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From: Santa Monica, CA, USA
Registered: Feb 2011

posted January 22, 2012 10:46 PM            

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@mockingbird, thank you! I'm trying to send myself to bed right now lol

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From: Ontario, Canada!
Registered: Jul 2011

posted January 22, 2012 10:52 PM            

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Like tautomer said!

A lot of my friends are female, a lot.

But also, I don't actively make friends with people; rather, I actively socialize and make conversation, but in the end of the day, it's the females who reach out back to me.

IF THAT MAKES SENSE. I have like, five best friends, and only one is male. Also, I have a tendency to either become attracted to or to attract males romantically, so that also adds to the reasons I have mostly female friends. C:

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posted January 22, 2012 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Geminisquared:
Hahah the questions is sand do you get a long with women?

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hehe i was trying to do that rulers in houses with planets thingy!

made no sense.

anyways yes i do get along with women. men too but not initially. i think the scorpio rising makes them perk up a bit but when they see i'm a harmless bull they ease up. all my good friends i've had for over a decade hated my guts when i walked around the corridors but that was because i wasn't classmates with any of them. both are really fun to hang out with IMO. i don't do overtly feminine or masculine things with either group too but there are indeed subtle differences. it would take me a long time to talk about emotions with one of my buddies for example..

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From: Greenwich, CT, USA
Registered: Jan 2012

posted January 22, 2012 11:13 PM            

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I am male. I definitely have more female friends than male. As a youth, I had many male friends but was not averse to making friends with females. Once middle school hit (which coincides with puberty) I saw a significant decrease in my male friends and significant increase in female friends. I think it comes down to my lack of interest in traditionally "boy" pursuits (i.e.: video games and rough and tumble sports). Women are typically the default gender that's able to maintain conversation with me. My mind is quicker than most males, who usually aren't skilled in linguistics, syntax, and articulation. What can I say? My Moon in Gemini needs to be fed. Most men also find me intimidating. I have an emphasized Scorpio energy to my chart, so it's not surprising that while many males (and females) may find me intriguing, it's rare that they make the first move. At the end of the day, I've got my male friends I hit the gym with, but outside of that kind of testosterone-producing, our activities together are limited. Let's face it -- there are far more intellectual women than men...it's just the way our society was designed.

PS: All throughout my school years, guys always had beef with me without ever talking to me. I go into my fair share of physical fights at school because other guys perceived me as "cocky". After getting to know me, however, there was never one that didn't like me.

I think some aspects one must take into account when deciphering this type of attraction/repulsion:

Moon/Mars aspects: produces power struggles w/ same sex
Venus/Pluto aspects: intensifies sensual side of self; attracts love/hate feelings

...particularly the hard aspects.

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