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Topic: Tragic love :( please take a took at these charts.
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Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 04:50 AM
What do you think about his asc exactly squaring my sun-mercury? It seems important somehow.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 3094 From: Saturn-free H12 ;) Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 25, 2012 04:56 AM
It is IC/Sun,Merc conj. You make him feel good,he is relaxed around you,at ease because you give him sense of familiar,it is cosy,also,deep conection,he may feel 'she gets me'.IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 05:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: It is IC/Sun,Merc conj. You make him feel good,he is relaxed around you,at ease because you give him sense of familiar,it is cosy,also,deep conection,he may feel 'she gets me'.
You mean in the draco chart? Would that be felt as strongly as the tropical do you think? I have always wondered about this.. Draco venus-neprune opposition would have been helpful to single out and test the strength of the draco connections if not for the other stuff going on. Btw VenusDiSirius, thank you so much for taking the time to help me figure this out  IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 05:23 AM
I also noticed he has his neptune as an earth singleton, plus with his pisces moon, perhaps he is not as affected by this as i am. Or he is just used to piscean love as his draco neptune is 2* away from his venus-uranus. Or perhaps its because the composite stellium falls in my 8th and his 2nd.. Seems unbalanced. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 3094 From: Saturn-free H12 ;) Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 25, 2012 05:33 AM
No,in synastry! Also,your angles are conj,so that has the feel of 'fated'. I don't know much about draconic chart,I think I saw mine...once If he has Nep as singletone,he may well be riding a dreamy ride,very vigorously! Not unbalanced,but...different. Relationship can mean the same to both of you,just let's say,you are different kind of possessive. You thrive on and demand intimacy,you are in ned of soul baring expression,he may like just being in relationship,physical expression. IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 05:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: No,in synastry! Also,your angles are conj,so that has the feel of 'fated'. I don't know much about draconic chart,I think I saw mine...once If he has Nep as singletone,he may well be riding a dreamy ride,very vigorously! Not unbalanced,but...different. Relationship can mean the same to both of you,just let's say,you are different kind of possessive. You thrive on and demand intimacy,you are in ned of soul baring expression,he may like just being in relationship,physical expression.
Well it appears that my sun and merc are conjunct his IC, but i am using the equal house system so it is only conjunct the cusp of his 4th house. However in the draco chart, that is indeed so. And i believe you're right on the money because he does tend to ride the dreamy ride and vigorously. I have been in his life long enough to know that he has left quite a few broken hearts behind while he escaped mostly unscathed. I know i impact him deeply, so that is unlikely the case this time, but i will likely never hear it from his mouth and only feel his concentrated pain from afar. His neptune is in his 12th. IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 05:55 AM
On the other hand, his NN conjunct my MC, so again, it appears i am the one feeling it the most.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 3094 From: Saturn-free H12 ;) Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 25, 2012 06:00 AM
Everytime I see strong outer planet,self-sufficient pops into my mind... And with your I-want-to-relate-fully Moon the above can be hard.IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 06:13 AM
He is not at all self sufficient actually, he goes straight from one relationship to another, perhaps its his SN libra, or maybe he fears facing himself. All i know is i am consumed by this whole thing and long 4 and a half years of this has really torn me apart, and i sound pathetic admitting it, but i have no idea how to cope with being in his life like this, and not being in his life at all. All the while he just goes on with his life.. I really have been realizing that while he may truly love me, he just may be pretty cold individual.Btw, are the charts small? Because it appears to be to me. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 3094 From: Saturn-free H12 ;) Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 25, 2012 06:21 AM
quote: All the while he just goes on with his life..
He has himself uncompromised,since he moves on so easily : self-sufficient. Maybe you want him to be dependant? You'd fall into your own trap...  IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 06:38 AM
I wonder if that is true.. I do not openly wish that, as i am a very independent person, and i actually kinda find that a turn off with men. I do however want him to want me so i guess in a way its similar. I do not know if you can see in the composite, union is conjunct the sun and venus, and eros-juno conjunct and 2 degrees away. And a lot of other asteroids seem to crowd the 11th house. Are concentrated houses like that common in the composite? Also, the asteroid karma isn't involved in synastry, yet its exactly opposing saturn in the composite. That kinda sent chills down my spine when i saw that. And i know time has come to say goodbye to him, i am just trying to figure out the fuel behind the fire so to speak because i do not understand myself when it comes to him. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 3094 From: Saturn-free H12 ;) Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 25, 2012 06:55 AM
Emotionally dependant,no one but you kind of deal.I do composites mostly when chemistry is obvious,so I have big collection of super composites,and super concentrated ones. But,I couldn't say it is rare,certainly special. Of course,I have charts of not so nice relationships,but,usually,there I find some striking conj and the rest is pretty squared. I have Cancer Venus,and these feelings you mention do reek of crabbiness... Everything is nostalgia-tinged. How can you move on when past is never really a past? Or,worse,you move on (fully funtcioning) bit still love him... You need something to crush that Cancer. No,wait,you crush crab,you give them more material IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 08:59 AM
Yeah actually, when i am that deeply invested, naturally i wish for at least some acknowledgement that i matter at least half as much. Gotta at least appreciate them cancer placements.And i realize that it is hard for aqua placements to be vulnerable, i saw him struggle with his emotions and i can honestly say, i have been more than understanding, and he's had no unreasonable pressure from me. I have been respectful of him and his relationship with other ppl but lately, with my life completely on hold, i realize i have to be strong and take responsibility and change my situation. Better go check the transits going on..  IP: Logged |
Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 02:25 PM
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Adonis Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 25, 2012 10:20 PM
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