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Topic: pluto is pretty sneaky
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curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 29, 2011 02:00 AM
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posted December 29, 2011 02:03 AM
I would take that to mean he was preoccupied when text was sent then forgot to respond.....which translates to He's Just Not That Into You.And this doesn't just apply to Pluto. IP: Logged |
Coffee Knowflake Posts: 2242 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2011 02:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by curiouswoman: sent text but no reply. why is that? his way of controlling? I mean pluto is obsessed in relationship. so why ignore? aspect is sun sq.pluto
Are you Pluto in this example? Telling all and sundry about the events in your relationship? Maybe you should be saying this to him, instead of a bunch of astro-excited women who use this as a problem page (with a tiny bit of astrology) Pluto is good for control. The opposite, Taurus, is more controlling than Pluto. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 5979 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2011 02:15 AM
She's asking a question. Since certain people are so concerned about why some of us hang around the boards, why do you stay here if we're all just a bunch of astro-excited women? Poor little twits that we are, can't be expected to learn anything from you or anyone else, right? Curiouswoman, don't let him get to you! Pluto is advertised as being controlling, as is Taurus. IP: Logged |
Coffee Knowflake Posts: 2242 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2011 02:19 AM
I'm giving an observation, so no need to get defensive.I'm an astrologer looking for astrological questions so I can answer them. That's why I'm here. Do you agree that it can be like a problem page, with very little astrology? Both Scorpio and Taurus are opposites, they're not the same. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 29, 2011 02:29 AM
from my experience. and what i am dealing with currently. the guy who is pluto squaring my sun reaaaally really likes me botherline in love with me. I know this. i have feelings for him but because he recently broke up with his girl I need to be certain that he is being honest with me and that i am not rebound. so he does this thing sometimes where he would ignore me via text or what not. but in person he can't take his eyes off me. so in my experience from the past as well, scoprios are more obsessive than tauruses IP: Logged |
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posted December 29, 2011 02:45 AM
^ of course. Nobody is more obsessive than Scorpio. Taurus ppl say that they're happy as long as they have a full tummy and are stretched out on a recliner. IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 29, 2011 02:47 AM
loooooooooool sounds like a taurus i knowIP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 591 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 29, 2011 03:27 AM
Oh, both of 'em are crazy , though from my experience Scorpio is obsessive, inwardly plotting control, while Taurus is outwardly controlling... it is the natural ruler of the 2nd house, which rules acquirement and "assets".IP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 591 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 29, 2011 03:30 AM
Also, Scorpio represents emotional control... both inward and outward (if they are unevolved) while Taurus is more about control of "belongings", which, in their own way, means you. Either way, I wouldn't date either. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted December 29, 2011 04:12 AM
^combine the two add a bit of cap and some fire signs and u have my chart LOL!IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10422 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2011 04:15 AM
lol .... not nice Elizabeth.we are really teddy bears, i swear. Pluto in the 8th here. Not sneaky, more upfront than most people are comfortable with, usually. lol Taureans cant stand for BS even though we are "Bulls". IP: Logged |
Delilah Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2011 04:16 AM
What's his rising sign? He may just need to retreat from time to time. Sun square Pluto in synastry can make you obsessed with each other. It's not always just the Pluto person. You could become addicted to being flattered by his attention. But because the aspect is a square, be careful. Sincerely, An Astrology-Excited-Woman IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 37635 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2011 10:36 AM
Coffee, if you're an astrologer as you say you are and are looking to answer astrology questions as you claim to be, then when you don't have a question that meets your standards, it is best to keep your mouth shut and go find one to answer rather than to stick your foot in your mouth and risk me warning you. Comprende'? IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1123 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 29, 2011 10:30 PM
Delilah I don't know his rising sign HOWEVER, he replied this morning (just like i predicted) it's his way of playing hard to get like i am too busy stupid game. why with square you said be careful?IP: Logged |
Chironrising Knowflake Posts: 590 From: Chicago, IL, USA Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 30, 2011 12:27 AM
If he is an evolved plutonian, he is probably deep in thought.If he is an evolved plutonian, perhaps he is purging his response of subconcious urges to control you. One thing a plutonian would not do is cheat on you, he is painfuly afraid of std's and even more afraid of giving you one... Plutonian would only do something that drastic if A) he wasn't evolved B) on drugs - similar to the first C) being taken advantage of for a very long time with no outlet for help D)this is his first relationship - see a... otherwise you're all good.. he's probably just intensely absorbed...or occupied with something nagging his subconcious. IP: Logged |
jwhop Knowflake Posts: 6949 From: Madeira Beach, FL USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2011 12:47 AM
"Pluto is acting shady, ignoring my texts. I am sun. he squares me."Does he square you by sign only or by sign AND an orb of say 6-8 degrees or less? Be aware that the aspect...Sun square Pluto often has an element of a fight for control over the relationship...with Pluto trying to change the Sun person, which is not at all appreciated by the Sun person. Think of it as the irresistible force meets the immovable object. So, if you've had an argument or failed to do something his way, I can see Pluto ignoring you until you come around to his way of thinking...on whatever it is.
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posted December 30, 2011 05:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by Chironrising: If he is an evolved plutonian, he is probably deep in thought.If he is an evolved plutonian, perhaps he is purging his response of subconcious urges to control you. Plutonian would only do something that drastic if A) he wasn't evolved B) on drugs - similar to the first C) being taken advantage of for a very long time with no outlet for help D)this is his first relationship - see a... otherwise you're all good.. he's probably just intensely absorbed...or occupied with something nagging his subconcious.
This all comes down to: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.Curiouswoman, if I were in your shoes, I would just throw this one back into the ocean. There are many fish. And I would also steer clear of Pluto contacts. Too much of a hassle.
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7742 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 06:15 AM
Pluto is a hassle. A big one. Huge. Tremendous.But no way in hell (haha get it) I would regret my pluto experiences. Ugh! So much passion and love that u feel totally transforms you into wanting only the best for yourself and only what you deserve. That is truth, and seeing thru the superficiality of everything so u can give urself what will really make you happy. Also, it is nice to feel so enlightened when u start identifying all this superficiality around you. Suddenly, nothing makes u passionate anymore, except for the things thatreally matter! And u start living with real purpose! I love pluto. And tell me how it doesnt change people's lives. It always does. Makes you feel ten times deeper...it wakes you up like a big electric shock and takes the lock off that cage that your heart used to be in. The only thing you have to keep in mind is that pluto relationships never last! All the insecurity an mind games is not practicalto every day life. One of u might ave a heart attack soon if u continue! Being in live and feeling tortured and insecure is not fun at all! Cant eat cant sleep can barely even move kind of thing! Wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. So u have to let go eventually because u must get off that rollercoaster ride of insecurity an pain at some point i guess. So have ur stable friends, your "lukewarm" "i love you but i'm not IN love with you crushes" and then give urself the liberty to experience the wild passionate "i cant live without you omg wtf is happening" pluto experiences while keeping in mind that they will most likely be short lived but very worth it IP: Logged |
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posted December 30, 2011 06:20 AM
Different strokes, eh. I prefer keeping things simple. Pluto only seems to help with that in the natal (by clearing out junk) but complicates in synastry.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7742 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 06:37 AM
Hmm that's pretty interesting. So pluto has never really transformed you or impacted you that much? Just kind of annoyed you? Lolol. Is that what ur saying?So interesting how two people can experience things in totally different ways, huh? I think it's because i have venus square pluto and pluto in the first natally IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5299 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 06:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: Different strokes, eh. I prefer keeping things simple. Pluto only seems to help with that in the natal (by clearing out junk) but complicates in synastry.
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posted December 30, 2011 06:46 AM
^ u talking about me?? quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Hmm that's pretty interesting. So pluto has never really transformed you or impacted you that much? Just kind of annoyed you? Lolol. Is that what ur saying?So interesting how two people can experience things in totally different ways, huh? I think it's because i have venus square pluto and pluto in the first natally
I guess if I want to change, I'd want to do so when I feel like, not because of someone else's Pluto messing with my personals. Which ironically just shows how Cappy/Pluto I am: just can't stand to lose that control!Perhaps you enjoy the intense emotions because that's what Cancer is about....seeking new emotional experiences (Cardinal Water )
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 30, 2011 07:06 AM
Since pluto moves so friggen slow, I'd only really count it if the orb was tight (say 2 degrees) anything else is just... pointless.And to the person that said plutonians don't cheat. HA! I'd say it depends on the person. Pluto square sun would have this whole power struggle and control tendency if the orbs are tight. Personally, if a guy is inconsistent and really erratic, I'd just let the guy go. Waste of time really. I think pluto is better with trines and sextile in synastry and composite. Squares and oppositions are really problematic. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 7742 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 07:08 AM
Oooh makes so much sense about the cancer thing! Bingo. But, hey, so ur really saying that pluto never touched you, really.
Not even a lil bit? ever? IP: Logged |