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posted January 02, 2012 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wanted to make a thread about how square sign relationships often result in torrid love affairs where the partners can't get enough of each other, but where a lot of work has to be done for needs to be met successfully. I've always been attracted to virgo, aries, and libras. But with Virgos I always felt something was definitely missing: like passion.

This is my experience with cancer's compatibility with the signs:

•Cancer-totally similar. Can have a close bond, but in the end will not have that much fun together, They are both too serious
•Taurus-one word: boring, and they are too stubborn/domineering
•Gemini-good, but they do not have the same drive as us and are not as introspective or romantic
•Aries-passionate, very very fun. But it's lacking a few things. Mainly aries is too "in control" all the time. Not romantic/sweet/feminine enough. Sex is great though.
•Virgo-soulmate feeling. So similar! Strong attraction! But a tad boring, and we need someone who wants to get out of the house so we dont both stay in all the time. And the romance isnt really there, no sparks. Lots of sweetness, no excitement. "I could take you or leave you" feeling. Sex is sweet and affectionate..but the passion is totally missing.
•Libra-Really, if you haven't experienced this yet, you should. Most love and passion i have ever felt for anyone. They are like all the good qualities of aries, minus the bad qualities. They are not as sweet and dedicated as virgo, but it's enough, plus they have the manliness and excitement and fun that aries gives us. Sex is beyond amazing! Soulmate feelings, "I don't know what I'd do without you" feeling, love like no other.
•Pisces-Sweet, but not that much sexual attraction and i feel as if i am drowning in "watery emotions"
•Scorpio-similar feeling as pisces. We understand how the other person works, but no chemistry, no spark, very little attraction, and no passion. Plus, they are kind of cold and mean.
•Capricorn-slightly more passion and attraction than pisces and scorpio definitely. But they are too dry, monotone, workaholic, unimaginative, and coarse for us.
•Leo-extremely self-centered. You will get tired of being their slave. Very arrogant as well. They are totally full of themselves though it may not be obvious at first. They will also not accept any criticism and they will never ever want to compromise. Sweet bond between them but it is a nightmar
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•Aqua-strong intellectual and emotional connection but very difficult to get along when it comes down to it. You will not appreciate each other in one way or another. There are a lot of differences that require a lot of good communication and hard work, but i velieve the bond just isnt strong enough for both pol to be willing to put in the necessary work. Libra and Cancer, however have the passion to want to work things out despite the differences, and even gemini and cancer have more passion than aqua and cancer.
•Sagittarius- they are so casual and private about their innermost feelings. Not much chemistry or passion. Their drive is very low energy compared to urs as they are a mutable sign. You will nag them as being wasteful, lazy, and unemotional. They also have strong egos and have a hard time taking criticism similar to leos though nowhere near as bad thankfully.


Now, after having so many passionate encounters with libras and aries, and so many sweet and affectionate but passionless flings with virgos, I decided to look up pictures of cancer-libra Vs. cancer-virgo couples. My prediction would be that cancer-libra would look totally in love and very happy, which is what I felt when i was with libras, and Cancer-Virgo would look bored, stiff, and somewhat affectionate...but indeed very bored. To my surprise! this is exactly what I saw. Let's compare...


Testimonials of cancer-libra couples. Note how many times they said it was the "most intense they've ever had" and that the sex was great.
http://www.compatible-astrology.com/cancer-man-libra-woman.html

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posted January 02, 2012 05:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's start with the cancer-libra couples


Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson





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posted January 02, 2012 05:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Brandon Routh (Libra) and Courtney Ford (Cancer)






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posted January 02, 2012 05:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 02, 2012 05:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I wanted to make a thread about how square sign relationships often result in torrid love affairs where the partners can't get enough of each other, but where a lot of work has to be done for needs to be met successfully. I've always been attracted to virgo, aries, and libras. But with Virgos I always felt something was definitely missing: like passion.

This is my experience with cancer's compatibility with the signs:

•Cancer-totally similar. Can have a close bond, but in the end will not have that much fun together, They are both too serious

[b]I would never date my mirror.So no Thanks

•Taurus-one word: boring, and they are too stubborn/domineering

Agree with this one. Taurus men as possible dates are boring.
•Gemini-good, but they do not have the same drive as us and are not as introspective or romantic

Too superficial and detached for me

•Aries-passionate, very very fun. But it's lacking a few things. Mainly aries is too "in control" all the time. Not romantic/sweet/feminine enough. Sex is great though.

In the past, I hate dated 5 different Aries. The worst match for Cancer

•Virgo-soulmate feeling. So similar! Strong attraction! But a tad boring, and we need someone who wants to get out of the house so we dont both stay in all the time. And the romance isnt really there, no sparks. Lots of sweetness, no excitement. "I could take you or leave you" feeling. Sex is sweet and affectionate..but the passion is totally missing.

Never dated one but I have had some interractions with them and they were pretty cool

•Libra-Really, if you haven't experienced this yet, you should. Most love and passion i have ever felt for anyone. They are like all the good qualities of aries, minus the bad qualities. They are not as sweet and dedicated as virgo, but it's enough, plus they have the manliness and excitement and fun that aries gives us. Sex is beyond amazing! Soulmate feelings, "I don't know what I'd do without you" feeling, love like no other.

Even more superficial than Gemini. No thanks

•Pisces-Sweet, but not that much sexual attraction and i feel as if i am drowning in "watery emotions"

My true love is a Pisces. Astrology says that their are the best match for Cancer but to me it's problematic. He hides his feelings etc.

•Scorpio-similar feeling as pisces. We understand how the other person works, but no chemistry, no spark, very little attraction, and no passion. Plus, they are kind of cold and mean.

I have Scorpio rising so would be like dating my mirror. So I don't think so.
•Capricorn-slightly more passion and attraction than pisces and scorpio definitely. But they are too dry, monotone, workaholic, unimaginative, and coarse for us.

Too serious. It's like dating my Mum. She is a Capricorn and she's impossible.

•Leo-extremely self-centered. You will get tired of being their slave. Very arrogant as well. They are totally full of themselves though it may not be obvious at first. They will also not accept any criticism and they will never ever want to compromise. Sweet bond between them but it is a nightmare.

I have had several crushes on men of this sign. Johnny Depp is a Leo rising (even though his Sun is in Gemini) and I had a crush on him since I was 10. So yes.

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•Aqua-strong intellectual and emotional connection but very difficult to get along when it comes down to it. You will not appreciate each other in one way or another. There are a lot of differences that require a lot of good communication and hard work, but i velieve the bond just isnt strong enough for both pol to be willing to put in the necessary work. Libra and Cancer, however have the passion to want to work things out despite the differences, and even gemini and cancer have more passion than aqua and cancer.

I don't understand them.

•Sagittarius- they are so casual and private about their innermost feelings. Not much chemistry or passion. Their drive is very low energy compared to urs as they are a mutable sign. You will nag them as being wasteful, lazy, and unemotional. They also have strong egos and have a hard time taking criticism similar to leos though nowhere near as bad thankfully.

If they are into sports, philosophy, travel and respect space and freedom, maybe

Now, after having so many passionate encounters with libras and aries, and so many sweet and affectionate but passionless flings with virgos, I decided to look up pictures of cancer-libra Vs. cancer-virgo couples. My prediction would be that cancer-libra would look totally in love and very happy, which is what I felt when i was with libras, and Cancer-Virgo would look bored, stiff, and somewhat affectionate...but indeed very bored. To my surprise! this is exactly what I saw. Let's compare...


Testimonials of cancer-libra couples. Note how many times they said it was the "most intense they've ever had" and that the sex was great.
http://www.compatible-astrology.com/cancer-man-libra-woman.html [/B]


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posted January 02, 2012 05:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
deleted because sam mendes is a leo

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posted January 02, 2012 05:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sam Mendes is a Leo, not a Cancer.

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posted January 02, 2012 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now let's do Cancer-Virgo couples!

Ringo Starr and Barbara Bach



Forgot their names... but the woman is the cancer


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Jennifer Flavin (Virgo) and Sylvester Stallone (Cancer)

An indian couple. It's the same couple, when they were young and now when they're older

Peter Sellers (virgo) and Lynne Frederick (cancer)

Peter Sellers is doing that very well-known Virgo half-smile!



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posted January 02, 2012 05:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And the last couple..
Bryan Brown (Virgo) and Rachel Ward (Cancer)





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posted January 02, 2012 06:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And just for fun....this is an Aries-Cancer couple

Adrien Brody (Aries) and Elsay Pataky (Cancer)






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I really think you have to look at more than sun sign though? Cancer and libra may not work at first glance, but if the libra is heavy in earth and water then they will go well with cancer.

I'm a virgo and at the start, I go well with cancers, but after a while we always end up clashing. Why? I have an aries rising, and moon, venus and mercury in libra. So all those squares manifest itself after like 3 or so months.

I've dated quite alot, and have had serious relationships with several people. With cappys, no matter how much fire or air they have, we always end up clashing eventually. Even though I've dated two for at least a year and one for like 4 months.

Cancer, same thing, but one of the relationships lasted alot longer than a year. The guy was heavy in water, but had air so worked with me, we also shared the same asc.

I seem to have find Leo guys easy to handle (lol) and Aries too. I like Taurus =), esp when it's a fire sign with a Taurus moon! They just have this stability and energy! It's pretty hot.
I've never dated any scorpios seriously and not long enough (went out with two for like a couple of months each. They're not really my cup of tea lol. Too broody)

I have found from experiences that pisces guys are too flakey and wishy washy. Not really masculine so that's slightly a turn off. Aquarius are great for mental connection, but I think they're not warm enough.

Have never dated a Gemini or Sag before. I'm not that into libra men. I like fire men or earth men with libra aspects, but libra sun men just seem alittle too metro at times.

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Well, most celebrity couples never last long. They both have hectic lives and never see each other, plus have many opportunities to cheat, or at least for one of the people to become red with jealousy. Sam Mendes is actually a leo, so I deleted those pics.

I see what you're saying though. I mean, look at the Virgo and Cancer couples. All of them have stayed together mostly since they were very young, and they are still celebrities so it says something about them. As for the libra-cancer couples, I only know of Brandon Routh and Courtney Ford still being together, but I believe they recently got married anyway. And Ali Landry and Mario Lopez didn't work out. We all know Tommy Lee and Pam An is a catastrophe even though they obviously love each other to bits. As far as aries-cancer couples go, Eve Mavrakis and Ewan McGregor are still together but they have an open marriage! That means he gets to go date whoever he pleases even though they have children! Crazy. Then there's Elsa Pataky and Adrien Brody...dated for four years, they were engaged, he bought her a castle, and she ran away. I'm not saying it's perfect or anything. And I know with a virgo I could definitely last a while....with the virgos I've dated I know we could've made it...but the thing is, I'd rather try to make it work with a libra or aries where there is real passion, and real love, even though we work so differently. What I mean is very obvious from the pictures. Virgo and Cancer last a long time, but they look bored stiff. I know there's understated subtle affection and all that, but what about passion...and happiness? What about that? Laughter? Good times? It's hard for me to have that with a Virgo.

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^ you shouldn't generalise. My cancer ex and I got on like a house on fire. We weren't boring together lol.

And one should not equate passion to love.
Love encompasses alot more than excitement or giddy feelings. That's more infatuation.

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Yeah us as virgos, we only open up when we really trust you lol. So essentially we're saving all the good stuff for people we deem important. I don't just show that side with any guy. Heck no.

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My Venus and Mars are Leo so you're right on that =)

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I have always found venus in leo's way of being really grandiose and over the top (you know shouting love on rooftops for eg and proclaiming all sorts of things really trite and insincere).

With virgos, we like understated.

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I've loved many guys (around 5 in total), but i didn't choose to be with them because they had some certsin way of being that i didn't feel would mske me happy. Yet, I still loved them very much, and still thought of them often. I think cancer and virgo stay together because they dislike change, not because they are truly happy. Cancer and virgo are both clingy and needy and so i think they would be last to break off any relationship they're in with any sign. I probably would've stayed with the virgo guys i've been with if i weren't so young...and i would've been happy even though i was bored. But i would've been happy just because cancer isn't an independent sign and likes to have companionship at all times. So i probably wouldve sacrificed passion for stability and security. I would've done that if they didnt eventually have to move away, because i resist change, and bc i was already emotionally attached, it wouldve been too unncomfortabe to let go, so i just wouldve avoided the fact i would miss them if they left and stayed with them. But i feel that libra makes me feel alive, something virgo doesnt do. Aries is also passionate, but i think libra is better. Virgo understands my needs way better and can meet them 100% e..but i'd rather try to compromise with a libra who can be my best friend as well as my lover than be bored with a virgo who i could never be best friends with.

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