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Topic: Devastating Break-Up
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Starry~*
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From: New York, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 03:31 PM
  
I made some edits in my previous post if you wanna read back heh sorry!IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted December 28, 2011 03:34 PM
I personally like h12 connections, with my ex his sun felt in my 12th and my sun felt in his 12th....my mom did not approve of the relationship.....This was a very karmic soulmate relationship and it took me 4 years to move on and get involve with someone else. I learned about letting go and not getting overly attached and loving in a more detached manner. Till this day I know when he is thinking of me and he knows when I think of him. 12th house placements are very psychic. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted December 28, 2011 03:38 PM
Venus, you make me smile!  * I just noticed something, don't know if it's been pointed out, but transiting Uranus is right on their composite Descendant, and opposite Venus. That explains the break up, I think.
As for planets in the 12th.. It's a deep connection, but apparently people get scared because it feels too vulnerable, and those who are not ready to open up usually freak out and want to run.
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VenusDiSirius
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From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 28, 2011 03:44 PM
The reason H12 connections are tricky is that one never knows what planet tackles in there...!
You may awake new,better person,or monster.No wonder she reacted with defensiveness. She is immature and hurt,by past experiences.
You know when weak,and cornered and instead if fighting back or facing it,you lash out on the one who loves you,because it is easy substitute? One lost control/dignity and needs to regain upper hand? Very immature.
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VenusDiSirius
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From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
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posted December 28, 2011 03:50 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Venus, you make me smile!
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I just noticed something, don't know if it's been pointed out, but transiting Uranus is right on their composite Descendant, and opposite Venus. That explains the break up, I think.
Oh,a good one!! The best thing with Uranus is so pleasantly lesson-less. Just,'up/down' go there,not here,end it,change it,house down,new house up... Uranus is great IP: Logged |
Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 398
From: New York, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 03:57 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
I personally like h12 connections, with my ex his sun felt in my 12th and my sun felt in his 12th....my mom did not approve of the relationship.....This was a very karmic soulmate relationship and it took me 4 years to move on and get involve with someone else. I learned about letting go and not getting overly attached and loving in a more detached manner. Till this day I know when he is thinking of me and he knows when I think of him. 12th house placements are very psychic.
Very good point Amelia!! That makes me scared of Uranus...lol especially the transiting uranus.. Also, another thing I wanted to add was...their composite chart is all one sided??? Like everything just fell STRICTLY on the western side of the chart. Theres absolutely no planets what so ever on the eastern part..except Chiron. Perhaps once I get home I'll do one with asteroids and upload it to see what you guys think. They have composite sun in the 12th..I have that with my bf too..but we have Sun conj Pluto in the 12th (dear god I'm already feeling nervous lol). They do have venus in the 1st..which is probably why after a while we realized that they were a loving couple, or seemingly a loving couple. They had composite pluto/saturn in the 2nd house...would that suggest the reason why SOOOO much money was spent when my friend was with her? Just for reference - my friend admits he had spent more than $70,000 on her for the 3 years they've been together. Honestly, I think he is downplaying it because he knew I would freak out if he told me the REAL number. He said he wasn't able to save his money. He planned on buying a house in a really nice neighborhood and move there with his family...but because he started a relationship with her for those 3 years he wasn't able to save towards the house at all. IP: Logged |
FireWire
Knowflake Posts: 370
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 04:42 PM
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Originally posted by amelia28:
I personally like h12 connections, with my ex his sun felt in my 12th and my sun felt in his 12th....my mom did not approve of the relationship.....This was a very karmic soulmate relationship and it took me 4 years to move on and get involve with someone else. I learned about letting go and not getting overly attached and loving in a more detached manner. Till this day I know when he is thinking of me and he knows when I think of him. 12th house placements are very psychic.
I agree, they are very psychic placements. It was definitely the very first thing I noticed with the charts posted--all of the 12th house synastry activity, esp. venus. I've had someone's moon fall in my 12th. Very open with how I felt, though I didn't always have to say much (mercury there also, which is challenging). 12th house synastry feels very otherworldly to me. This story sounds pretty awful, though. I'm so sorry this has happened to your friend. I hope he eventually finds someone who deserves his love, loyalty and affection. I really don't like reading accounts of love that are like this. But then I remember I can't judge, I don't know what lessons these two souls have agreed to this go around.
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