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From: place in.., fl, usa
Registered: Jan 2012

posted February 11, 2012 11:49 AM            

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I have a mother who:
She does what I BEG her not. I've upset her in the past and she still hates me for it. She's holding a grudge and tortures me whenever she has the opportunity to. She knows I'm upset with the way she is behaving in current time, so she continues with it, way past the necessary, using the excuse of having to "teach me a lesson."
She tells me she hates me.

She knows I don't like something to do with the barbaric way she is behaving, and that she can get away with antagonizing me,so she does it.

She tells me she doesn't like me. My fxcking mothers sun is in the 12th house squaring pluto and other placements. It's totally true. I also have a moon square saturn in the natal and she is definately the flipping saturn. :'(

What aspect would you sterotype this abusive and dumb mother as?
Mothers aren't supposed to treat their children like this, & if you know someone who does, PLEASE GET them SOME HELP.

My 4th house is leo, natally and she spoils me. Both of the parents sun & moon are in my 12th and 4th house, synastry. We have great relations but if I spend too much time with them, like more then an hour, it becomes destructive. Because I know this, I avoid them altogether and try to distance myself because I don't want to attach myself to people who have continueously ripped my heart out again and again.

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posted February 11, 2012 12:05 PM            

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One word (or three): narcissistic personality disorder
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/narcissistic-personality-disorder/DS00652/DSECTION=symptoms

Sorry you're dealing with this.

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From: place in.., fl, usa
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posted February 11, 2012 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by anongrl10:
One word (or three): narcissistic personality disorder
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/narcissistic-personality-disorder/DS00652/DSECTIO N=symptoms

Sorry you're dealing with this.

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Thank you! You just made my day! I was looking for what this was called, now I can go get some help and fix my mother with the right type of social worker. Thanks again!

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posted February 11, 2012 01:09 PM            

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are you a teenager?
because that's the way I feel about my 15 year old

if so, you'll grow up and she'll grow out of it.

(their planets falling in your 12th house shows a Karmic Connection)

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posted February 12, 2012 12:24 PM            

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are you male or female? there will be lots of hormones flying around and we cannot comment until we see both natals and synastry bi wheel...

Scorpio is the most manipulative sign going..

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html
when you get this chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left should be *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up the aspect grid –at a glance planet to planet. Post the whole PDF file, what we are looking for if scroll down to ‘partner comparison’ aspect grid

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% as the max orb between planets is 3'

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posted February 12, 2012 03:44 PM            

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Sorry DS, but your mother sounds like a bit.ch.

My mother was physically & emotionally abusive towards me and my brothers growing up (and the dogs we had).

Your mother will eventually stop though.. but if you can, in the meantime distance yourself from her.

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