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Topic: Are aquarius venus/scorpio venus relationships doomed ?
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cappypiqua
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posted January 08, 2012 05:46 PM
  
The guy I'm interested in has a scorpio venus and I have aquarius in venus. I've heard that the pairing probably wouldn't work out due to Aquarius being... distant. I think he likes me (I keep getting the famous scorpio stare, although hes pretty on and off, I think hes confused on where I stand) but yeah, its been almost 6 months and neither of us have initiated anything. Plus I feel like if I did put myself out there our conflicting signs in venus would just confuse eachother even more. My Chart: Rising Sagittarius
Sun Capricorn 5.03
Moon Pisces 16.29
Mercury Capricorn 23.02
Venus Aquarius 6.50
Mars Capricorn 20.31
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.25
Saturn Pisces 19.06
Uranus Capricorn 29.06
Neptune Capricorn 24.31
Pluto Sagittarius 1.49
Lilith Cancer 10.01
Asc node Libra 23.33 His Chart: Rising Capricorn
Sun Scorpio 20.40
Moon Pisces 26.03
Mercury Scorpio 3.51
Venus Scorpio 4.42 R
Mars Leo 20.01
Jupiter Scorpio 24.14
Saturn Pisces 5.41
Uranus Capricorn 23.08
Neptune Capricorn 21.04
Pluto Scorpio 27.43
Lilith Taurus 24.27
Asc node Scorpio 14.45 Some light on the subject would be greatly appreciated  . Thank you.
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Desiring Shadows
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posted January 08, 2012 08:21 PM
You are so cute!!! Girls venus goes with guys mars
Vice versa
Be yourself and he'll be attracted to you. You're probably acting like him because you like him... DON'T. He's not attracted to how he acts.. Which is his mars leo. He's attracted to what you are, and that is your most natural personality. Be it!
Usually venus & mars pairings are good for love.
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lindisfarne
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posted January 08, 2012 11:20 PM
IMO it is a horrible matchany time I hear about aquarius and Scorpio together, scorpio always ends up being unsatisfied and leaving the Aquarian... this is just based on my own experience hearing stories from other scorpio's and aquarians. IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted January 09, 2012 11:17 AM
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Originally posted by lindisfarne:
IMO it is a horrible matchany time I hear about aquarius and Scorpio together, scorpio always ends up being unsatisfied and leaving the Aquarian... this is just based on my own experience hearing stories from other scorpio's and aquarians.
true this, from personal experience (venus in scorpio here). We are still friends, however. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 09, 2012 11:25 AM
What about the Aquarius that leaves the Scorpio "unsatisfied?"Aloof? I don't buy that. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 09, 2012 11:30 AM
Cappypiqua,BTW I'm also a Capricorn Sun,Mars and Mercury, and my Venus is also in Aquarius. My Moon is in Gemini and I am a Pisces Rising. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted January 09, 2012 11:38 AM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
You are so cute!!! Girls venus goes with guys mars
Vice versa
Be yourself and he'll be attracted to you. You're probably acting like him because you like him... DON'T. He's not attracted to how he acts.. Which is his mars leo. He's attracted to what you are, and that is your most natural personality. Be it!
Usually venus & mars pairings are good for love.
Venus & venus in compatible signs are good for friendship
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the89freespirit
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posted January 09, 2012 11:41 AM
In my experience, regarding romantic compatibility, you look at the Venus signs first in order to determine the initial attraction. Since your Venuses are squared, it's not surprising that it's taken some time for things to get going. From what you're saying, the tension (square) is there but it's potentially positive. The only sure way to know is to just put yourself out there, instead of doing all this guessing. Besides, Venus signs aren't the only symbol of compatability in synastry. As far as emotional connection and serious relationships go, the Moon signs are far more important. And you both have a Pisces Moon, in what looks like a rather wide conjunction synastry wise. That tends to be a very good indicator. You guys probably have a very natural chemistry. But it also means that you two share the same insecurities and the same issues regarding opening up. So maybe this guy feels exactly like you do. Either way, I recommend taking the risk. Rejection absolutely sucks but it's much better than not having clarity. At least then, you'd know. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted January 09, 2012 04:06 PM
Hello cappypiqua! Welcome to LL 
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cappypiqua
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posted January 10, 2012 01:19 AM
Wow. Thank-you everyone for all the replies, you've all really helped bring clarity to my situation . D.Shadows, you're completely right. I have a bad habit of acting more like the people I'm infatuated with then myself; especially with this...individual.As for having an aquarius in venus, I'd like to make it clear that aquarius venuses get a bad wrap. I'm not unfaithful, I would never dream of cheating on my partner. But I'm not always aware of my own emotions when I'm around my love interest, and appear out of place or 'aloof' I just don't know how to react to the situation when hes staring at me, hoping for a reflected gaze but I'm detached from the situation and more smitten to the fact that hes actually paying attention to me and I shy away. I'd also do strange things in response to him giving me attention...like stare at a wall instead of him, I dunno. Maybe thats the detached part? But then other times I'm just so attracted to him and like him so much I can't really conceal how I'm feeling.
Does this sound familiar to anyone with this placement or is it a bit off the wall?
Yeah, I feel like we both have a strong attraction. But yes, I do need to step up and face him (literally & metaphorically) instead of observing his actions and trying to process them on my own without his consent. I feel like him & I are in the same boat: confused by eachother's actions.
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Capriquarius
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posted January 10, 2012 01:28 AM
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Does this sound familiar to anyone with this placement or is it a bit off the wall?
Sounds just like a guy I dated who has Cap Venus progressed into Aqua, with the staring at wall bit while my eyes were fixed on him. He has admitted to having fear of intimacy......in the emotional sense...he had no restraints as far as physical intimacy goes lol@thread: I have Venus in Scorpio and was in a long-term relationship with a Venus in Aquarius. Very emotionally unsatisfying in the beginning, as the89freespirit said. Scorpio desires intensity, but Aquarius is distant. There were other aspects such as Saturn contacts and Juno/Chiron linkages to Venus that kept the relationship evolving. IP: Logged |
starzy54
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posted January 10, 2012 03:54 AM
My partner and I have this placement,Me being the Scorpio Venus and He the Aqua Venus..though he has a Mars in scorpio and kinda flip flops back and forth between being very clingy and than distant (He's a Pisces sun) Its all fine with me as i have Aqua in the 7th and need my space too sometime.I am a Cap sun btw.I think its a good pairing to learn to come out of your comfort zones and learn from each other.If a relationship is going to work,its going to take effort on both parts..you both have to compromise and find balance.He would need to accept you like your independence and he should have more himself,and you would need to learn to be a little more attentive to his needs.It needs to go both ways,not just one. Balance is key.Finding someone who understands that is the hard part lol, IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted January 10, 2012 04:36 AM
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 10, 2012 03:10 PM
I'm a Venus in Aquarius and I have major disagreement with the notion of aloofness, being unable to express emotions or dislike for emotional intimacy. I have the *reverse* problem lol Regarding, Venus compatibility, my wife and I have horrible compatibility, with her being a Venus in Virgo. Its so terrible that a couple of sites outright says that its doomed to failure material. Yet, the marriage works IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 10, 2012 03:15 PM
This is why Sun sign is of major importance. It's the source of energy lighting up the entire chart. IP: Logged |
Neptune'sDaughter
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posted January 10, 2012 04:15 PM
"But I'm not always aware of my own emotions when I'm around my love interest, and appear out of place or 'aloof' I just don't know how to react to the situation when hes staring at me, hoping for a reflected gaze but I'm detached from the situation and more smitten to the fact that hes actually paying attention to me and I shy away. I'd also do strange things in response to him giving me attention...like stare at a wall instead of him, I dunno. Maybe thats the detached part? But then other times I'm just so attracted to him and like him so much I can't really conceal how I'm feeling.
Does this sound familiar to anyone with this placement or is it a bit off the wall?"
I do these SAME things!!! Oy! Either too hot or too cold lol. I also subconsciously try to deflect any 'overdone' energy from the guy I like and so I end up making people think I like his FRIEND. ugh. Not a big flirty thing towards the friend but like just a little MORE DETACHMENT/LAID-BACKNESS towards the person I ACTUALLY like. Everyone can tell that I'm TRYING to let SOMEONE know that I like them -but no one can tell WHO that someone IS!!
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Neptune'sDaughter
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posted January 10, 2012 04:23 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'm a Venus in Aquarius and I have major disagreement with the notion of aloofness, being unable to express emotions or dislike for emotional intimacy. I have the *reverse* problem lol Regarding, Venus compatibility, my wife and I have horrible compatibility, with her being a Venus in Virgo. Its so terrible that a couple of sites outright says that its doomed to failure material. Yet, the marriage works
I agree with having no problem FEELING. I have a huge chasm fulla love and emotion and passion (er, ScorpMoon)and when I am in a acknowledged friendship or relationship I am very expressive -but yeah when I'm trying to 'flirt' LOL when I'm not scorpmoon staring and aries rising bulldozing I'm just quirky, weird venus in aqua chillin' LOL I also notice this thing where I like to know the guy's watching me when I am not paying attention to him. I think this is why I sometimes talk to the friends to peripheral vision-see if the interest he is sharing with me while we're eye-to-eye is as strong when I'm 'away'. Maybe it's venus in aqua checking in advance if he is cool with my sociableness and sometimes needed me-time? ------------------
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