posted January 06, 2012 05:11 PM            

My Venus is in Scorpio...

Tr Saturn (cappy) sextile Venus- my first romantic crush- started in middle school, in which he ended up turning out to be my best friend during High School instead.

Tr Saturn (Aqua) squ Venus- still crushing on above crush but he started dating someone else- broke my heart! completely.

Tr Saturn (Pisces) Trine Venus- my first romantic relationship in High School.

Tr Saturn (aries) inconj Venus- ended my HS relationship and met the next guy I was going to date (took him a little extra time to get the hint I was interested. lol)

Tr. Saturn (Taurus) oppose Venus- started a romantic relationship with a friend- didn't date but had sex off and on for the next 8 yrs, he is still in my life and one of my closest friends 12 yr after meeting.

Tr Saturn (Gemini) inconj Venus- relationship progressed into more- it was totally unstable, him not sure of wanting to be in the relationship (but ended when Saturn was trined Venus) It went on for years.

Tr Saturn (cancer) trine Venus- end of relationship (one that started during the inconj) and the beginning of another (unstable romantically but the person is still in my life 7 yrs later) **side note- the guy the was involved with me that the relationship ended he has Transit Saturn conj Sun. He is the one that broke up with me.

Tr Saturn (Leo) squ Venus- started a relationship with a married man, that told me he was going thru a divorce. He wasn't. Lasted about 2- 2 1/2 yrs.

Tr Saturn (Virgo) Sextile Venus- met the next man I was involved with but didn't start until months later.

Tr Saturn (Libra) semi-sextile Venus- good friend from past comes back into my life, started something up but didn't go anywhere.

So, what are your stories?

posted January 06, 2012 08:44 PM            

From my experience in short:

tSaturn conjunct Venus = felt this one strongest. Tough, intense, draining, fearful, suspicious – not nice.
tSaturn oppose Venus = also a hard one. Felt abandoned, unappreciated - love slipping through my fingers . bad mood, bad temper on my side
tSaturn square Venus = not very “easy”, not at all “sexy” - but strong emotions, bordering on “stubbornness”, haha. Persistance and shyness combined.
tSaturn trine Venus = calm, soothing, stable, sincere times
tSaturn sextile Venus = inspiring – a “sexy” vibe - longing for “more” - some dissatisfaction with what is there - strong wishes and fantasies raise their head…
tSaturn inconjunct/quincunx Venus = Interesting! Always a “transition time”, in a way. Many things happening at once … vivid, lively.

Here are the stories:
tSaturn square natal Venus
I was still very young (16) – never had a boyfriend till then - and started crushing on a boy I knew from school. I adored him from afar – and thought he wouldn’t be interested in me. Actually, it was the first time I “seriously” fell in love, haha … I was very shy and insecure … but persistent. Six months later be became a couple – it was the first romantic/sexual relationship for both of us – lasted 2.5 years

tSaturn trine natal Venus
nothing special (peacefully together with my first boyfriend)

tSaturn inconjunct/quincunx natal Venus
I was in my early 20s – had a new boyfriend then, it started getting more serious at this time – it was also a serious relationship– sexually & intellectually very stimulating, but many (verbal) fights, strong ego-needs on both sides – not very relaxing (but interesting, I learned a lot and “manifested” as a woman in that relationship: it lasted 4.5 years)

tSaturn oppose natal Venus
Not nice! The relationship with my 2nd boyfriend started to crumble. We were each increasingly annoyed by the other – more tears and fights – some desperate feelings – we had a very special thing with each other … I I just saw my/our love slip away ... and couldn’t stop it. This relationship was very important for me – I could not image that I’d ever find anything that could compare to this … at the same time I wanted to get out of it. (We finally broke-up about six months later)

tSaturn inconjunct/quincunx natal Venus
Okay, now I had my 3rd important relationship. During that transit we just changed from a rather “lighthearted/easy” to a more serious/sincere relationship – we moved into an apartment together as a couple, when this transit came to an end – it was the first time for both of us, “living with someone”. (It became a marriage-like relationship and lasted 9 years…)

tSaturn trine natal Venus
Still with boyfriend no. 3 – meanwhile we had some very rough times … we had almost split the year before! But during this transit we entered into another “serious/sincerity”-stage in our relationship –it was a long-distance-relationship during this transit, due to professional reasons …. (for almost a year). It was not very romantic, but stable and grown-up…

tSaturn square natal Venus
Still with man no. 3 – we lived together again and enjoyed a calm day-to-day-live as a couple, rather stable – but a very (!) stressful time professionally for both of us during this time! Several sorrows and worries for both of us. Not at all a playful, romantic time for us – we were more like “good friends” (actually, our sex life started to suffer during this time ….)

tSaturn sextile natal Venus
Uuups … still with man no.3 – but I started to feel a bit “caged in” … I got more “flirty” (with other guys) – I never “did” something, I never cheated on my boyfriend … but I started to feel a certain impatience and wanderlust ... Slowly, but surely I lost faith in my old, existing relationship and started to “wish for more”. I felt less satisfied with the routine we had as a couple … (and I left him one year later – and was a single person then for some time)

tSaturn conjunct natal Venus
Heavy! Important! After about 3 years of being single (I liked it, several minor flirts and adventures …) I fell in love again – and I fell hard! The relationship lasted 1.5 years – it started as a long-distance-relationship – but it was like a “rotten fruit” from the beginning – very obsessive, very sexual – but also very hurting, jealousy, manipulation, control (especially from his side). The first relationship I felt as a “victim” in a way. (That started when this transit started) Many fears. A very “dark” thing. I invested a lot – but I never was really happy, rather desperate in this relationship. When Saturn finally left my Venus, I finally ended it. I just … flew from this relationship, it was a nasty ending. (I am still not sure what exactly Saturn wanted to “teach” me with this experience … I had to struggle hard to rebuild my self-worth afterwards, this took me another year ….)

tSaturn inconjunct/quincunx natal Venus
Single again – and I didn’t mind it much. I had changed the town just shortly before that transit started and was just busy to build a new life there. I was rather reluctant, as far as “flirting” or “sex” was concerned. I invested all my energy into my job etc. – and felt okay with this.

posted January 06, 2012 09:01 PM            

I'd definitely say that tSaturn inconjunct/quincunx Venus is very (!) interesting - and not so bad ... Maybe like I said in my post above: "transitory times" ..

posted October 24, 2021 08:58 AM            

Saturn squared Venus: the bubble burst! Neptune on my Venus had me drag out a fling that lasted two years. Saturn said enough wasting your time with this f()ck boy. I was dumped by a guy that only wanted to call me his gf when it was convenient for him.

posted November 02, 2021 12:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Saturn oppose Venus. I had to deal with some trama that was preventing me from dating and such.

Saturn squared Venus: the bubble burst! Neptune on my Venus had me drag out a fling that lasted two years. Saturn said enough wasting your time with this f()ck boy. I was dumped by a guy that only wanted to call me his gf when it was convenient for him.

But I think I did meet my now husband a few months after the transit. And experienced it a bit with now husband when Saturn went retrograde.

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This is one area of my life that hasn't progressed to much. I am happy to hear that Saturn clarified your feelings and caused you to drop that excess baggage for the better.

I myself could use that with my lingering feelings for open-ended people that won't finish the story (leaving me hanging). I would like the door to close there too.

I have Venus in Sco and the current transit of Saturn in Aqua is not yet squaring my ven. But I am anticipating the effects.

What is happening is that Uranus is opposing my Venus( applying). And disingenuous relationships/ those not built in reality, are falling away.

I reckon Uranus will help in breaking me open. I have been too closed off to love and affection for too long. It would be nice to feel the electric bolt of heartwarming feelings pulsating through me. I haven't felt that "high" for so long. I have even forgotten my worth in my ability to access it.

posted November 13, 2021 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This is one area of my life that hasn't progressed to much. I am happy to hear that Saturn clarified your feelings and caused you to drop that excess baggage for the better.

I myself could use that with my lingering feelings for open-ended people that won't finish the story (leaving me hanging). I would like the door to close there too.

I have Venus in Sco and the current transit of Saturn in Aqua is not yet squaring my ven. But I am anticipating the effects.

What is happening is that Uranus is opposing my Venus( applying). And disingenuous relationships/ those not built in reality, are falling away.

I reckon Uranus will help in breaking me open. I have been too closed off to love and affection for too long. It would be nice to feel the electric bolt of heartwarming feelings pulsating through me. I haven't felt that "high" for so long. I have even forgotten my worth in my ability to access it.

Why am I so sexy. Yet single? Something is wrong with this picture. Something has got to give 😎

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I am cheering you on!

posted December 04, 2021 11:39 AM            

I can't remember at the moment what experiences I've been through with previous transits, except for the abrupt break up with an individual I was dating on and off around 8 years ago while Saturn was transiting my 5th, on nUranus square nVenus.

So, basically Saturn will be conjuct Venus, trine Pluto/IC, square Uranus and oppose BML

posted December 04, 2021 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I am cheering you on!

Uranus conjunct Mercury Taurus house 12 is breaking me open. That is for sure.

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Trans Mars conj natal Ven had me open up.But nothing tangible came off of that.🤷🏿‍♂️

I think the timing is off. Venus is yet to go retro though. So the square to natal Mars may shake something too? But i just don't know.

Next year Ura will oppose natal Ven around June.I am curious about that.

posted December 04, 2021 10:00 PM            

I love Venus in Scorpio by the way. I know lots of great ladies with this. The custodian I work with has this too...that has me catching feelings sometimes.

I've been way too honest with my husband lately. Things that I thought I was too good to say. Things I can't take back...today made me realize how glad I am that I have done it. Very uncomfortable conversations. Today made me realize he does listen, he does care.

Uranus is exactly conjunct my Mercury again. I love this.

posted December 05, 2021 12:24 AM            

And now for the most recent major transit.

Saturn in Aquarius square Venus in Taurus:
----Not actually as difficult as the opposition. On a mental level, I'm healthier and functioning better than ever. It's still difficult, but I'm more verbally expressive. I started a YouTube channel in August, which puts me in the position of putting myself out there on a public platform. There's the usual level of risk that comes with the internet and then the risk that comes with being a YouTuber.
-----There's something about how YouTube works that is purposely withheld so YouTube can conveniently take down any channel it wants for the dumbest reasons it can find and get away with it, because no one can follow rules they don't know about. The square is potentially because of this concern and also the copyright system in place on the platform.
----I'm aware of how content creators are treated on YouTube and I've opened myself up to that. Forget the comment section. I'm more concerned about YouTube striking me down without warning at some unexpected time in the future. YouTube is a major platform and acts as though this cannot change. So far, its position as *the* video platform hasn't changed, but I must be careful with the content in the videos I make.

In my natal chart, Saturn is in Aquarius and I'm slowly approaching the date of my exact Saturn Return. I'm not going over the conjunction until the next time Saturn is in Taurus, but generally, it seems that Saturn transits to Venus have more to do with my career rather than romance. Romance could become a major genre of my work though.

I've found important relationship dates for Saturn transits to my Sun, which was just for one relationship. Saturn was making a square to my Taurus Sun on the day I broke up with my ex earlier this year, but there were other indicators that the relationship wouldn't last and I was resistant to accepting this information.

A dominant theme in my life since Uranus' conjunction has been self-love. I believe Saturn has built upon that message with the square and its dominant manifestations have been active self-expression and me eventually approaching a point where I become self-confident and verbally authentic.