight.. I said yeah ok.. Im free tonight.. So should I go??? cancel??? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 26, 2011 07:15 PM
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Lioness
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posted December 26, 2011 07:28 PM
IDK.. I havent made up my mind yet.... IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 26, 2011 07:37 PM
Well,if you cancel he will be p!ssed.
If you didn't care,you would've refused him before.
So I am thinking you want to go.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 26, 2011 07:39 PM
Yeah I do.. but I just have some reservations.. I cant pinpoit it... IDK if its me or what...I feel really afraid, not in a safety way... Just afraid.. but not sure of what exactly... IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted December 26, 2011 08:19 PM
Afraid? Mighty Leo,afraid?! lolStick to your guts IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 26, 2011 08:30 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Afraid? Mighty Leo,afraid?! lolStick to your guts
YEAP!!!!! shhhhh.. dont tell a soul... Ill never "publicly" admit it... lol IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted December 26, 2011 08:49 PM
Go, girl! Go Go Go! IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted December 26, 2011 11:26 PM
I thought you were with the fish. You seemed pretty serious with fish man. Or, are you just kinda of casually dating...etc, seeing where things stack up at this point with both of them?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 26, 2011 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by FireWire:
I thought you were with the fish. You seemed pretty serious with fish man. Or, are you just kinda of casually dating...etc, seeing where things stack up at this point with both of them?
I know its kind of confusing.. See me and fishy are not dating... We are only friends.. Purely platonic and highly idolized and spiritual friendship. (way to much neptune going on)
Anyways... I have feelings for him, but he doesnt know how I feel. I wont nor cant admit it to him.. Even if he asks.. I say nope... no feelings here, Im good... (sighhh) I just cant.... I dont want to ruin the friendship, yet I want him at the same time... Sometimes I feel like I would rather have him as a forever friend, verses having lost him as a lover... Other times I feel like screw that be with me or go away... But either way Im afraid of loosing him, so we just remain friends.. I just have have to have him in my life..... I dont want him to leave my life..
Honestly we would prob kill each other in a relationship... The friendship is so deep and intense, imagine how a relationship would be.. We did go out a few times, and idk it just turned into a friendship... Now even though Im completely and totally obsessed with the guy.. Im not fool, Im not going to sit around and wait for him to realize how I feel, and then react.. Then probably reject me... So I just keep it to my self, and well here on LL...
He really really has no clue how I feel... I can hide my feelings very well IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted December 26, 2011 11:44 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Sometimes I feel like I would rather have him as a forever friend, verses having lost him as a lover... Other times I feel like screw that be with me or go away...
This sounds like EVERY Sag I've ever known and most of the Leo's I've known.
Aww. You seem so nice. Hopefully Aquaman won't drive you nuts...
...though, it is likely he will. Lol! I kid...sort if, In any case, all the best!
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Lioness
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posted December 26, 2011 11:55 PM
LOL...One would think with all that fire, I would just jump in and say it... But nahhh.. Not gonna happen... BTW... I didnt go out with the guy tonight... He's annoying me.. So IDk..... He will probably be in the history books, pretty soon IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 27, 2011 03:23 AM
It bothers me that he got upset bc you couldn't hang out on Christmas Eve bc you couldn't leave your daughter alone...I think the real thing is with pisces and you are scared of it bc is real and this is one way to keep the pisces thing from actualizing...
If your gut instincts tell you to no go out with the plutonic pushy guy then you should follow your instincts...
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RegardesPlatero
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posted December 27, 2011 03:32 AM
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Lioness
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posted December 27, 2011 08:05 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
It bothers me that he got upset bc you couldn't hang out on Christmas Eve bc you couldn't leave your daughter alone...I think the real thing is with pisces and you are scared of it bc is real and this is one way to keep the pisces thing from actualizing...
If your gut instincts tell you to no go out with the plutonic pushy guy then you should follow your instincts...
Yeah I agree.. that bothered me also.. IDK why he would even think I would go on xmas eve.. He knows I have kids.. Im not going to leave them for a date on xmas... thats low..
As for fishy... We started talking again today.. We were talked about going out. But it annoys me cuz he wants to do it like a business arrangement... Instead of just saying hey can I spend time with you and see you...
but I guess thats the difference with Cap venus verse a cancer venus.
So I told him, he has to catch up to me, if he wants to see me..
I also told him, I want your passion, and if you cant of wont give it to me.. Then so be it... and then its not worth it..
Only thing is he said nothing in return.. He didnt know what to say...
So I have no clue what he wants or what he's thinking..
He only said to me your bluntness blows my mind...
Hey leo mercury/mars for ya babeeee!!
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amelia28
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posted December 27, 2011 11:30 PM
I bet your bluntness blew his mind~! that was awesome that you did that, it took guts! and my jaw dropped a little, I am impressed.... that is sooo your leo combined with uranus in the 7th ....I bet it shocked him but he liked it! and will come back for more. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 27, 2011 11:37 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
I bet your bluntness blew his mind~! that was awesome that you did that, it took guts! and my jaw dropped a little, I am impressed.... that is sooo your leo combined with uranus in the 7th ....I bet it shocked him but he liked it! and will come back for more.
I must of hit a nerve with him, read my other post... Im rambling... and cant say it all.. IP: Logged |
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