posted January 02, 2012 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I've loved many guys (around 5 in total), but i didn't choose to be with them because they had some certsin way of being that i didn't feel would mske me happy. Yet, I still loved them very much, and still thought of them often. I think cancer and virgo stay together because they dislike change, not because they are truly happy. Cancer and virgo are both clingy and needy and so i think they would be last to break off any relationship they're in with any sign. I probably would've stayed with the virgo guys i've been with if i weren't so young...and i would've been happy even though i was bored. But i would've been happy just because cancer isn't an independent sign and likes to have companionship at all times. So i probably wouldve sacrificed passion for stability and security. I would've done that if they didnt eventually have to move away, because i resist change, and bc i was already emotionally attached, it wouldve been too unncomfortabe to let go, so i just wouldve avoided the fact i would miss them if they left and stayed with them. But i feel that libra makes me feel alive, something virgo doesnt do. Aries is also passionate, but i think libra is better. Virgo understands my needs way better and can meet them 100% e..but i'd rather try to compromise with a libra who can be my best friend as well as my lover than be bored with a virgo who i could never be best friends with.

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Woah! 5. I've only loved one guy out of them all. I originally thought I loved one of my cappy exes, but realised afterwards that it wasn't love.

posted January 02, 2012 07:53 AM            

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Just curious again: have the Libras that you've liked had Venus in Libra as well?

And the Virgos that you've found unappealing: do you know their Mars or Venus signs?

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I've only really liked two libras, and they had the same birthdate. One had moon in scorpio and the other moon in sagittarius. I'm moon in leo. They both had venus in virgo and mars in aries. (i love venus or mars in aries sooo much!) I also like venus or mars in capricorn and taurus for some reason. Venus in virgo is awesome because it's shy and sweet and i love shyness...but i hate mars in virgo bc hey hold back their passion. Mars and venus in libra never interested me much...too passive.

There was a libra who liked me very much, but I didn't like him. He had moon, mercury and mars in virgo and venus in leo.

The virgos I loved but was bored with:
One had moon and mars in libra, and mercury and venus in leo.

Another had sun and mercury in virgo, moon in pisces, venus in leo, and mars in libra.

And the other one had moon in capricorn, mercury in virgo, venus in leo and mars in libra as well. That one was probably the one I had the most fun with, maybe due to his ascendant which i have no idea what that was. It was probably in a fire sign as he was really high energy and enthusiastic.

posted January 02, 2012 08:11 AM            

".. its like you told me once,
if we never saw each other again
it wouldn't make a difference

you didn't say it wouldn't matter
you said.. it wouldn't make any difference

and did you know i understood the naunce?
it was so long ago.. but did you know?"

..it seems she believes (I too) that its a pretty difficult match, although there is more than enough love flowing in both directions..

posted January 02, 2012 10:27 AM            

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Forgot their names... but the woman is the cancer

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posted January 03, 2012 01:41 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I guess it wouldn't make any difference because the love would never fade?

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posted January 03, 2012 02:20 AM            

Aries: A lot of attraction (I'm Libra Rising), but usually nothing in common. Different interests and our meetings tend to be ill-timed.

Capricorn: A lot of sexual tension, but I've only hooked up with one. Very attentive, but also aloof. It didn't really foster within me a romantic or amorous sentiment towards him. We remained friends after a brief summer affair.

Virgo: Dated two. Very different results. One was dramatic and intense. Ended badly, and lasted far too long. The other was passionate and exhilarating - a breath of fresh air. Only lasted a few months, but we're still friends after all these years. Interestingly, they were born only 4 days apart... The first was an Aquarius Moon, the second an Aries Moon.

Libra: I have quite a few close Libra friends (I'm also Libra Moon), but we don't seem to have an attraction for each other. We have similar temperaments and interests, but there's just no spark. It's more of a kinship.

posted January 03, 2012 02:27 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ooh you are a cancer, and ur asian too, right?

Thank you for sharing. That actually made me feel better about things getting boring between two non-outgoing people.

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Yessus.

I think there's a difference between stagnation and becoming comfortable in a relationship. There's nothing wrong with being comfy as long as both parties are happy. I'm just generally a sedentary person - I like to read, write, research, sometimes watch tv or a movie when my bf wants to. He'll leave for work and find me sitting the exact same spot that he left me. Some people would find that irritatingly boring. I think he appreciates that he knows where I'll be and that I'm consistent. My bf is the more outgoing one - he'll go out for drinks with the guys, gets invited to parties more often, and goes to a lot of meetings during the day. I think... we spend 75% of our time together at home, and the rest out and about for social things and dates here and there, like I mentioned.

posted January 03, 2012 09:13 AM            

they are

posted January 03, 2012 09:45 PM            

We both have diffrent drives but because the two signs are close they should be able to work together at least.

I find that Gemini-Cancer benefit the most from a parent-child relationship or even almost a brother and sister relationship.

I find I get along best with Cancer/Leo's or late cancers on the last week before the cusp.

I'm pretty grounded even for a gemini because of having plenty of saturn, so "Homebody Cancer" isn't a problem.

posted January 04, 2012 12:33 AM            

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One of the things that I appreciate most about her is that she is fairly intense with relationships (though has a very quiet outer persona--I strongly suspect that she may have a Virgo ascendant as well as having Venus in Virgo, though I don't have her birth time), but not overwhelming. She cares deeply for people without being smothering or possessive (me being Venus in Scorpio, I try to learn from her on that one!).

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posted January 04, 2012 02:07 AM            

So my virgo guys may be sensitive and not as fun to hang out with but they have real substance. They really think things deeply and feel them deeply and think about how their actions will affect their consequences, and best of all they think about the psychology of humans beings and are careful, methodical, and sensitive. I really need someone who is like that last sentence because i am so sensitive, shy and complex being a cancer sun. They may try not to care about emotions, but in the end they are just as emotional as i am and they probably cant ignore their emotions for long.