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posted December 26, 2011 04:25 PM            

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I prefer someone to be openness with their sensitivity, even though I will be put off by it most of the time depending on how it's shown, but at least I know where they stand.

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posted December 26, 2011 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
LOL! I can be objective depends on the subject lately I've been a lot more subjective.

I'm more objective towards things pertaining to law, really, common sense type of things.
I am judge mental and I'm ok with that lol

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You are objective towards law matters because law doesn't allow you subjectivity!

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posted December 26, 2011 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:

You also have Virgo Moon... You are adorable

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Aww thank you, lovely!

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lindisfarne, I hope things will work out for you and your boyfriend, just try to take it easy and let things flow, don't hesitate to talk things out with him, I am sure he'll understand. I believe anything can be worked out if both people are willing to make adjustments, so reach out to him and hopefully he will respond in a positive manner.

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posted December 26, 2011 04:38 PM            

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seriously this is not normal! or healthy?

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I think it's pretty normal to react this way... when you don't feel like the other person appreciates you enough.
I could have this reaction towards my ex.. for instance, but I couldn't have it towards Leo guy.
I know Leo guy appreciates me and he does many positive things... so if he let me down once I could forgive and forget.

Sometimes - when you get angry and have these 'revenge'-type feelings - I think it's more about what the other person didn't DO overall in your relationship... rather than this *one* particular time that he blew you off.

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posted December 26, 2011 04:50 PM            

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Doux

Thank you. I appreciate it.
Um I just have awful tolerance.. when it comes to patience. I guess I'm insecure with it, I don't believe time is on your side I always have to adjust this and tha I'm terribly afraid if I just sit there or whatever and let things flow at times it's hard to explain. But thank you so much for your insight. The square moon got to me.

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posted December 26, 2011 05:02 PM            

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Just try to relax, okay? Things are going to be just fine, I'm sure. You will (and probably are already) learn a lot from this relationship, patience, for instance, and emotional maturity. While it may not always be easy, ultimately it serves a good purpose, that of your growth. Just take things as they come, and all will be fine. Go with the flow, it shouldn't be too difficult with a Pisces Moon/Venus

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posted December 26, 2011 05:06 PM            

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I over worry I don't really know how to stop it thinking is all I do. im working on it cause it causes anxiety for me.. it's difficult. You're right, I'm not saying you arent. I can't relax though not for too long

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posted December 26, 2011 05:10 PM            

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Do you know what causes this anxiety? Or is it just something you can't quite put your finger on?

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posted December 26, 2011 05:16 PM            

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Yeah I do know what causes the anxiety
I can't entirely get rid of it. I know that I always need a quick fix. in comes the lacking patience I hate waiting when I know there's a problem I want it to be fixed and resolved so I can go and live a sane life. I don't know how to get rid of it. Acknowledgement seems banal.

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posted December 26, 2011 05:22 PM            

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The Saturn moon aspect really intrigued me.

It's a paradox,
I feel safe and at home with him yet at the same time he makes me feel VERY intimidated.. when it comes to emotions. He's so... put together (even though I know he's not.. hes been vulnerable with me) but as the relationship continues it's funny when he asks "what are you thinking?" and wants to talk "emotionally" I can't! I feel so intimidated by him like I have to say things edit my feelings in a certain way so he will tolerate it that's just my perception of it. It's fear/intimidation but it's intriguing at the same time... He intimidates me and I know if I told him this he would be upset/sad cause he doesn't want to make me feel that way but he does unintentionally. So I hold things in and wait for the right time (mars in cancer)

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posted December 26, 2011 05:41 PM            

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Mh that's a hard one.. I understand it's difficult to deal with. If he has this effect on you now, it will probably never change, so you have to adapt yourself to feel more positive about it all. If you really feel like it's too much, try to talk about it with him, I really think it may be beneficial. You shouldn't get upset over this, but if you do, make sure to let him know even if it bothers him, that way you can both try to find a solution.

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posted December 27, 2011 05:36 PM            

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PS. I was posting this in the other thread when it was closed ^

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posted December 27, 2011 05:37 PM            

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I do like you Lindis! And I know you are not seriously trying to offend anyone.
Hope you don't get banned

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posted December 27, 2011 05:44 PM            

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^Betty, if I could e-mail you the evidence I have on lindis, I would. You wouldn't feel the same way.

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posted December 27, 2011 05:47 PM            

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Elizabeth O please e-mail me with it.
(my addy is at the top left of the page)

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posted December 27, 2011 05:52 PM            

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Sent with screenshots and everything.

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posted December 27, 2011 05:58 PM            

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I'm not recieving it Elizabeth O
here's my addy

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posted December 27, 2011 06:11 PM            

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ElizabethO - It's ok - I don't need evidence. I trust my intuition! (Pisces Merc).

I know she has posted some instigating threads - mainly about Aries and the problems she has with her mum etc..
I really don't think she means harm.. She is just blowing off steam & her communication style is kind of 'rough around the edges'. I can see why some people would take that to heart more than others though... and I know it's not really in the 'spirit' of Lindaland. People have been banned in the past for similar reasons.

I don't personally have an issue with her posts though! I have friends who are similar to lindis in RL, and I also have friends who could never get along with those ^ friends LOL

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posted December 27, 2011 06:14 PM            

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besides,she is young...!

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posted December 27, 2011 06:17 PM            

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I was thinking along the lines of Betty and Venus. I didn't realize how young she is, and I also know that I've been more irascible over the past year. I've certainly offended a few people (elsewhere, if not here), without meaning to.

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posted December 27, 2011 06:35 PM            

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We don't even know if she is a he or how old they really are. I'm being serious. Google her photobucket username: http://i910.photobucket.com/albums/ac302/lights001/

You'll find everything you need, under multiple usernames, assuming both male and female personas. Their personal photo under that username is everywhere under many different names - two being a male asking if everyone thought she looked cute. If you dig further, you'll see that the writing style is specifically like her/his own on this site. Look for the one that is specifically by "Moogy Rod" where s/he mentions a Capricorn boyfriend three days ago OR where s/he posts about breaking up with their girlfriend... Then goes on to ask why her Capricorn boyfriend is clingy... I have all a screenshot of all her posts.

Lalalinda and Randall can make their own decision at this point.

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posted December 27, 2011 06:40 PM            

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I won't google,I never go beyond what poster had put up.

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posted December 27, 2011 06:42 PM            

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I read a lot about Pluto aspects in synastry the whole power thing... I know his Pluto squares my sun and mercury. We are sensitive to each other. Most of the time especially lately I feel like I can't always really truly express myself emotionally because he's so serious etc I feel like I can't always express my feelings etc... I try to and it's always his main mode - "I'll fix it" nothing needs to be fixed... :/ sometimes I'm hesitant to really be raw with how I feel I find I subconsciously have to edit things because he's a serious guy and for some reason suppresses his true feelings and need to be intimate with me. His intimacy is very sporadic I sense he wishes he wants to be more intimate but can't for some reason idk.

That's my take on the saturn square moon

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i have this aspect with somebody (me the moon, he saturn) and it is exactly as you describe. you are editing yourself all the time. that is what saturn square moon is about, restricting emotional behavior. at the end is good though. you mature and learn how to be less dependend, but eventually you need to move on from a person that always is censoring your emotional being. said that, sometimes they need your spontaineity, but their fear is what makes them so critical as with all aspect of saturn.

anyway, good luck, but cannot give you more hopes. mine are gone. we tried so many times and always end up hurt. my pluto conjunct his venus

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posted December 27, 2011 06:42 PM            

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I'm not recieving it Elizabeth O
here's my addy

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I sent it to your lalalinda email addy with LL. I also e-mailed Randall everything.

We don't even know how old this person is. On Yahoo! Answers, their posts were from around year ago, but she claims she's 19. If she's 19, she'll be 20 this coming birthday yet she stated that she was 17/in high school in two of her posts on Yahoo! from a year ago...

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posted December 27, 2011 06:49 PM            

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ElizabethO - As far as we know on here (and I do believe her because I'm not going to be skeptical beyond the realms of normality) she is almost 18.... Everyone is ONLINE these days - but in particular teenagers. Everyone has multiple accounts.. Everyone has photobucket - facebook - twitter - what not... My cousin who is 15 is online 24/7, usually on her Iphone. Wherever she is - she checks FB.
Everything kids used to do offline - they now do online..
So what if she assumed a male persona and asked people whether they thought she was pretty?
Is this really a weird thing to do for an 18 yr old girl?

There is no reason for you to look her up everywhere... What is the point of you doing this?

I mean if she does get banned on LL based on her behaviour here - then so be it.. That's up to the mods.
Overall she has also made some good & interesting threads. It wasn't all instigating material.

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