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Topic: Most common Aspects in Longest-Marriages
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Betty Boop
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posted January 04, 2012 12:37 AM
  
MoonFish - quote:
Well supposedly you were pretty nice to everyone except for me.
I'm sure she'll be nice to you on a different topic where she doesn't so vehemently disagree! & It wasn't a personal attack. quote:
going through some tough times in your life
I wouldn't go that far.. Maybe it's PMS. Who cares? I genuinely don't. I don't think she has done anything unusual - since many posters on here have at times been more passionate or aggressive.. It happens. As she said herself - she is human. I agree that MoonFish didn't deserve the snappy 'tone'.. even though what Lonake is actually saying - about the Moon aspects in the absence of TOB & the small sample - is correct. But it is a free world and people can do their research as they please, whenever they have the time! It would take much longer to carry out very in depth meticulous research and if MoonFish cannot be bothered it's her prerogative. I know I couldn't be bothered either. And Lonake - Most people would realize that the sample is small & that she didn't have the TOB - so it's no harm done.. because I doubt anyone will read this and think "OMG having a Moon/Saturn aspect - must the only possible way to get married". If they are that naive - it's their own problem. As I said... I'm sure it'll blow over and you guys will talk normally on other threads in the future. I hope we can all move on and discuss the thread topic... rather than discuss Lonake - since the thread will be closed if this goes on! But it's up to you  IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted January 04, 2012 12:38 AM
I actually missed the last few posts before I said that.... ^ IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted January 04, 2012 12:44 AM
I should add - before I end up in an argument myself... the PMS comment was not meant to be offensive. I personally DO get more snappy at that time of the month and I've noticed I get snappy in my LL posts as well (whereas usually I'm much calmer). IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 04, 2012 12:45 AM
@mintgirl123 - Thank you so much :]
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VenusDiSirius
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posted January 04, 2012 12:46 AM
It may be that Lonake's choice not to use many punctuation signs is intimidating 
Mint,you are Virgo,right  Come on flakes,let's be nice and ditch the HS Imagine LL going as high school...and instead of this lovely purplish pink we have bloody red... IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 04, 2012 12:48 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I wouldn't go that far.. Maybe it's PMS. Who cares? I genuinely don't.
They'd love for it to be personal,
not on my period, but ty for asking,
maybe connected to something I'm 'dealing' with they think,
or maybe my dislike for their Moon sign,
But no. Sadly, nothing that dramatic for them to hitch it onto."because I doubt anyone will read this and think "OMG having a Moon/Saturn aspect - must the only possible way to get married". If they are that naive - it's their own problem."
--It happens, but I agree ultimately their problem. She wants to keep asserting that what she found has merit, is something to be disproven . Free to disagree. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 04, 2012 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
It may be that Lonake's choice not to use many punctuation signs is intimidating
Mint,you are Virgo,right Come on flakes,let's be nice and ditch the HS Imagine LL going as high school...and instead of this lovely purplish pink we have bloody red...
LOL think we all need a *group hug* aye?
I swear, you know what really gets on my nerves? When people don't use apostrophes and say "your" instead of "you're." It's like *eye twitch mania* haha. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted January 04, 2012 12:57 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
LOL think we all need a *group hug* aye?
I swear, you know what really gets on my nerves? When people don't use apostrophes and say "your" instead of "you're." It's like *eye twitch mania* haha.
No,not group hug. That's passive aggressive IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 04, 2012 12:57 AM
@Betty Boop - Thank You, I appericate itIP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted January 04, 2012 01:15 AM
My last comment on here is - I agree Lonake, the Moon-Saturn aspects T.O.B. were not found and I admitted that earlier in the thread. However, if you want to disclaim that my personal experiences with Moon-Saturn are irrelevant than that's fine.
Hope no one thinks that I was trying to give out any bad information or make you believe something that isn't true about Long-term relationships. Thanks to everyone that appericated this thread, and I'm glad I was of some help to you :] That's all I wanted ***bye IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 04, 2012 09:26 AM
Lonake, I'm shocked that you are being so rude. I expect my Mods to keep the Peace--not disrupt it.------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted January 05, 2012 09:28 AM
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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
I keep hearing about Moon/Saturn conjunction and I cringe whenever I see it in synastry now (for myself), as I've had it several times and it always ended very badly. Saturn in hard aspect to an Aries moon can be downright disastrous; we aren't cut out for this aspect, I think. It is way too repressive for a highly responsive moon and can either crush its spirit or make it even more explosive and volatile. Another moon might benefit from it and not mind, or even feel grounded by it, but not so much fire moons probably. You will rarely have an Aries moon stay with someone who is going all Saturnine on them directly like that, it would be the equivalent of a cobra and a mongoose having it out. This is why I think some aspects which are so-called indicative of long-term marriage might not work with certain charts.
very interesting point. i suspect that moon in gemini is somehow structured by saturn. according to Morin, mercury in aspect to saturn is ok. following the logic of the ruler of the moon mercury, it may be binding or ok for a gemini moon, but not for an arian (mars ruler) moon. does it make sense? IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted January 05, 2012 09:36 AM
For a Moon-Saturn aspect in synastry it helps if the natals have something like Moon or Sun in Capricorn, or Saturn in strong aspect to Sun or Moon or even Saturn in 4th house. (though it still depends how this aspect is intervowen into the natal).But having said that I do need Saturn aspects to Sun or Moon, and I seem to even attract squares. Not easy, but I am not easy either. I contribute that to the fact that Saturn is exactly quinkunx my Moon, and though the quinkunx is not considered a major aspect, as the only aspect my MOon has it certainly feels like it is in my case.
My Venus in Capricorn probably has a say in this, too. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted January 05, 2012 09:38 AM
Long lasting marriages often have synastric aspects that repeat aspects that are natally present, and not always the eay ones.A Venus-Uranus synastry aspect can be delicious. Sizzling, electrical, unpredictable, thrilling, exciting. That seems to be true in general. But what if one of the people involved has Scorpio-Venus conjunct Saturn and Pluto and trine a Cancer-Moon, with no strong URanus or Aquarius-placements? They would still feel the thrilling excitement of Venus-Uranus-synastrym, but would they like it? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 05, 2012 12:14 PM
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
very interesting point. i suspect that moon in gemini is somehow structured by saturn. according to Morin, mercury in aspect to saturn is ok. following the logic of the ruler of the moon mercury, it may be binding or ok for a gemini moon, but not for an arian (mars ruler) moon. does it make sense?
Yes, it makes a lot of sense actually! But who is Morin?
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nordicsoul
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posted January 05, 2012 12:19 PM
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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
Yes, it makes a lot of sense actually! But who is Morin?
http://www.astroamerica.com/morin.html IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 05, 2012 12:21 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Long lasting marriages often have synastric aspects that repeat aspects that are natally present, and not always the eay ones.A Venus-Uranus synastry aspect can be delicious. Sizzling, electrical, unpredictable, thrilling, exciting. That seems to be true in general. But what if one of the people involved has Scorpio-Venus conjunct Saturn and Pluto and trine a Cancer-Moon, with no strong URanus or Aquarius-placements? They would still feel the thrilling excitement of Venus-Uranus-synastrym, but would they like it?
I don't know how well I can answer this since even though I have a Scorpio Venus, I also have a Moon/Uranus opposition and it plays out very strongly in my relationship - both of my longest-term relationships have had a Venus/Uranus conjunction (I've been Venus both times), and it's never taken away from the commitment levels - but I think it's also important to point out too that both those relationships, while having their Uranus aspecting, also have had their Saturns doing so as well - and in hard aspects. Both of them had their Saturn square my moon! So I don't know, maybe that balances it out? Incidentally, both guys also had/have strong Uranian tendencies.
I would probably think that if someone didn't have Uranian traits, then they would NOT be digging those aspects, esp if there's not Saturn to 'balance it out'. But even if there were...Uranus hard aspects are like jolts of lightening, striking when you least expect them! Delicious during courtship! Scary during the transitional stage into commited relationship, because you never know what you're going to get lol
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Ceridwen
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posted January 05, 2012 12:32 PM
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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
I would probably think that if someone didn't have Uranian traits, then they would NOT be digging those aspects, esp if there's not Saturn to 'balance it out'. But even if there were...Uranus hard aspects are like jolts of lightening, striking when you least expect them! Delicious during courtship! Scary during the transitional stage into commited relationship, because you never know what you're going to get lol
Exactly.  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 05, 2012 09:31 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Lonake, I'm shocked that you are being so rude.
Be shocked if you wish!
I had my valid points and I made em. No apologies.IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
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posted July 13, 2013 08:04 PM
What about if someone (aquarius sun) has both Uranus and Saturn in the 7th house and their partner's (moon in aquarius) Uranus perfectly conjuncts their Saturn? Uranus aspects almost all of each others planets (easy aspects) BUT has hard Saturn-mercury and venus/moon/mars squares to Neptune? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted May 10, 2016 02:37 AM
Bumping coz I found this thread pretty entertaining 😂😂😂IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 10, 2016 11:21 AM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
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