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Topic: Scorpio man with venus in Scorpio
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 14, 2012 11:51 PM
  
I was recently dating a Scorpio male with his venus in Scorpio as well. Are there any men with these placements who can give me some insight?? Now that we are done, he tells his ex-girlfriend terrible things about me, which has really upset me & makes me wonder if he even really cared about me at all?? It goes from I was "obsessive" to "he wasn't attracted to me" We had a really bad falling out, I was not always the nicest to him - we had our issues. I understand a need to move on - but why is he saying these things about me?? That is what devastates me the most.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 15, 2012 12:27 AM
Bc he's an idiot and is bitter and immature. I wouldn't more time dwelling on him if I were you. Lift that head up and don't respond in any way. Be the bigger person, and people will see who's in the wrong.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 15, 2012 12:40 AM
Greetings from another Scorpio Venus.  Sorry, I'm not a man though.If he's telling his ex gf derogatory things about you, then it's probably because he wants to convey to her that she needn't be threatened by you. Maybe she still has feelings for him and he doesn't want to hurt her. In any case, good riddance! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 12:48 AM
i was involved with a scorpio girl a year or so ago,and at the end of our relationship, we had a falling out and she went off on me and said lots of mean hurtful things,she said that i was ugly and that she had never attracted to me at all,which is funny because she seemed more into the sex then me ,i have never known anyone to desire to have sex with someone they werent attracted to. Thats what scorpios do when they are insecure or mad or hurt,they sting you ,and their stinger is their tongue most of the time,they know exactly what to say to hurt you and thats probably what is happening with your ex,i wouldnt let it bother you too much.IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted January 15, 2012 01:21 AM
sorry this is somewhat unrelated but i just wanted to post it under a topic. i remember hearing someone that scorpios have crazy mind power that if you find yourself thinking about them randomly, it's probably because they're thinking about you that second.i reccently have been thinking a lot about this scorpio (w/ scorpio venus and mercury and pluto p.s.) who just melted me, i've never been more attracted to someone in my life. Also, lately everytime i go on lindaland, there's a new post that's related to his chart in some way. venus in scorpio, scorpio men, mars in aquarius, capricorn moon....it's SOOO weird. just wanted to say that, cause it's been creeping me out everytime i come on here. hehe IP: Logged |
astro_flame
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posted January 15, 2012 01:29 AM
well i'm a scorpio but venus in libra and perhaps that is why i want peace and fairness in any r/s. So i will only remember the good moments we shared and i don't go bad-mouthing to other people about my exes - i find that is very emotionally immature of them to do such stuff.IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 01:37 AM
Yeah, I try not to let it bother me, but it does. I wonder if it is because he knows that his ex-girlfriend contacted me or will each time he does this. Yea, when we were together he was very intense & told me how amazing he thought I was, now, he desribes me as the biggest loser in the world. According to his ex, he is stalking her & harrassing her?? He used to tell me she was crazy though & the one bugging him while I was seeing him, he bad mouthed her too. She says he is trying to get back with her....It makes my head spin and putting me down immensely :-/ I have my venus in scorpio too....but, I don't feel need to bash on him to people which I could just at much if I wanted.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 02:02 AM
@brainstorms,theres a reason people are always posting about people with scorpio placements,they are impossible to deal with,atleast thats been my experience,forgiveness is not in their vocabulary,if they hurt or betray you then they believe in forgiveness,they want you to forgive them, but heaven forbid if you make a mistake they never forgive you and hold it over your head foreverIP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 02:10 AM
@scorpiovenus , yes thats exactly why he was telling her because he knew she would tell and it would hurt you,if a scorpio feels wronged or hurt they feel compelled to hurt you too,as the scorpio girl i was involved with tried to hurt me,but you cant let it bother you its all a mind gameIP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 15, 2012 02:16 AM
Ok I'm pretty sure that Linda Goodman mentions in "Sun Signs" that there are three levels of Scorpio: Scorpion, Eagle, and Phoenix. Y'all dealt with the lowest level of Scorpio.I know Scorpios who are not at all what you described. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 02:20 AM
Yes, I have met many scorpio's who have changed their ways. An old co-worker was a hell raiser you could say in so many ways. He changed - now he's a great guy and an amazing family man devoted to his children & wife. I guess some Scorpios' it takes awhile for them to reach this change or maybe many do not.IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 15, 2012 02:25 AM
Yes he "EVOLVED," meaning he cut off what's not needed and grew from there. Just like in nature. It's about necessity, not some statement about who's better than who. So if it's not necessary for survival, evolution won't have to take place.IP: Logged |
acousticbob
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From: UK
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 15, 2012 03:14 AM
Sounds like he's either trying to hurt you with lies. And/Or 'publically' cut all ties with you. I say 'publically' because it takes Scorpio Sun-Venus a long time to detach after a relationship the problem is the fine line between love and hate.. If he really 'wasnt attracted to you' it would be a simple break up and he wouldnt have ever told you!
That doesnt mean he didnt love you.... And it doesnt excuse his behaviour..
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 03:22 AM
True, I am also venus in Scorpio & things between us were very dramatic while dating we only dated 3 months but in between had arguments, breaks from eachother...I was no angel to him, as my venus in Scorpio tends to be very strong as far as jealously and possessiveness goes. I messaged his friend to find out some information about him & he got really angry. It was hard when we went through a hard time, I just don't understand why he is bad mouthing me to his ex - but, when I met him apparently she was the "psycho ex" so if a Scorpio male with venus in Scorpio is that a typical way he gets back at you? He told me I would pay for my "insolence" so is this 1 of his ways??IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 03:24 AM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Bc he's an idiot and is bitter and immature. I wouldn't more time dwelling on him if I were you. Lift that head up and don't respond in any way. Be the bigger person, and people will see who's in the wrong.
Here, here! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 03:36 AM
yea i know there are good scorpios,my mamaw was the evolved one,she was very spiritual and kind,but i think most people get stuck in the negative patterns of their signs,that includes all the signs,but i do think that scorpios who are unevolved are the scariest of all the signsIP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 05:19 AM
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RegardesPlatero
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posted January 15, 2012 05:28 AM
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 05:44 AM
RegardesPlatero - thanks for the information! Yes, I understand his feeling of anger, and this makes sense. I didn't feel used, as I don't have much to offer as far as money, gifts, or anything goes & he was always very generous as to pay for everything & we had weekend getaway he provided & even kept gas in my car as Im going through financial issues. I guess he is just unevolved - hopefully he comes to his senses soon...I guess the moment I met him & he bad mouthed his ex should have been my red flag - he claims she speaks ill of me & vice versa...maybe its a control thing..IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted January 15, 2012 10:02 AM
People who do things like this to others really do annoy me. It is so desperate and even while reading this, though I'm not involved, it makes me upset and frustrated. I hope this person has the chance to heal, move on and find joy in life! Even if they do feel 'hurt and betrayed' it is obvious that doing this is not going to make it better. In fact, in the long run I doubt it will even make them feel anything at all.IP: Logged |
DayandNight21
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posted January 15, 2012 12:04 PM
I've had the experience of this combo, it was less than pleasant, worst experience of my life! Cheap talk and worse than dodgy actions. Will be looking for more evolved ones next time.
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enchantress299
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posted January 15, 2012 01:49 PM
Make sure to spell out for Mr. Scorpio that you are NOT afraid of him. The one thing that manipulative Scorpios hate the most is putting the truth all out on the table (because there ends their game) and if he doesn't care about you (chances are he does/did, but he's hiding it to hurt you) then he doesn't ever have to think about you/speak about you/acknowledge your existence ever again. In fact, emphasize that you DON'T WANT HIM TO ever acknowledge your existence ever again. This will drive him nuts.  It sucks that you have to deal with this side of Scorpio. I have been lucky enough to know many Scorpios with high levels of integrity, but it's those few Scorpios with bad attitudes that ruin it for everyone else. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted January 15, 2012 02:07 PM
Woooooow it's amaaaaaaazing that y'all started yapping away about different levels of Scorpio AFTER I pointed it out. Is it any wonder this board doesn't get taken seriously?- Virgo Rising IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 02:20 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Bc he's an idiot and is bitter and immature. I wouldn't more time dwelling on him if I were you. Lift that head up and don't respond in any way. Be the bigger person, and people will see who's in the wrong.
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FireWire
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posted January 15, 2012 04:44 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Woooooow it's amaaaaaaazing that y'all started yapping away about different levels of Scorpio AFTER I pointed it out. Is it any wonder this board doesn't get taken seriously?- Virgo Rising
LOL. Though, I'm sure you are not referring to me, I'd like to say that just because someone doesn't specifically highlight a contribution you made, doesn't mean they've ignored you. It doesn't mean they've found fault in what you've said or don't want to give you credit. It simply could mean they choose to read what you've posted, take value from it, and then focus on the expression of their own thoughts and ideas. But, that isn't a crime they've committed.  I personally don't care if it is a Scorpio--evolved, unevolved, or any other sign of the zodiac ('Scorpio' only matters to me insofar as it is the sign in question here). People who tend to do things like this really bother me, because I think it is an act of desperation and it is cowardly. And that is coming from someone who has 'not' had anyone do this to me personally, but I still think it is cowardly and desperate. In any case, I definitely read what you said, and I agree with you and what others have contributed as well. IP: Logged |
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