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Topic: Not feeling Capricorn enough
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 575 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 17, 2012 04:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Your sun is on the cusp, if your birth time is wrong then it could mean you're an aquarius. If you are indeed more of an aqua than a cap, that would mean only your mercury and venus are in cap, which are somewhat significant, but then you also have a planet in every other sign of the zodiac, excluding the outer planets which are generational. You have 3 planets in water, one in fire, two in air (if your sun is more aqua than cap) and moon conjunct pluto which accentuates your moon in scorpio. You also have three important planets in the 4th house. You probably feel less like a fire sign than any other element, and more of a combination of earth, air and water. Since the rising sign and sun are so important, that would mean you feel most like a combination of air and water (since this seems to be a strong influence in your chart), and only a little bit like a capricorn (your mercury and venus). Air/water people are very sweet and are often considered total sweethearts by others. Very tender and sentimental people with their heart on their sleeve. With your libra rising especially, this would be true of you. This makes you very different from the typical traits of capricorn.
Hmmm no i dont feel aquarius. Except for the weird part haha. my birth time everything is correct even my mom remembered when i was born and it was like that on my birth record. I dont think i wear my heart on my sleeve. I don't cry in front of people unless its for something ridiculous that doesnt matter. I care about people but when they're feeling down i dont know what to say. I feel for them but i cant turn those feelings into the right words and i feel really uncomfortable by it. I wanted to be the nice girl in class but that award went to a virgo who i despised lol. Im nice but im too loud that it detracts from it. Im kinda standoffish. Buuut thats with some people. If i feel like i have the stronger personality or teh upper hand then i feel comfy and capable of being warm and willing to conversate. It all depends. Sometimes i reason with myself and at other times my feelings take over and reasoning loses. But im not aquarius-like.
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Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 229 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 17, 2012 04:50 AM
RegardesPlatero,Yeah, the whole cusp thing annoys me too. And with the planets, fixed stars, nodes and other ‘points’ definitely they are either in one sign or the other…. But with what I mentioned in my previous post about the width of the Sun and the Moon themselves (from Earth) being half a degree …. Spanning 15 minutes on either side of their zodiacal position….that means that from a mathematical perspective it is possible for the tip of a luminary’s diameter to stick out past the dividing line between the signs…. As the zodiacal position of the Sun and Moon are both calculated from the centre of their diameter…. This means that from exactly 29’45 at the end of a sign, to exactly 00’15 at the beginning of a sign, it is possible mathematically for the Sun or the Moon to span two different signs…. However the centre point of the luminary is how they calculate exactly which sign the luminary is in….and this sign would be dominant as more then half of the luminary’s diameter would be in that sign… as well as the decan, and duad at the end or beginning of that sign… So with the luminaries (the Sun and Moon) only I’d be willing to consider at least the possibility of a cusp influence…. But only after 29’45 of a sign, or before 00’15 of a sign…. The last 15 minutes of a sign and the first 15 minutes of a sign…. Other then this narrow margin, no way would I consider for there to be any possibility of a cusp influence…. Like my Moon is at 29’11 Cancer….which means the full diameter of my Moon is between 28’56 Cancer and 29’26 Cancer…. All of it falls into Cancer so there is no possibility of a Leo influence…. And I most definitely feel that my Moon is only in Cancer…. Although, I do wonder if I had Moon at 29’55 Cancer, if there would be a slight Leo sub-influence…. Because then my Moon’s full diameter would span between 29’40 Cancer and 00’10 Leo….
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 2073 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 17, 2012 04:52 AM
Well, sun in aqua is not strong since it's in detriment. But you are loud? Hmm that is not something I was expecting from a water/air person. Water/air people are mostly focused on other people since they need OTHER people so very much, and usually have trouble with boundaries and with worrying too much about what other people think of them. Wearing your heart on your sleeve...what I meant by that is that it's difficult for you to hide your emotions and you are honest and dont play games with people. Your vulnerabilites would be obvious to everyone, too. But that doesnt mean you arent reserved or standoffish. Sensitive people usually are. But you would be pretty sentimental and sweet and just a very soft kind person who is also sensitive and easily hurt. Does that sound like you at all?IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 575 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 17, 2012 05:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Well, sun in aqua is not strong since it's in detriment. But you are loud? Hmm that is not something I was expecting from a water/air person. Water/air people are mostly focused on other people since they need OTHER people so very much, and usually have trouble with boundaries and with worrying too much about what other people think of them. Wearing your heart on your sleeve...what I meant by that is that it's difficult for you to hide your emotions and you are honest and dont play games with people. Your vulnerabilites would be obvious to everyone, too. But that doesnt mean you arent reserved or standoffish. Sensitive people usually are. But you would be pretty sentimental and sweet and just a very soft kind person who is also sensitive and easily hurt. Does that sound like you at all?
I sometimes can cause a ruckus if i go all or nothing. Like stop caring. I can turn bad things around in my head and convince myself that its not so bad. and thats when i can get crazy. I also feel like i don't need people to keep me happy. I like people but they stress me out and its hard to have friends sometimes because i wanna do what i want! I have my own plans for my life and its tiring catering to everyone else's needs and playing court jester for their happiness. But we all need somebody, so im trying to do the friend thing. And i can choose to show my emotions or not. I feel like if i'm mad then i put it on the back burner because its not worth it to have some argument. But it i let emotions sit in me and they boil there for a long time till one stupid thing makes it come out and people will think im distressed over the stupid thing when really its other things. But i am honest, i try to be so in a tactful way. And i do play games because life is one big game to me. I usually dont play too much mind games anymore because im over that im trying the path of least resistance, since games got me into trouble when i was younger. I would not describe me as sweet and soft lol Maybe on the inside outwardly no. I get hurt easy and that really messes with my brain. I don't like blaming people tho. If someone does something kinda mean to me i try not to blame them and it stresses me out having to admit someone did something mean to me cos i dont want my parents knowing and have them mad at the person. I have good intentions though, so thats a form of kindness hahah. IP: Logged |
Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 229 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 17, 2012 05:51 AM
L0veLess said…“Maybe I think Im weird because that’s what everyone else tells me. I feel like I try to fit myself to what I think people might like. Im not sure if I pull it off outwardly though, because when they give me their opinion on me it’s usually the same across the board, that im weird or that I sound like a kid.” Actually this sound like a pretty typical Aqua type theme…. Feeling like something of an oddball, and not fitting in…. and the trying to make yourself fit part sound like a combo of Capricorn (wanting to meet society’s standards), and Libra (wanting to get along with everybody)… “I feel like im somewhat impressionable too. If someone wants to do a drug and they seemed persuasive enough I think id do it. When I get comfy with a person then they can get me to do a lot. Im not a rug though.” Well, you do have Neptune sextile to the Moon which has an impressionable quality to it. “Also I like attention, but who doesn’t? I wish I knew everything and could sing and act and dance and be great. I wanna be perfect, but only through natural means, then again perfect isn’t natural to begin with.” One thing I notice when looking at your chart is your South Node is in Leo…. The South Node rules where we are coming form, the habit patterns that feel safe for us…. While the opposite… the North Node is where we need to go in order to achieve a balance in life and grow… A Leo South Node often has a longing for attention, glory and excellence in life… and with your South Node in the 11th house, perhaps you crave attention from your peers…. With the North Node in the 5th house in Aquarius….it shows you can achieve balance and growth in your life by being creative, giving force in some way, and yet at the same time not investing too much or your ego in these things…. And cultivating a detached perspective on things… “Greed. Jealousy. And wrath. Im mostly guilty of those. I do feel responsible of other peoples feelings. I feel bad putting others down or if other people do and i can tell someone is hurt i hate how their feelings seep into me. Unless its all in my head that i think i know how they feel haha “ This sound like your Scorpio Moon talking… Scorpio Moons are in touch with their feelings and are realistic about their darker tendencies, they are also highly sensitive and are able to tune into the ‘vibe’ of what is going on around them…. Especially your Moon as it is conjunct Pluto, and sextile Neptune… “If I couldn’t’ be the best then I guess I’d be the worst because either way I’d stand out. So I go from one extreme to the other. I dabble in some things but I haven’t mastered one thing, so nothing really stands out as something im GOOD at. I can play some piano I used to try and draw those little anime things but I feel like I know 10 other people who did that. It’s the same story in every state. So that’s a no to Aquarius (who should be a water sign because of the water bearer its rep’d by, and the ‘aqua’ throw me off).” Aquarius is an Air sign because Air is the element of intellect and Aquarius is most definitely a ‘thinker’ sign…. Funny, but a lot of what your saying sounds really Aqua-like to me….. Especially the part about wanting to stand out as distinctive whether it be in a good or bad way. But this could also tie into the Leo South Node needing attention… “So whats yur mars and asc.? Actually whats yur chart like? And which cap qualitites do yu exemplify?” I’m yeah, I’m a Leo Mars, Sagittarius Asc, Capricorn Sun, Cancer Moon… I have Venus in the 1st so I seem pretty easygoing and nice, but the Sag side of me is quite opinionated. I’d say I’m more reserved than outgoing…. Although I do have my moments. My Capricorn/Saturn side makes it impossible for me to shirk responsibilities…. I rarely get into any kind of trouble, and I do my duties…. I also strive for excellence on the job and try to always do my best. My Cancer Moon makes me especially sensitive, I tend to be kind and caring but will withdraw from signs of rejection. Generally, I’m level headed and won’t get too carried away with anything crazy or irresponsible, and I enjoy security and feeling safe. The fire in my chart makes me an idealist, and there is a side to me that is a dreamer and a romantic, plus my Mercury conjunct my Asc makes me extremely curious…. Hence my love of Astrology…
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 575 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 17, 2012 06:09 AM
^Dear Lotis White:Hmmm I still don't buy the aquarius stuff lol im not feelin it. I see the connections yu've made to my other placements though those make a bit more sense. I think yu write well and i like it. Very put together. I like the fire in yur chart i love fire, it's my attack of choice when i played video games. How yu say yu dont do anything too reckless, I think i'm that way too but i think im more like i'll do crazy things as safely as possible theres a capricorn trait poking through. I'd go cliff diving if i were sure i was safe or convinced myself i was fine dying that day. Although, i cant go on the tower of terror or handle dips on rides that well. My tummy hurts or tickles so bad! So i dunno how cliff diving will go over. I want that tickle crap to go away i just wanna enjoy the view. Im curious tooo. Curiosity might have ruined my mind a bit though. And i used to be a romantic but science has killed most of my sentimentality. So ya, so far i like yu.
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Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 229 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 17, 2012 06:10 AM
Another thing I’ve noticed about your chart…You have the planet Uranus square your Asc/Dsc axis, and Uranus is also conjunct your Ic, and opposite your Jupiter/Mc conjunction… all with in 2 degrees… You say you are not Aqua like but some of your statements come off sounding very Aqua ish…. Like feeling people think your weird, or wanting too stand out in either a good or bad way…..also your writing style makes you seem kind of quirky, random, and analytical in how you express yourself… I can definitely see how the above mentioned Uranus aspects (Uranus is ruler of Aqua) could produce such an effect on your personality…. Like every now and then you just think ‘to hell with it’ and do whatever you want despite what some may think…. If I were you I’d study the aspects in your chart to gain deeper insight into some of the tendencies you have that don’t seem to make sense…. Along with your sign placements…
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 575 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 17, 2012 06:15 AM
oooo ya! i remember something about uranus conj. my ic and supposedly that meant something about haveing a crazy family or home life, but thats not true. This was when i found out about that placement and tried looking up meanings for it, but maybe it does have an effect on me personally more so than i thought. :] I still don't like aquarius, but if it makes me get along better with sagittarius then i'll take it!IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 196 From: maryville,tn,usa Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 17, 2012 06:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: I do not believe in cusps, either. You are either one sign or another. You cannot be two signs. Linda Goodman too was against the notion of cusps. If one feels "cuspy", it's for other reasons. It's possible to actually be the other sign, to have other planets or points in the other sign, to be raised by/influenced by people of the other sign, or to simply be told about cusps and buy into it. I have known PLENTY of "cuspy" people who act NOTHING like the sign to which they are close to being. So, I don't believe in them, either, and they honestly kind of annoy me at times, but I don't want to be rude, so I will leave it at that. I do agree, though, that your other planets and angles can influence you. Your sun will never be muted out entirely, but your other planets and angles will refine it a bit.
this is where i strongly disagree with mainstream astrology,i have seen the cusps effect with my own eyes,and linda goodman was great to be sure but she was prolly just going with the crowd,it irritates how all astrologers are closed minded to the fact,ok heres my reasoning for backing the cusps,my brother is born on the 29th degree of leo,and he is also a leo ascendant,moon,mercury,venus,and mars,and sun in the first house to boot,but heres the catch,almost all those planets are near the cusp on the day of birth,so if we go by the conventional wisdom of astrologers he should be mega leo with a huge ego driving a flashy sports car and basking in the spotlight right? wrong! he does have leo traits for sure,but he is definitely more virgo,he is very analytical and wants all the details,he only eats organic food,he dresses overall modestly,mostly reserved until you get to know him,and very critical,he even agreed he is more virgo IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 196 From: maryville,tn,usa Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 17, 2012 07:22 AM
and something else,astrology is intertwined with the seasons of nature and the months,think logically about it for just a minute,if you would,in nature theres always a transition,winter becomes spring ,it doesnt jump straight to summer,the days slowly get warmer and longer,and when summer changes to fall the days get slowly shorter and colder,in nature theres always a transition,and to me thats what a cusp is,ok hypothetical situation,lets say i was born in last minute of capricorn,so im automatically 100 percent capricorn,and first minute of aquarius so im 100 percent aquarius,it makes no sense! thats just my opinion thoughIP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 196 From: maryville,tn,usa Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 17, 2012 07:22 AM
and something else,astrology is intertwined with the seasons of nature and the months,think logically about it for just a minute,if you would,in nature theres always a transition,winter becomes spring ,it doesnt jump straight to summer,the days slowly get warmer and longer,and when summer changes to fall the days get slowly shorter and colder,in nature theres always a transition,and to me thats what a cusp is,ok hypothetical situation,lets say i was born in last minute of capricorn,so im automatically 100 percent capricorn,and first minute of aquarius so im 100 percent aquarius,it makes no sense! thats just my opinion thoughIP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 2073 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 17, 2012 12:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: and something else,astrology is intertwined with the seasons of nature and the months,think logically about it for just a minute,if you would,in nature theres always a transition,winter becomes spring ,it doesnt jump straight to summer,the days slowly get warmer and longer,and when summer changes to fall the days get slowly shorter and colder,in nature theres always a transition,and to me thats what a cusp is,ok hypothetical situation,lets say i was born in last minute of capricorn,so im automatically 100 percent capricorn,and first minute of aquarius so im 100 percent aquarius,it makes no sense! thats just my opinion though
Exactly. If you look at Michael Gauquelin's astrological research, he found that everything is gradual in astrology, and degrees are critical.......it's in the book The Case for Astrology plus we have decanates and that shows that astrology is gradual
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 2073 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 17, 2012 12:58 PM
and i have also seen the cusp in action as well many times...IP: Logged |
Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 229 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 17, 2012 02:03 PM
I think of the signs as being more tied to the equinoxes and the solstices then the seasons themselves….. I’m originally from Down Under…. You know the Southern hemisphere…. And we have Christmas in the middle of Summer…. And July and June are cold….. Yet people still identify with their Sun Signs…I’d only buy into the notion of cusps from 29’45 at the end of a sign, to 00’15 at the beginning of a sign, because of the fact that the Sun and Moon appear 30 minutes wide from Earth. Also I do feel that astrology is precise…..especially where orbs are concerned. To me decans and duads are evidence that the zodiac position of a planet or point is specific…. Every 2 and ½ degrees the sub-influence of the Sign placement changes…. L0veLess, So you love Sagittarians. That’s not surprising because your Dsc ruler is in Sagittarius…. Mars being the ruler of your Aries Dsc, is located at 23 Sag…. Giving you a special liking towards the sign….
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1429 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 17, 2012 03:29 PM
Being a Capricorn is not fun either. There is a lot of Saturn-like discipline and a lot of hard work and high ambitions that are hard to fulfill. So don't think that Capricorn is great. I'm heavy Capricorn although I have only three planets: sun, mars and mercury. And my Cap is in the natural 10th House too, with Saturn as ruler. Wish I could give away some Capricorn in favor of some more fun loving sign. IP: Logged |
scorpmoon2 Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 17, 2012 04:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: oh believe me cusps exist,my brother is born on the last degree of leo,and most of his personal planets are in leo but they were also on the cusp,he literally has no planets in virgo,but yet he is a total virgo,he is all about being practical and saving money,he is obsessed with being healthy,he tends to be reserved,and he has that legendary virgo criticism,he has some leo traits to be sure but that is to be expected since he has 5 planets in leo,all on the last couple degrees of leo,but he is a total viro,if cusps dont exist how do you explain that? haha sorry if i sound dogmatic,it just annoys me that 99 percent of astrologers deny cusps when i see them in people i know,you admitted capricorn doesnt match you and you were born on the last day,do you know your time of birth,perhaps the sun was already in aquarius,depending on the year,the sun can enter a new sign at different times,thats why the birthtime is so important
Perhaps the cusps don't exist but then there are signs by progression. In the first few days of your life the sun would change into the next sign and that influences you in your future years. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 575 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted January 18, 2012 03:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Being a Capricorn is not fun either. There is a lot of Saturn-like discipline and a lot of hard work and high ambitions that are hard to fulfill. So don't think that Capricorn is great. I'm heavy Capricorn although I have only three planets: sun, mars and mercury. And my Cap is in the natural 10th House too, with Saturn as ruler. Wish I could give away some Capricorn in favor of some more fun loving sign.
Hmm yea reading about capricorn bores me! Although i cant relate on how yu feel burdened by work or whatever it's okay though, yu seem like an intelligent guy to me so hard work has gotten yu lots of places.  Lotis White: Oh yeeea that makes sense. Yu make sense :] IP: Logged |
Marina123 Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 18, 2012 08:48 AM
Hi,I share the same sentiments. I am Capricorn but I don't feel enough of the Capri description in me as well. I'm not born on a cusp either. IP: Logged | |